Deedee49: Please help out with ur advices if u can!

I have a friend, who is veeeery pretty! She's light in complexion and her skin glows, she's spotless, with long hair.... In summary, she is perfect! She started dating officially at d age of 18. Now 9 years after she started dating,she has a list of about 29 men she's eva dated! She is not a flirt,and dated dis men one at a time. And becos of her beauty men always flock around her,but de neva last! Her longest relationship lasted for 11 months. Now, d problem is, de always complain just before de opt out, dat she's too romantic, too loving, infact too perfect! She decided to be d opposite, and d men still complain she doesn't do enough! Her wish now is for number 30 to be D one, but she's scared to even start dating him! Wat do u advice her to do pls?!!

NB:
U knw how we do it; mature comments only. If u have noting to say turn to d backpage! Thank u!

Mr..Cork:


sweeery am ready for marraige... Bring her!

kilimanjaro: I don't have any advise for her. What i have to say is for you to link me up with her. I won't complain.

Rocktation: Well, there's nothing to do save continue testing the microphone. You know what they say about the last keys in bunches. Whether she wakes up at dawn or she does so at dusk, the water at the river that's hers to fetch, can never flow past her calabash.

tpia@:
why not hide cork's own as well.


he's obviously scared of being banned, but hide his posts while you're pondering his case.

Macallon: So we are really supposed to believe you are asking for a friend huh?

Macallon: So we are really supposed to believe you are asking for a friend huh?

apocalypse: Ooookaaay , since we are advising your friend ( who are we kidding ) , I can only say she needs to know why men aren't seeing all the plusses you have highlighted but dwell on the little minus ( it's not even a minus ) she has. Me thinks she isn't as good as she claims and the men don't see the wifey material in her.

Deedee49:




Hahahahahahahahaha! Its tpia@ on my case again.... I tot u'd have an advice for me, because ur posts are neva seen on threads dat aren't worth d effort,right! Perhaps it was hidden, dont knw. Tanx 4d compliment though (wierdo? Is dat d best u can do?). Come on, u are tpia@, rememba?

omega25red: your girl friend is making a mistake by putting a number on the people she has dated because now she has placed an unrealistic pressure on herself with 30.

she has obviously been dating a bunch of play boys because no man who is ready to settle down would complain that a woman is too romantic or too nice. Also your friend has dated 29 guys but she seems to not be learning anything from the 29 experiences she has had.

tell your friend to take some time off from dating and have a retrospect of all the guys she has dated. This way she can see where things went wrong or at least she would get to know herself a little bit.

when some time pass, then she can come back to the dating game and hoppfully thing will work out for her. so has your friend slept with all 29 guys of the past?

apocalypse:

I doubt you know what MATURE is , it's only kids you advise by trying not to hurt their feelings or not saying the hard truth. If truly your friend has all those plusses as you said and she still can't get a man then she has a problem , re-evaluate your friend and find out where she errs , it can't get more MATURE and truer than that

tpia@:



I'm sure you would like to receive my attention in order to give you some aura of respectability around here, but unfortunately i think you're stuck shopping for bootycalls on nl, without recourse to anything worthwhile.

Dont let me disturb you from entertaining your 30 or 40 suitors dearie, and while you're at it, may i also invite you to have an encounter with Jesus Christ of Nazareth who can fill you up the way no human being can. We're talking of the real Jesus here, not the manmade one.

When you're ready to stop following your demons, you know what to do- say a simple prayer and go from there.


That sound like advice to you?