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What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MistarT(m): 3:56pm On May 11, 2022 |
Please candid opinions will be appreciated. Thanks. Itwill do humanity great good, if we hear from marriage counsellors with wide range of experiences, thanks. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Puskas: 3:57pm On May 11, 2022 |
Run for your life 234 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by uthlaw: 3:57pm On May 11, 2022 |
Handicap niye... No go area! 111 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MistarT(m): 3:59pm On May 11, 2022 |
Puskas:Bros what if she's now ready to learn and has known that life is not a jamboree, she should be given a second chance? 60 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Puskas: 4:00pm On May 11, 2022 |
MistarT:She will end up loving and caring for her child more than you 457 Likes 41 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MistarT(m): 4:02pm On May 11, 2022 |
Puskas:Hmm deep i am learning something, thank you. 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MistarT(m): 4:03pm On May 11, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:Exactly my thoughts, one man's food is another man's poison. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Puskas: 4:04pm On May 11, 2022 |
MistarT:Any attempt from you to discipline the child will not always go down well with her. She will be seeing it as a hatred for the child because the child is not yours 436 Likes 32 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MistarT(m): 4:06pm On May 11, 2022 |
Puskas:Hmmm, this one is strong bro. 56 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:07pm On May 11, 2022 |
MistarT: you have to understand that many men have misplaced egos thus they will always look down on a single mother because they will always believe that they are competing for her love with that child, not understanding that its two different things. some would even tell you that this woman will always love and/or go back to baby daddy bla bla bla (how insecure is that?)... also, i wont even talk on theo ones whose ego is so bruised, they only see her child as a confirmation that she had a life before she met them. 43 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MistarT(m): 4:10pm On May 11, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:Wow, thank you, truly life issues come from variant situations, many people have personal opinions towards things that's why "no man is an island " 10 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Toktee(m): 4:15pm On May 11, 2022 |
MistarT:Just Bleep her and run.... anything she tell you as a reason for her been single is lies. They are sadist. They are really bittered. They are manner less They are wayward. Most of them just take a break from active prostitution. 233 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:19pm On May 11, 2022 |
MistarT: the issue of single mothers is very simple... if you have no problem with it, then meet them and enjoy your life with her....and if you have a problem with it, then dont date/marry single mothers, et voila! a woman with a child shouldnt be an issue, unless that woman is a bad person....sadly, many people will automatically view a single mother as a bad person, while many others wont/dont, and will instead judge that woman on the go or her character. some single mothers are fantastic women who became single mothers because of a bad union, a death and/or an accident. you cant possibly judge a woman negatively on the sole act of having a child unmarried (unless of course, you are one of them religious holier than thou hypocrites who forgot that even JESUS mother was a single mother, lol!) 142 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Toktee(m): 4:20pm On May 11, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:I don't understand... Single mother as in widow r single mother as in unmarried lady with a kid? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Kriss216: 4:21pm On May 11, 2022 |
Puskas:Even a girl you married as a virgin will care for her child more than the husband. The only problem with single mother; The father of her child has 98.783% access to her kpekus. 225 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:22pm On May 11, 2022 |
Toktee: they are both the same,,, but most are talking about the "unmarried with a kid" 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Toktee(m): 4:28pm On May 11, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:No sir they are not the same.. I prefer a woman that lost her husband than the one with a child out of wedlock.... reason been that the owner of the child is somewhere and they always come around. But the widow is single for a natural cause. 120 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:34pm On May 11, 2022 |
Toktee: i understand what you mean and your "preferences, but just because YOUR EGO IS MISPLACED, doesnt mean they are different. the sole reason that you look down on one and not the other, is because another man is still alive aka in the picture. why should that be a problem to you? its not like you are gonna adopt the child and make it your own. you are dating THE MOTHER and this child already has a father and doesnt need a new one. just focus on your woman etc and basta. yes, you may spend a little money on the child, big deal, so what?! its a small price to pay for having a happy family. 37 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:38pm On May 11, 2022 |
Kriss216: you made plenty of sense and then you wrote the above... are you saying that a woman who had a child for some dude and then they parted ways, will always let that man mount her?! do you see how insecure it is of you to claim the above?! even you yourself, some babe got pregnant for you and you didnt want the child, would you even want to have sex with her again?!?!? come on bro! the above you wrote says a lot about the weak insecure mindset of some men...so because she had sex with someone before, you are so insecure that you believe that she can never love you and be faithful to you ever. that she will always be drawn to the bastard who may have abandoned/dropped her etc.... thats deep! no wonder men are running away from these single mothers! 46 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by cenaman(m): 4:58pm On May 11, 2022 |
MistarT:Same thing that is giving me sleepless nights. My current girlfriend was my childhood friend in primary school before we lost contact after our FSLS. Though she's a single mom and independent woman, I don't know how to tell my parents that she is a single mom. 29 Likes 1 Share
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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by satandeterrible: 5:01pm On May 11, 2022 |
cenaman:Mumu no try marry single mother or you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Don't say you weren't warned. 87 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by cenaman(m): 5:04pm On May 11, 2022 |
satandeterrible:The mumu is for what? 46 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by cenaman(m): 5:05pm On May 11, 2022 |
satandeterrible:because they are single mothers, they should remain single forever isn't it? 18 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MistarT(m): 5:32pm On May 11, 2022 |
cenaman:That's the angle, people experience a lot no need to write-off someone that God has created. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Teleprompter(f): 5:33pm On May 11, 2022 |
If you must date a single mother or marry one, make sure that you know the circumstances very well and know someone close to her e.g meeting through a common friend, colleague or relative. I say this because, for many single ladies with children, their morale is low and it is generally believed that it is hard to find a responsible man that would want them with their baggage and hence the need to try whatever it takes to keep one and hook one even if pretext is needed. On the other hand, many single mothers have good personalities but the baggage is the issue. Imagine a single mother who does not earn an income and still expecting a man to feed her and someone else’s child. The child’s father may be in the picture and cause a lot of interference even if a romance is over btw him and the mother. Even biological children are hard to raise but an adopted child may make things more complicated in decision making. In theory, a widow seems more attractive than a single mother that was not married to the father of her child but practically, it may not be that simple. The widow also has a lot more baggage than the single unmarried mother. Anyway, marriage is not for the faint hearted and having a blended family requires much more maturity and wisdom to engage in. 113 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by McDuncan: 6:08pm On May 11, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1: Your last sentence wasn't funny. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:24pm On May 11, 2022 |
McDuncan: wasnt supposed to be... that was a FACT from your holybook!!!! jesus mother was a single unmarried mother. 9 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by satandeterrible: 6:45pm On May 11, 2022 |
cenaman:Okay. Captain save-a-hoe. White Knight in shining armour. Carry on. 40 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by McDuncan: 6:51pm On May 11, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1: Well, I'll have you know that she was betrothed and in the Jewish tradition being betrothed is considered married. If you want biblical proof, I'll supply you. But don't mistake me for a good Christian, I'm not. I have so many weaknesses, chief among them is 'an eye for an eye.' 20 Likes 3 Shares |
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