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Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Kobojunkie: 9:06pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Sureplug123:Let's assume for one second that you are right, So? 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by LoudlyMouthed: 9:09pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
CorrectBizWoman:Going by the stats, If author=CorrectBizWoman is Female, you truly love your spouse, and may Almighty God bless you abundantly, continually for that If author=CorrectBizWoman is Male, she loves you more. Pls always thank God for her Go and ask those before you in marriage 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by optm(m): 9:23pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Czario:different individuals have their definitions for 'good wife' . to me, a good spouse is one that complements you;willing to support you, knows respect and is ready to give same to you. A partner that also understands selflessness and is willing to sacrifice for the common good . When you define what a good spouse is to you, then you would look out for those values in whomever you are considering 6 Likes |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by HitSong: 9:32pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
sgtponzihater1:Bro, I know exactly what you're going through or gone through. Believe me, you brought it upon yourself. I was almost in your shoes but thank God, I was able to turn the table around and now, dem no born her mama well make she no do normal... The main problem is that your wife thinks she's irreplaceable and your existence depends on her. People like her don't like nice people... You need to put her in her place. Be mean Be selfish Be careless Don't give a fuçk Don't have sex with her nor make any move to have sex. Make friends with a new girl that you'll communicate with frequently Don't eat her food Come home with good meal from good restaurants and enjoy yourself Leave the house frequently and return late or take some days off without returning and don't explain your to her when you get back. BE READY FOR DIVORCE WHICH IS EVEN A GOOD OPTION. While doing all these, NEVER LISTEN TO ANYONE WHO TRIES TO ADVICE OR CALL YOU TO ORDER. Like nobody even your mother. Forget about your child suffering, she'll survive and it won't take time. I am 100% sure that if you do all these in 3 months, SHE WILL DEFINITELY CHANGE. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by LoudlyMouthed: 9:37pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Hathor5:The man or the lazy wife? Did you see the thread of that other woman praising her husband with demeaning insults even till his privilege was withdrawn such that tws the children (grown-up) who countered her (viral) claim of domestic violence among other things? Yes, there are men who're v.v.faulty here, jokes apart. But if you want a home, as a woman, you can make it. It's not about keeping quiet/ enduring the beating/ abuse.. NO. It's not about living with a lazy, dog headed man.. NO. Such men aren't ready for any relationship - business, family.. If he loves n truly cares for you as he should, you have the remaining assignments to do. Respect (not mockery pls, cos they know all fake moves, orgasm, beauty.. from real evn if they don't tell you) - men love it, big time! Industriousness - men prefer a hardworking wife to a burden, even if he asked for full housewife. She'd be doing business even in his absence, yet fulfilling other roles as needed. I bet you, men love such women with their life even if they don't openly say it. A man who sweeps the floor isn't bad. I have several who do such A man who cooks isn't bad. I have several who do such A man who wash clothes.. isn't bad. I have several who do such But not when shes lying on the bed pressing phone, chatting, lazyily sleeping, giving excuse, mocking him, demoralizing him, abusing him, hurting him, downgrading him.. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Davemarine: 9:41pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
odinson1: Go and check the dictionary for the meaning of "Bastard" Then tell me, is the society better off with bastard or those born into a responsible home and well trained 2 Likes |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Kaysalas(m): 9:43pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
LordIsaac:Guys! Behold! The secret of life long happiness |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by LoudlyMouthed: 9:48pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Simply put, develop yourself - Enjoy life as you deserve cos it's from hardwork. HitSong:When a man selflessly falls in love today, he's taken for granted, as a joke, simple and easy to manipulate object. When he's blunt from the scratch, he receives submission in return. She'd cook n evn ask of his favorite before he reach house. Clothes, dishes.. underwear, genitals, whole sexy body.. taken care of so other babes dnt see him to toast. Meanwhile, she's gtn a 6hr Mon-Fri Wrk, and 2kids. Yet it all gets done. Aren't women unfair to themselves? However, they're their very enemies! If any side chick show up, she go turn red (I was there in his poverty, stuck with him in bad times..) 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by kaymart: 9:49pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Cashio:Sometimes, Foolish people think they are wise. How funny... He's even bragging about his lack of foresight 2 Likes |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Mom007(f): 9:50pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
MindHacker9009:Wow! Now I'm sad. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by LoudlyMouthed: 9:50pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
LordIsaac:Ep increase the volume abeg 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by HitSong: 9:51pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ibechris:Keep FOOLING YOURSELF... Woman wrapper .. I bet your wife is the major provider here .. good for you 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by tradepunter: 9:54pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ibechris: This is what I hate about people like you.... Just because it turned out well for you doesn't mean it's the same for others... Say your part but don't always go on to day it's a good... Make your point and let people weigh all sides and make their decision... 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by LoudlyMouthed: 9:56pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
MindHacker9009: A holy book says it better to live in a house full of holes when it's raining than living with some types of wives. May God EpUs 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by advanceDNA: 10:04pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
DaddyGngeess: What do you mean by is it easy for them to leave their family...when did that become a hard thing to Do? Leave your father's house to come and have a penís all to yourself...plus A partner paying the bills.. heck! If the lady is lucky..she may even get cars..money in account..houses..maids...trip abroad.. Wait...was it easy or hard for you leaving your own family?? Cos I don't get how you are making leaving ones family to marry to be a hard thing and a female-exclusive thing 2 Likes |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Teerach: 10:05pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Op, can you do us a favor and tell us how you met the lady? Cos this story isn't adding up and for readers to learn. and lastly, there's always a red flag. You ignored something. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Legendforte: 10:08pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Just thinking how to get my kids without matrimony. I hate nonsense and wickedness. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by DaddyGngeess(m): 10:09pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
advanceDNA: My brother calm down, is not every woman that is lazy, some are even more hard working than their husband self this days, (for example my wife ) I guess u know that. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by advanceDNA: 10:15pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
DaddyGngeess: How does this statement of yours answer my question...i never said all women are lazy... You made leaving their fathers house or rented house look like a hard and great sacrifice....i was just wondering how.. U even made it look like it's only them that leaves their fathers house to marry men who many times relieves their burden...im just wondering.. mayb I don't see it from your angle.. 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Hassanmaye(m): 10:19pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
odinson1:Leave the fool he will learn the hard way 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Hassanmaye(m): 10:20pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
NewSoul:You scared the shit out of my life |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Hassanmaye(m): 10:21pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Jazzman01:Are you sure |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by aimmoney9: 10:23pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ibechris:Davido bought only land in banana island 2.5billion and he is not married...... Abeg shift..... |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by aimmoney9: 10:25pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
LocalStandard1:Adopt ke....... Who no wan carry their own child...... Yeye dey smell...... |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by advanceDNA: 10:31pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
aimmoney9: You like violence...lol 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by HitSong: 10:32pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
odinson1:It doesn't truly work like that in reality. Social media is feeding you guys trash 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by calliking(m): 10:40pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ibechris: You’re a mumu man. 4 Likes |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Cutehector(m): 10:40pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Mom007:why you sad? What he posted happens. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by aimmoney9: 10:52pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ibechris:Marriage is not for everyone....... Worse of only 10% of married people the world over are truly married the remaining 90% are in manage...... Some people got married 3 or more times like funke akindele and it did not work out..... Nelson Mandela stayed 27 yrs in prison came out and stayed only 6months with his wife and said he could not bear it..... God did not marry...... Jesus didn't marry...... Even devil no marry....... Think am...... 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Hassanmaye(m): 10:52pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
sgtponzihater1:You just scare me, then How can I know a woman before marriage 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Hassanmaye(m): 10:54pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Cashio:His eyes Go clear 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by MindHacker9009(m): 10:56pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Mom007: Please cheer up sis. Well I just have to give thanks to God for His mercies throughout my ordeal. I now feel it should be the duty of parents to lecture their sons on red flags to look out for before going into a relationship that will lead to marriage because truth be said there are jezebels out there looking for nice gentlemen to devour. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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