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Re: Desperately Desperate!!! by nunicelady(f): 12:03pm On Jun 26, 2012
She should settle down and pray. Relationships do not have any particular formular. Her man would come at the right time. Don't press for love and don't press for a husband. Just be yourself.
I was desperate myself. And I know where that landed me.

She would meet her man at God's appointed time.
Re: Desperately Desperate!!! by Shyne22: 12:43pm On Jun 26, 2012
@deedee... So much love for your friend you got. I wish everybody can do same. That said, I think ur frnd should try Astrological match comparison for her dates. I don't say she should blv all she sees there but I bet you it's so rich not just on relationships but on how to live with people around us. If it was possible I would have teach her more on it but she can get it all from surfing the net. It's 99% possible those she has met ain't hers, despite they all left her. There re tns we don't need preaching n quoting bible pages when d knowledge has already been impacted on us. I'm, no voodoo, I'm a catholic but like I said its common knowledge that when we get it we quickly back it up with prayers. Talking from experience cos I now control some personal acts that affects me in the past. Good luck on ur research!!!

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Re: Desperately Desperate!!! by Deedee49(f): 12:53pm On Jun 26, 2012
Shyne22: @deedee... So much love for your friend you got. I wish everybody can do same. That said, I think ur frnd should try Astrological match comparison for her dates. I don't say she should blv all she sees there but I bet you it's so rich not just on relationships but on how to live with people around us. If it was possible I would have teach her more on it but she can get it all from surfing the net. It's 99% possible those she has met ain't hers, despite they all left her. There re tns we don't need preaching n quoting bible pages when d knowledge has already been impacted on us. I'm, no voodoo, I'm a catholic but like I said its common knowledge that when we get it we quickly back it up with prayers. Talking from experience cos I now control some personal acts that affects me in the past. Good luck on ur research!!!


Yea, someone told me sometin about dis astrological match tin sometime back! I for one don't really believe in it. But if it can help, there's no harm in tryin! Thank u so much!
Re: Desperately Desperate!!! by jonaboy: 1:39pm On Jun 26, 2012
Deedee49: Please help out with ur advices if u can!

I have a friend, who is veeeery pretty! She's light in complexion and her skin glows, she's spotless, with long hair.... In summary, she is perfect! She started dating officially at d age of 18. Now 9 years after she started dating,she has a list of about 29 men she's eva dated! She is not a flirt,and dated dis men one at a time. And becos of her beauty men always flock around her,but de neva last! Her longest relationship lasted for 11 months. Now, d problem is, de always complain just before de opt out, dat she's too romantic, too loving, infact too perfect! She decided to be d opposite, and d men still complain she doesn't do enough! Her wish now is for number 30 to be D one, but she's scared to even start dating him! Wat do u advice her to do p ls?!! Pls if u truly wish the best for ur friend do her this great service by linking her up with me,she will never have cause to look for number 31.

NB:
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Re: Desperately Desperate!!! by eghost247(m): 1:56pm On Jun 26, 2012
No venture no success she should quit whining and get out there you never know who could be Mr Right
Re: Desperately Desperate!!! by Konnektions146(m): 4:14pm On Jun 26, 2012
OP,
i just heard u talk abt Astrology, for what? no provoke me ooo.

anyways, i would say she relax a little and think, she is de only person dat can tell her self de truth, men can be too funny dat dey sweet tongue as dey wanna get somethin from u....moreso dere is somethhin witj VER PRETTY LADIES, seriously most men dont take dem serious.
there is dis general impression dat as u are talkin to her, a lot more is talkin to her and dat as a lady, she will succumb to some advances........thus de natural unseriousness from de guys towards her.

pls ask her to take a break, think and find out where de issues really are coming from
at what point does de relationships start gettin bad??
is she so clingy/over bearin/too jealous, nagging , too demanding, childish,

she should really do a lot of thinking and re-thinking and find out what and where de issue is and i am sure she will be able to identify de faults if she is not too full of her self.

wishin her de best

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Re: Desperately Desperate!!! by Deedee49(f): 6:54pm On Jun 26, 2012
Konnektions146: OP,
i just heard u talk abt Astrology, for what? no provoke me ooo.

anyways, i would say she relax a little and think, she is de only person dat can tell her self de truth, men can be too funny dat dey sweet tongue as dey wanna get somethin from u....moreso dere is somethhin witj VER PRETTY LADIES, seriously most men dont take dem serious.
there is dis general impression dat as u are talkin to her, a lot more is talkin to her and dat as a lady, she will succumb to some advances........thus de natural unseriousness from de guys towards her.

pls ask her to take a break, think and find out where de issues really are coming from
at what point does de relationships start gettin bad??
is she so clingy/over bearin/too jealous, nagging , too demanding, childish,

she should really do a lot of thinking and re-thinking and find out what and where de issue is and i am sure she will be able to identify de faults if she is not too full of her self.

wishin her de best



Someone actually adviced dat she tries astrology match or sometin like dat! Ur advice is a really good one! Thanks so much!!!
Re: Desperately Desperate!!! by Konnektions146(m): 8:45pm On Jun 26, 2012
Deedee49:



Someone actually adviced dat she tries astrology match or sometin like dat! Ur advice is a really good one! Thanks so much!!!

i dont buy de idea of astrology cos -ยป
-will de astrologer find her a man
-if u eventually find a match according to astrology, yur mind will be preprogrammed to work as de predictions says and thats not good cos relationships doesnt have a definite mode of operation.
-her general life will be guided by such primciples and if she is with some kinda men who dont like such, anoda problem looms and separation follows.

so she should open her head ,clear her mind and reposition for de challenges ahead,

wishin her de best
Re: Desperately Desperate!!! by Youngpo413: 2:02pm On Nov 16, 2014
Rocktation:
Whether she wakes up at dawn or she does so at dusk, the water at the river that's hers to fetch, can never flow past her calabash.


wow,nice one...
Re: Desperately Desperate!!! by Youngpo413: 2:04pm On Nov 16, 2014
Deedee49:



She's way too innocent for u dear. Thanks for d offer!



too innocent?after about 29 cocksss don scatter your pusy abi?
Re: Desperately Desperate!!! by Youngpo413: 2:06pm On Nov 16, 2014
Macallon:
So we are really supposed to believe you are asking for a friend huh?


I wonder o
Re: Desperately Desperate!!! by lolaluv1(f): 2:13pm On Nov 16, 2014
She should relax.

I know this might sound cliche, but the truth is that her man would find her and there would be no complaints. He wouldn't mind the little imperfections these other guys are pointing at.
Re: Desperately Desperate!!! by Youngpo413: 2:14pm On Nov 16, 2014
Deedee49:




Finally! Someone has made a comment! Thank u Omega! Dont mind me with d 30 guys tin. I dont really knw how many guys she's dated, she said alot of guys, i asked if i should put 29, she laughed and said yes! And as to weda she's slept wit dem all, i dont knw, dats her personal tin! I just emailed ur advice to her, and her reply was a thumbs up!!! Thank u so much!


wow 29 multiplied by three...I pity her little pusy...

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