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Domestic Violence: The Other Side Of The Story. by rickyboss333: 12:23am On Apr 14, 2022 |
Ok, I'll try my best not to bore u guys with excessive talking cos I know I can be very expressive when it comes to writing. Also forgive any grammatical or typo errors therein as I am putting this up straight up without any second thoughts or editing. Alot of stories of domestic violence lately on social media have actually triggered me to make this page, as I intend to get opinions from matured minds here on NL, especially as it connects and concerns me, my own experience and my personality, using my personal true life account as a case study. Basically, my objective, just like my topic reads is hearing the other side of the story, I mean rather from d "beatee" but from the "beater". I know that many, if not most of you guys reading this right now would probably have this notion like "there is nothing in this world that should warrant a man to touch a woman, no matter what", and believe me I also think so too, but then, I am a kind of person that likes to put my self in people's shoes and try to see and understand from their perspective, and see why they had to do what they did, as humans that we all are. Most of the time when these stories of domestic violence come up on d internet, just like every other stories, there is always one side of d story, usually the "surviving beatee" or a close relation or friend, or should I say, a supporter to d deceased "beatee", that's in a case when she doesn't survive it. When this stories are told, especially when it is an account from the woman (beatee), whenever she needs to give full account about what lead to the beating, it is always summarized as "a mere misunderstanding", or "little misunderstanding", or a phrase that makes it look like it is not worth d next action taken by d man. I haven't forgotten that, "no matter what it is d woman did...blablabla" (am sure most babes must be saying right now), but let us just try ba, drop all sentiments and let's look at the situation carefully and then put ourselves in the man's shoes, and honestly make some humane conclusion. Let's use my story as a practical illustration. Yes I know I may not be married and some might say that being in a relationship is quite different from marriage, but u will agree with me that all things being equal, the only difference between marriage and relationship is the child or children inclusion factor cos I totally agree with u that the introduction of children in a marriage changes a lot of things...infact, right from when the woman is heavily pregnant, let alone when d baby is out. Asides this, one can liken a serious relationship of two mature people as that of being married (just agree with me first, so I can tell my story, lol). I am a very decipline kind of person but I can also be very naughty, witty, and too nice as well , especially if I had put sense aside because am inluv. I use to date this babe I loved so much, and this love of mine 4 this chick came with a lot of me trying to be very understanding, caring, loving and lots of sacrifices. my normal me, I try to live my life, trying to avoid things that may bring problems, which works 4 me quite well (except that ppl most times don't see what I try to do at a particular time, n sometimes they see me like being too cautious or forming over smart n all that, because d problem was avoided and it gets to feel like that's how it was meant 2 be, not until it happens n they begin 2 say things like, if I had know shey I would have done this or that talk). Overtime, I got 2 love this babe so much that I practically do everything 4 this babe, down to even washing her pants, and even shaving her pubic hair (yes, I can be that mumuish, and honestly I enjoy doing things like that 4 a woman I truly love cos I want her 2 know I can do anything 4 her, since I may not be able to "buy" her "love" ![]() Sorry 4 d long epistle |
Re: Domestic Violence: The Other Side Of The Story. by 4teenblaq: 12:37am On Apr 14, 2022 |
Op I go swear for you if you no sound the bitch back.. ![]() ![]() What an effrontery!!! |
Re: Domestic Violence: The Other Side Of The Story. by rickyboss333: 12:57am On Apr 14, 2022 |
4teenblaq: Taaaaaa!!!! Make I hear say e end like that. Even Jesus Christ vexed one time, carry stick scatter ppl market, spoil things , craze 4 ppl wey come turn church to market. Na me wey b dem born inside sin go collect better slap, then I go come kiss am 4 forehead in return abi? |
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