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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by mcdokwe(m): 10:15pm On May 11, 2022 |
denobaba: When I get the time |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by frozen70(f): 10:15pm On May 11, 2022 |
MistarT: Being a single mother is not a curse Circumstances normally leads to it In every single mother, there is a single father The good part of them is that they took the kid along while some will drop the child to the man's family and doesn't care what comes out of the child You see most times, the single mothers takes the child because being a mother is priceless The other thing is that they get more matured and experienced after the encounter that lead them to single parenthood Have you ever wondered why at a stage in some situations in a man's life, he will be looking for a single mother to marry E get why 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:16pm On May 11, 2022 |
denobaba: i have absolutely NO DISCRIMINATION towards single mothers because i do believe that being a single mother doesnt make a woman a bad person nor does it makes that woman a future bad wife nor a future bad mother, therefore why should i/we discriminate against a woman with a child?! being with a single moher is 10x better than being with one of them fancy single ones you see out there, who go to Dubai every weekend that may have been fukced by dogs and eating excrements. Mendy101: and whats so wrong about that?! its not like he is gonna continue fukc your wife or sleep in your bed, is it?! remember, you are just a "surrogate" father at best to this child, and nothing more. dont try to play "captain save a child" here as this is NOT your child. so whether he has a father still alive (or not) is irrelevant here. sadly, your misplaced ego is giving you funny thoughts and you are so insecure that you believe that the baby daddy could come anytime and just tell your woman to :"lets go" and she will just follow the yeye dude. come on! denobaba: come on now.... even with your biological child and his mother, you could suffer the same above fate... so instead of telling us stories, why dont you guys tell us EXACTLY What you are scared about?!?!? CaptainLora: many women out there may "seem" that they have no baggage but they will carry more load than a single mother (all them Dubai sista that are all fancy and beautiful but get mounted by dog and eat shiiit). again, you guys are not being honest about what really is bothering you with this single mother issue....because it is obvious, the flimsy excuses you all give here on this thread doesnt sound valid....especially when good women are scarce in 9ja. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Contekbbc: 10:17pm On May 11, 2022 |
Most of the single ladies out there are worse. If she's ok by your standard and has REALLY MOVED ON HER EX,why not go ahead and do the needful. Afterall,Na born she born,she no kill person. You'll be shocked to know that most married men are fathers to children that are not theirs,so, is it not better to know that she has given birth before instead of marrying someone who will CODEDLY give another man's pregnancy to you and make you father a bastard? By the time some men are 60 years+ , They'll know that all those things don't matter at all. All in all, God will guide you and will surely give you grace to choose the best person at the end. Peace! |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by denobaba: 10:17pm On May 11, 2022 |
frozen70:No way! Don't preach this myth to a brother lost in emotions. Would say the same if he were to be your biological brother? There are tons of ladies out there who will make him far happier. By all means, begin your own family as opposed to a pre-rolled one. Who dash monkey banana 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by perez100: 10:19pm On May 11, 2022 |
Nobody is asking whether the lady dated a person like Osinach"s husband. The lady may be nice but the man that got her pregnant may be a beast. So, to save her life, she may quit the relationship while she's already a single mother. Is it her fault? I think many people here are just kids. 10 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Janedoe007: 10:19pm On May 11, 2022 |
MistarT: Well me to am currently dating one, but bro your family members might not support you as am also doing campaign for her and if you love her, stand your grounds and always defend her no matter where[/color]. [color=#000099] 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by frozen70(f): 10:19pm On May 11, 2022 |
denobaba: If your biological sister or daughter is a single parent, will you advise her to date herself At least he wasn't forced to start a relationship with a single mother, whereas he has single ladies If that is his choice all he needs is a support 3 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by denobaba: 10:21pm On May 11, 2022 |
frozen70:Can you recommend the same for your brother? Please answer the damn question. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by godofuck231: 10:21pm On May 11, 2022 |
Toktee:this guy de see front come make I give you money for weed |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Deeace01: 10:22pm On May 11, 2022 |
As it's popularly said that experience is a very good teacher if not the best even. As long as the father of the child involved is still alive then future vicissitudes is far beyond the sexual part, sadly and bitterly as it may sound....the father of the child is usually a cross on the new man coz there's usually unforseen circumstances that may befall the new man through the old one MrBrownJay1: |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Freedom34: 10:22pm On May 11, 2022 |
Ensure u buy d book 'okafors law' b4 u embark on ur journey! Dassol! MistarT: |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Ifeanyicosta(m): 10:25pm On May 11, 2022 |
satandeterrible:I swear DAT guy na captain with 3 star 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by denobaba: 10:25pm On May 11, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:You have no clue. You assume single moms could have great qualities that are completely exclusive for single ladies. How does that even work? Lols |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by frozen70(f): 10:25pm On May 11, 2022 |
denobaba: What goes around comes around If you are a single father, are you forbidden to get a woman 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by omoyankee3(m): 10:26pm On May 11, 2022 |
No pros, only cons. Why complicate your life marrying a single mother when there are many single women with no kids out there? 5 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by denobaba: 10:29pm On May 11, 2022 |
frozen70:This is a different dynamic. Men approach women for marriage and not the other way round. Given that a man is the provider, he is free to approach any lady of his choice. It's up to the lady to accept or decline. We cannot say the same about single mom. If you raise your own son and send him to school. Would you be happy for him to bring home a single mom for marriage? Please try to be realistic. 3 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by cenaman(m): 10:30pm On May 11, 2022 |
satandeterrible:
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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Gkemz: 10:31pm On May 11, 2022 |
Puskas: You have a very strong point. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by frozen70(f): 10:32pm On May 11, 2022 |
denobaba: Whatever rocks his boat, all I want is a peaceful marriage 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by EagleSquare1(m): 10:32pm On May 11, 2022 |
Very mean of you to label single mothers this way. Warped opinion! Toktee: 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by jendoslim(m): 10:32pm On May 11, 2022 |
frozen70: Are you being serious about this ? Pray tell, which stage will a man get to that he will be desirous of a single mother to marry?? 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Abbeytoy(m): 10:33pm On May 11, 2022 |
MistarT: Let me try some in a football term. Coin It's like make Everton give Real Madrid 1 goal down in champions league semi final. Pro At first you'll enjoy your live to the fullest and free pekus till you enter am fully. Conclusion, Run for your dear life |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Ifeanyicosta(m): 10:33pm On May 11, 2022 |
SyrusdeHansome:Single mother are great pretender,they pretend to the extent of giving u money and lot of sex ,to confuse u they r different. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by zoroby(m): 10:34pm On May 11, 2022 |
MistarT: Continue learning no japa 3 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by denobaba: 10:34pm On May 11, 2022 |
frozen70:Lols! I pray to God his father will be around in this critical phase of his life. Left to you, that boy child is in grave danger of misguidance. Kai, children really need their fathers. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:36pm On May 11, 2022 |
denobaba: what qualities a single woman has that is "exclusive" to them (aka that a single mother cannot possess) apart from virginity but that aint a quality....??!? Deeace01: as much as your English is great, you are saying nothing valid to this issue. you are now placing your misplaced ego in the way of your common sense. as much as a baby daddy can certainly have contact with his child/baby momma, that person has NO VALID leverage upon the r/ship you have with babymomma. so i dont know what circumstances you are talking about, but its evident that you are talking from an insecure man point of view....therefore you are looking down on a woman because of the possible unforessen circumstances that may or not ever happen. that would be as foolish as me saying that i wont drive a car because many have died in car accidents. highly stupid wouldnt you say?! ogene144: kai, come on bro....the above is far fetched. been with countless of single mothers, and can only say great things about them. just like there are great single women out there, there are bad single women out there, and same goes for single mothers. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Dimaya: 10:36pm On May 11, 2022 |
I know 8 men who married single mothers. 6 of them are divorced/separated because the wife's baby daddy was still giving her the d*ck. It was ugly. One of them was accused by his 13yr old stepdaughter of inappropriate se*ual advances. He swears his innocence, but his wife left him. She didn't even have kids for him. After 11 years! No one in the church they attended believed him. 11 years of marriage just wasted. The only man I know still married is a pastor. His wife is Tu Face idibia's baby mama. If you can skillfully navigate the above risks, then go ahead. But realize this: marrying a single mom in Nigeria is a thankless job. All 7 of the above men swore never to 'rescue' a single mom. These were their words: ' She will NEVER love you. You will only be a wallet. And if the baby daddy attempts to have s*x with her or return, she won't hesitate to jump into his arms. She will always be his booty call.' Dear friend, the man who fathered a child with her didn't rape her. He chose not to marry her. That child will cost you money. Why should you be the one to save her? 6 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by frozen70(f): 10:37pm On May 11, 2022 |
denobaba: A mother is the real politician of every family She knows what's good for the family |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Tomamajojo(f): 10:37pm On May 11, 2022 |
Not true Kriss216: |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by AkpaMgbor(m): 10:37pm On May 11, 2022 |
I dated a single mother..very young single mother. Their self esteem is usuall rock bottom low. They are easily irritated and overtly suspicious of ANYTHING. And yes their child(ren) comes first. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by GOFRONT(m): 10:38pm On May 11, 2022 |
I know of a very young single mother whose child has been taken away by the baby daddy. If she did not tell you about her single status, you will never know. |
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