oke2018:
I don't the exact facebook group , Are you the OP

NO.I am just concern cos when geniue help seeker will show,INSTEAD of help they would be ABUSE,BASH AND CURSE

oke2018:
It seems you're the OP if not you shouldn't be bother about it , those that want to help should help am not stopping any one from helping him .

Most stories here are similar to those on facebook , maybe it is from here the story was carried to facebook who knows.

I shouldn't be bother about it, join the train in calling op a scammer just because he's a man.
madam see anybody when don go through similar issues like this knows how the matter dey be. the fact say many people dey commit suicide is because witches and wizard like hu na nor won help, still go discourage others not to.
tufia, post the link of the facebook you saw the op story from you noi fit.
you see your life

Congratulations on the change of posture.

I guess it is the "marrying her corpses" part that may sound irritating or something, but believe me, you're doing the right thing for posterity sake.

It is just a series of rites, it also shows your love and respect her.

God bless you and make provisions for you, now and in the future. Amen

Hmmmmm

KiNg0G:
bros, noi vex I just dey explain matter give you say op nor go get one naira from anybody here, even if he cinema everything upload for youtube post here.
them don already spoil people mind for the front page

BOSS! vexing is not the game and beside you can't just conclude like that.no matter how small the token is,once the truth is proven(family's names and location) i can surrender my wisdow's might

Invictuse:
Same reason you are the scammer now.

whatever rocks your boat mister
Don't pick a cross that isn't yours!

Miner13:
NO.I am just concern cos when geniue help seeker will show,INSTEAD of help they would be ABUSE,BASH AND CURSE

You can't actually know a genuine seeker this day because of scammers.

That's why you as a genuine seeker you'll go extra mile in other for you to prove your innocence , if it's by showing your real face and all that then do it without shame.

If you haven't been scammed before you won't know the feelings , I have been there so I know what I'm saying.

KiNg0G:

I shouldn't be bother about it, join the train in calling op a scammer just because he's a man.
madam see anybody when don go through similar issues like this knows how the matter dey be. the fact say many people dey commit suicide is because witches and wizard like hu na nor won help, still go discourage others not to.
tufia, post the link of the facebook you saw the op story from you noi fit.
you see your life

Honestly @seun needs to do better on the kind of characters signing up on this forum otherwise it will loose value
You nor EPP person, you will still block the person from getting EPP.
If that's nor witchcraft, I dunno what is.

oke2018:
You can't actually know a genuine seeker this day because of scammers.

That's why you as a genuine seeker you'll go extra mile in other for you to prove your innocence , if it's by showing your real face and all that then do it without shame.

If you haven't been scammed before you won't know the feelings , I have been there so I know what I'm saying.

Oh please
How much dem scam you?
Is it not this same forum, one guy always post photos and videos of his illness, yet people still tag him a fraud!.
Allow those who want to help, to help. Don't try to stop them.
It's a different case if it's a Ponzi ( buy and sell type of thing).

AdaAwka1:


You dont need to ask for financial help. Prostrate and let the family know ur financial strenth, dat u dont have money, moreover dont u have any family?? Why expect nairalanders to provide money for u to marry ur late girl friend. Beg the family even though dem fit no gree. But beg sha.

... What wrong had he done in seeking financial assistance from NL?

KiNg0G:

I shouldn't be bother about it, join the train in calling op a scammer just because he's a man.
madam see anybody when don go through similar issues like this knows how the matter dey be. the fact say many people dey commit suicide is because witches and wizard like hu na nor won help, still go discourage others not to.
tufia, post the link of the facebook you saw the op story from you noi fit.
you see your life

Is not matter of tufiakwa anything except you're not in Nigeria.

Let him go extra mile to prove his innocence , same thing they will tell people to be careful of all this ponzi scheme at the end they will see you as enemy of progress.

Hope they're enjoying the proceeds now from those schemes, people don't longer wants to hear the truth again.

Anybody that wants to help let them help , if I need help I will come out with my full chest , most people have been helped on facebook so what's the fuss ����

StilmaVsBorn2w:
Update:

Sorry my people I asked for financial assistance.
am at her fathers compound presently,. I know everything will fall in place.
God works in mysterious ways, thank you all for your comments.
once again thank you

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7102223/want-me-marry-corpse-refused

upon all your gra gra in the previous thread

oke2018:
Is not matter of tufiakwa anything except you're not in Nigeria.

Let him go extra mile to prove his innocence , same thing they will tell people to be careful of all this ponzi scheme at the end they will see you as enemy of progress.

Hope they're enjoying the proceeds now from those schemes, people don't longer wants to hear the truth again.

Anybody that wants to help let them help , if I need help I will come out with my full chest , most people have been helped on facebook so what's the fuss ����

.so why you come tie this particular rope for neck?
Ponzi scheme is different from a man asking for financial assistance... The OP is not asking anyone to invest (loan)

oke2018:
You can't actually know a genuine seeker this day because of scammers.

That's why you as a genuine seeker you'll go extra mile in other for you to prove your innocence , if it's by showing your real face and all that then do it without shame.

If you haven't been scammed before you won't know the feelings , I have been there so I know what I'm saying.

my first and most painful scam was 5k in 2003 though small now but big then. people who still need help are outside there. we can't just ignore all, cos of some barbaric animals. if the op can prove himself and confirmed by MOD here, i'll help my little way. you and i must not stop

Nwodosis:
Let this not be new scamming format as account number done appear!

Modified, seems like my comment made the guy remove his account details.

Na you devil use to start this anti-humanity agenda.

tonididdy:

Oh please
How much dem scam you?
Is it not this same forum, one guy always post photos and videos of his illness, yet people still tag him a fraud!.
Allow those who want to help, to help. Don't try to stop them.
It's a different case if it's a Ponzi ( buy and sell type of thing).

In as much I won't want any one to stop my helpers from helping me , why will I stop someone's own , abeg make una no call me name wey dem no give me.
I only commented base on my observation and people also commented theirs , so why is my own affecting people, it only shows that there's iota of true in what I commented .

I'm not stopping anyone from helping , abeg make una help am oooooooo.

I hope no one gives the man/woman behind this moniker any kobo. Go through his past posts and see that the whole story was a scam to generate funds for people's pity.

Scammers don enter Nairaland and Mods dey help push them to Fp. Make I dey watch sha.

Miner13:
my first and most painful scam was 5k in 2003 though small now but big then. people who still need help are outside there. we can't just ignore all, cos of some barbaric animals. if the op can prove himself and confirmed by MOD here, i'll help my little way. you and i must not stop

Pls do help in your little way , inasmuch I will also like my helpers to locate me .

tonididdy:
.so why you come tie this particular rope for neck?
Ponzi scheme is different from a man asking for financial assistance... The OP is not asking anyone to invest (loan)

Na your neck dem tie am put , abi u no see am , I comment jejeley dem begin dey attack me , as I get their time so I need to answer them.

oke2018:
In as much I won't want any one to stop my helpers from helping me , why will I stop someone's own , abeg make una no call me name wey dem no give me.
I only commented base on my observation and people also commented theirs , so why is my own affecting people, it only shows that there's iota of true in what I commented .

I'm not stopping anyone from helping , abeg make una help am oooooooo.

You are stopping people.... As a matter of fact you have succeeded in stopping people from helping, so much so the OP had to modify his original post.
It's not nice now.
It's not your money, you obviously are hell bent not to assist anyone but don't stop others.
Pls the economy is hard enough, allow those willing to give what they can loose to do so.
Real story or not as long as it's not comman invest kinda thing!

tonididdy:

You are stopping people.... As a matter of fact you have succeeded in stopping people from helping, so much so the OP had to modify his original post.
It's not nice now.
It's not your money, you obviously are hell bent not to assist anyone but don't stop others.
Pls the economy is hard enough, allow those willing to give what they can loose to do so.
Real story or not as long as it's not comman invest kinda thing!

But I did not stop u na neither do I block anyone's pocket , abeg make una free me , this economy go better.

StilmaVsBorn2w:
Update:

Sorry my people I asked for financial assistance.
am at her fathers compound presently,. I know everything will fall in place.
God works in mysterious ways, thank you all for your comments.
once again thank you

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7102223/want-me-marry-corpse-refused

After reading all your comments in you previous post before this one, i was forced to believe you are a FOOL, boys like you don't deserve to be given any advice.
You were so full of yourself, even the advice you were hoping to find, you weren't cooperating at all but rather you were claiming fake rights, adamant to people's opinions.
I am very sure you took advantage of that lady, people like you always want to eat their cake and have it back.
Note: No man on Earth would be ready to give back his son to the mother's family and have no access to that son again, you boldly said you were ready to leave the son for them, you are a fool for that. You didn't even want to listen or provide cogeny answers to the questions that they were asking you.
If you knew you weren't ready to answer anyone's question, why did you bring it up here?
Your mother should have washed her hands off your matter. In fact if i were your parents, i will never contribute to the issue again after several warnings given to you.
Let me tell you something, you made mention of you not believing in curses hahaha, i pity your generation. Your offsprings done suffer for this world, you never reach to get family. You still need to work on yourself thoroughly.
There are somethings that even without being told, wisdom ought to let you know that this girl is someone's daughter, i impregnated her and haven't gone to pay for her hand in marriage. What if something happens to her?
Okay, you go catch person pikin, nack am belle, keep am for ur house and when something do am, you go bring the dead body come make the family bury am?
You are a bastard from the pit of hell, your stubbornness has put you into trouble.
You are even lucky she doesn't have a hostile family honestly, your families for don hear am wotowoto.
You yourself for don get stroke join am, not every family you will mess up with and go scot free. You even talk like a child that has been spoilt by his family or whatever. Maturity no be by age or body structure, na by your doings and your words out of your mouth.
Next time, don't bring your foolishness to the public to give you some advice when you know you will not provide every necessary details.
My brother congratulations, happy married life to you anyways, in your next world you go learn. Your mouth dey sharp since, " I can't marry the corpse, why should I? bla bla bla, na still this same mouth you carry come tell us again say you don agree to marry the corpse. Do you know what that means? Lol sorry o, now they have left you now. E never clear for your eyes?
If e pain you, sit down and think about your life properly... You need to grow up,

UncommonLogic:

They are barbarians. What a pathetic way of life.
Sad part is these are the same set of people that are quick to talk about other people's cultures and religion.
Smh

Other tribes in the south also practice this tradition. From the last thread, Edo, and People from Akwa ibom attested to that fact. Why then are you solely picking on the igbos?

Sorry bro for the situation u found urself. I pray God helps u out. U made it hard for people to believe u after making a 360° turn from being a hardhead to a humble guy in about 24hrs or thereabout. Ur sudden personality change seems too good to be true. No trace of arrogance anymore.. Indeed old things have passed away.

DrinkWater10:

Other tribes in the south also practice this tradition. From the last thread, Edo, and People from Akwa ibom arrested to that fact. Why then are you solely picking on the igbos?

May be because all those other tribes you mentioned will in vast majority respect other people's culture and religion but the Igbos are usually the ones to condemn and talk bad about other tribe's culture and religion while ignoring their own deficiencies. #HYPOCRITES.
If you are going to throw stones, you better not be living in a glass house.

StilmaVsBorn2w:
Update:

Sorry my people I asked for financial assistance.
am at her fathers compound presently,. I know everything will fall in place.
God works in mysterious ways, thank you all for your comments.
once again thank you

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7102223/want-me-marry-corpse-refused

No oo...don't marry. Shey you never jam

OP Yaff run

StilmaVsBorn2w:
I can't run from it, I just have to accept it the way it is.

I can still recall how you were ranting up nd down in the previous thread you created saying you're not going to do sh*t and they can't kill you. Lol.

Don't worry ur self

Even 1 kobo them no go see

Meanwhile, ukochukwu na the same people
Mods hand dey inside. Infact na der work

Mindlog:
Living and fathering children with a woman one is not married to and death happens....the downside of co-habitation.

Personally, I don't financially contribute to such just as I didn't for a relative who did the same despite repeated warnings against the co-habitation and pleas to go see her family to traditionally marry the lady but he was arrogant, feeling smart that he has 2 children from the relationship and a woman performing wifely duties without the stress of marital rites.....she was involved in an accident and didn't survive, reality set in.

Like suggested, be open to her family on the real status of your finances with proofs and negotiate from there BUT there is a very huge possibility that this a scam planned well ahead.

Create such a sensational thread that LUCKILY made the frontpage, then build on the momentum to cash out which is what this particular thread is purposed to do. From the initial gra gra of yesterday to today's meekness...the human mind is a beautiful thing to study.

OP, you may be LUCKY to get some credit alerts from those who would fall for this.

Nwodosis:
Let this not be new scamming format as account number done appear!

Modified, seems like my comment made the guy remove his account details.

Nope. The mods did that. No way a beggarly thread with account number would make the front page.