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Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Toks2008(m): 9:48pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Lalasticlala, what is your take? |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by farouk2much(m): 11:02am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Every one should blame his/her self |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Taiggarr: 11:04am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Sekoni003: Yes... Pls also caution the womenfolk.. I see your comment is directed to ONLY the man... 2 Likes |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Taiggarr: 11:05am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Sekoni003: Yes.. Pls also caution the womenfolk.. I see your comment is directed to ONLY the man... 1 Like |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by fredoooooo: 11:05am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Any party that starts the abuse , be it physical or emotional |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Optmus(m): 11:07am On Apr 19, 2022 |
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Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by fredoooooo: 11:08am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Sekoni003:Angel Gabriel ... you people will keep shouting men should go for a walk.. advice the women too na abi ... 3 Likes |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Streett: 11:08am On Apr 19, 2022 |
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Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by 30naira: 11:08am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Toks2008: I usually agree with you on a lot of things. But the way you slyly escused verbal abuse is unacceptable. If a man must bear verbal abuse because a woman's power lies in her tongue, then should a woman not also bear physical abuse because a man's power lies in his fist? We must condemn all forms of abuse, verbal of physical, none should be tolerated. As much as I advice women to leave abusive marriages, men should also leave verbally abusive women 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Taiggarr: 11:09am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: You are an ABUSER!!!! See all the BILE coming out of your mouth.. 3 Likes |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by maestro299: 11:10am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Favfables1:Nice one! I never understand why people excuse verbal abuse by women as, "she's just being a woman", then turn round to crucify men for using their own 'physical advantage' on a woman. By that same logic, isn't he "just being a man?" Abuse should be condemned no matter the form it takes. Trivializing one and demonizing the other is fruitless when it comes to building healthy relationships... I believe what the bible says is paramount: "... wives submit to your husband's and husband's love your wives..." 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Taiggarr: 11:11am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Toks2008: How about "No one supports physical abuse from a man but if it happens just refrain from abusing him" Kids..... 4 Likes |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Taiggarr: 11:11am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Toks2008: How about "No one supports physical abuse from a man but if it happens just refrain from abusing him" Kids... 1 Like |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by mywells: 11:11am On Apr 19, 2022 |
If you're raise with love definitely you'll love people,but if you're not raise with love there no way you can exhibit the act of love,there no love again just a need to have a partner .but deep down the heart there's no love. 1 Like
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Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by ednut1(m): 11:12am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Society most times. Some women are financially dependent on the man and cant leave, some leaves and get sent back to the husband by their family. For the men some are beasts, some are doing transfered aggression. You never balance you go marry born 5 kids put pressure on your self , then begin to batter your wife. Solution- government should enforce DV laws, but again when the husband is jailed the wife and kids will end up starving too |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by ivolt: 11:12am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Blame the violent perpetrator. If a garage tout stabs a man for "insulting" him, everybody will condemn the tout. If a husband did the same, many will blame the woman for the attack. 1 Like |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by 30naira: 11:12am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: Verbal abuse can seriously impact mental and physical health. It can cause death too. 5 Likes |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by boookworm: 11:15am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Mr Op why do you have to give women a free pass when they use their 'power' by abusing verbally but ask men To refrain from using theirs? Do you even know the psychological effects verbal abuse can have on a man? Physical abuse can heal in a few weeks, verbal abuse can last years to heal. A lot of people have lost confidence due to verbal abuse, some have even committed suicide. It's really irritating that you have to downplay verbal abuse like that. Please let's be fair in our submission. How about you ask both parties not to abuse at all 3 Likes |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Utanisco(m): 11:19am On Apr 19, 2022 |
I can never lay ma hands on a woman No matter the condition Any man who does that is an infidel(biblically) |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by maestro299: 11:19am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Prettygirl200:Why do you think so? Because there are no visible scars? Aunty, it's even worse. The victim of verbal and emotional abuse can be affected by the trauma for many years. It's just as deadly or even more deadlier than physical abuse. 5 Likes |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by JovialJune(f): 11:20am On Apr 19, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: Cause and effect Will a woman just wake up one day with insults? What triggered it? What did the husband do? Men don't insult their wives? They've never done that before? How come most women don't react by going physical? How do they react emotionally abused by their husband's? Why do you men accept verbal emotional insults and violence from your fellow men, but behave like King Kong if same is done by women? 2 Likes |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Prettygirl200(f): 11:20am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Taiggarr:Do u have a problem with that |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Keyyom22: 11:21am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Favfables1:You see now u work away from slightly verbal abuse is that too hard to do in real life? |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Skillsnigeria: 11:22am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Hmmm |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Prettygirl200(f): 11:22am On Apr 19, 2022 |
maestro299:Really?? |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by JovialJune(f): 11:23am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Keyyom22: Good question. 2 Likes |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Ebubu: 11:23am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Prettygirl200:and the woman who verbally abuses her husband nko? Some will stand in his way and dare him, âcome and pass through if youâre a manâ. Thunder faya all of una toto Tey am with me if u no go collect woto woto Say no to verbal abuse you woman. |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by MNDY(m): 11:24am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: Mr. Man, for how long will you continue walking away? From your own house? Oh, so that she will get used to it abi? When there is a problem, you look at the root-cause. Verbal/emotional abuse initiate physical abuse. Why did your thread not focus on how to tackle the cause of the problem -Woman? You are still busy looking for who to blame when it's very clear that it is the Woman. Or do you think an unprovoked man will just start beating a woman just like that? Verbal/emotional abuse are capable of making a man suicidal if you don't know how serious it is. 2 Likes |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by JovialJune(f): 11:25am On Apr 19, 2022 |
maestro299: Show statistical links and facts on how verbal abuse is more deadlier than physical abuse? Show statistical links on how verbal abuse from women and not from men is more deadlier than physical abuse and stop the baseless assumption. 2 Likes |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Ebubu: 11:26am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: Do you women walk away ? No, you verbally abuse your partner and think it doesnât hurt him Do you know what it does to his self esteem, confidence and personality? It tears him up from inside. You people are here thinking it is all about physical hurt never consider the consequences o your emotional and verbal abuse 2 Likes |
Re: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by ABANGWABOI(m): 11:27am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Women are mostly the cause of domestic violence.. Let them learn how to respect their Husbands and see if it won't reduce drastically... As for now.. I am enjoying the drama 1 Like |
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