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Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by ukaface(f): 7:57pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ExcelDBM:so in the case of will smith, Jada is to be blamed for his stupidity? Jada made it obvious that she didn't love him, still he keeps going on with her, and you are blaming her? Na you know where you dey meet this kine women o |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by ExcelDBM: 7:57pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
cococandy: Your comment here is insignificant. Runaway from here immediately. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by ExcelDBM: 7:59pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ukaface: Oh so you see how you women are funny, is it not your wish that men become stupid like will Smith so you can manipulate him and wh0re around as you wish? |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Nobody: 8:00pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Yes it is because its another peoples tradition we are copying our own should end in our traditional marriage too. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by maasoap(m): 8:01pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
odinson1: Raise your kids together as parents. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by LocalStandard1(m): 8:03pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Murphyenemuwe: Baba listen to me, it has been researched and proven that people who marry as virgins are very less likely to cheat cos they know sex only with their spouse. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by maasoap(m): 8:07pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
DontBullshitMe: Very much correct. They would be condemning marriage but still do it when reality kicks in. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by ukaface(f): 8:07pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ExcelDBM:your mindset is absurd...smh Sorry can't continue wit this conversation. Try not to be one sided, stop acting like you are the victim, like y'all are saints. How can you say it's the wish of women for men to become stupid, where do you get all these notion from sef? To manipulate and LovePeddler around? You feel that's what women do? So myopic of you, I must say. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by EgunMogaji2: 8:07pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Marriage has outlived its usefulness in this modern era. Make your cash, hire a MaiGuard and Housemaid and you’ll be good. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Cutehector(m): 8:09pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
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Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by ExcelDBM: 8:11pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ukaface: It's factual. When a man is obsessed with a woman and does things for her at his own detriment, she is hailed by her peers for being smart. They'll say she is lucky. Now isn't that tantamount to wishing such naivety and dimwittedness on the other gender? 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Sureplug123(m): 8:14pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ukaface:every woman is a time bomb. The reason why most women are still in marriage is because we practice patriarchy in Nigeria. They can't face life alone. 3 Likes |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Nobody: 8:16pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ibechris:.are all the above automatically applicable to married couples ? You are just one in a million ... majority wins the vote... Is it all married couples that gets jeep on their wedding day ? Is it all married couples that can save money together without regret ? Is it all married couples that can save money in their wife's account without regret ? Is it all married couples that can buy properties in the name of the wife without regret ? The OP spoke what is happening in many marriages |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by kowalsky: 8:17pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Aystarz: I call it the trophy wife syndrome 2 Likes |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Nobody: 8:20pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Nyascobar1414:Sure bro.. can u help delete that my mention when u can? Thanks |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by DaddyGngeess(m): 8:25pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
tonididdy: I never said marriage is for everyone or I am saying the sweet part of it, there is one thing most of us men don't understand, we are always talking about ourself do we sometimes consider this women that left their families and leave with us, do you think is easy for them too? I still repeat what I said earlier if you find a good hard working woman you will understand, I am telling you this from experience after been involved with three different women b4 this my current wife. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Kingjames(m): 8:25pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Thankgod one of those genders agreed with the @op We shall get there ukaface: |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by tonididdy(m): 8:29pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
DaddyGngeess:I'm not an anti-marriage person but I'll never sweet talk anyone into it because I KNOW IT'S NOT ALL ROSY. MOSTIMES IT'S 70% thorns AND 30% rosy |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by DaddyGngeess(m): 8:35pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
tonididdy: Even me will never sweet talk anyone into it, everyone should do what makes them happy, simple |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by tonididdy(m): 8:38pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
DaddyGngeess:Comrade, now you sound better! |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by litaninja(m): 8:38pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
lmao. crap. ibechris: |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by ibechris(m): 8:39pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
DryMouth: |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by DrFunmisticGlow: 8:40pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
sgtponzihater1:So sorry to hear you are going through this my friend. I think maybe you are being emotionally,and financially abused. The question now is, what do you want? Could you see a counselor/ therapist who specializes in dealing with covert narcissists. Happy Easter my friend. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by ibechris(m): 8:45pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
DryMouth: U are not happy shey...well,I don't care how u perceive it but I can only say u lack sense. My comment may not suit u nor go in your way,pls say your own and stop countering me. People like u are obviously marriage haters and non achievers and a true example of typical failure in life 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by ibechris(m): 8:46pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
BuddhaPalm: Just like u have been divorcing women. 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Ishilove: 8:50pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
omotola90:Don't mind the demon. Misery loves company. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by BRATISLAVA: 8:51pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ibechris: You're trying to explain something to single boys from scattered homes, poisoned by the red pill. Beyond their indoctrination they have no idea about life. They have been told they have nothing to benefit from marriage, and they have swallowed it hook line and sinker. Can't you see they've already determined to fail at relationships and marriage with their selfish reasoning? How can they enter marriage looking for exclusive benefits, why not marry themselves then? How can people be so myopic? Who on Earth that wants to be married goes into marriage with such a mindset? No wonder marriages are crashing. These boys crash them, then say they are crashing without dealing with their attitudes in marriage. 4 Likes |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by lexy2014: 8:55pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Ericnrm: It seems you didn't understand the question I asked. The gentleman I asked claimed that "the marriage rate is declining yearly". You are talking about divorce rates which is different from marriage rate. I didn't ask about divorce rate |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by LoudlyMouthed: 8:57pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
LordIsaac:God saw your pains. You got a good wife bro. You must hv taken care to really know her wella before getting married. He who finds a good wife, has found a good thing. They'd surely 100% progress, succeed, enjoy everything that happens to them - child(ren), money, fame.. LordIsaac: if she loves you, you'd live longer, happier and better 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Sureplug123(m): 8:58pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:3 months after, they all loose their knot |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Nyascobar1414: 9:02pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
omotola90: Be realistic man... This is reality |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by LoudlyMouthed: 9:04pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
No mind d guy He's very fortunate. Likely the girl loves him more. Cos if otherwise ehn, he won't be here saying all these, evn with the Jeep.. he for dey here reading comments AntiTerrorists: |
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