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Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by EasyE25: 10:36pm On May 24, 2022 |
Whatever u are doing love the mother and the child as you are doing, but don't adopt the child legally as the biological father is still alive and will come for her any day, what if you don't end up marrying the mother after adopting the daughter that will be another legal battle God forbid oo, u die without having a child from the woman by right your property go to the child that u didn't father and your Immediate family won't get any. 4 Likes |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by padi94(m): 10:38pm On May 24, 2022 |
I cannot tell you how to make your pap... Na you know how you like am, so do you. When you fall you go stand up 1 Like |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by toujurs: 11:04pm On May 24, 2022 |
Animegirl:Taa shut up, dere! How can you say women accepts men faults as an excuse. Same women that are parasites. You can never compare a man with a woman.. men provides while women accepts 5 Likes |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Mattwillz: 11:11pm On May 24, 2022 |
Go open account for your siblings first 5 Likes |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by MrDoGood(m): 12:01am On May 25, 2022 |
Animegirl: I think we really need to stop this gender war. That been said, you can't adopt a child without both parents consent. Both the mother and the father must consent to the adoption by a specific person or persons. If the child is 10 years and older, the child must also consent to the adoption. Let's always seek council when confused as not to get into trouble while trying to be good. Have a great night dear |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Belafonte(m): 4:57am On May 25, 2022 |
Sweetplum: I'm certain my son is older than you. Smh. |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Cousin9999: 5:04am On May 25, 2022 |
Leave this woman. smh |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Nobody: 7:01am On May 25, 2022 |
Belafonte:Smh, daddy Methuselah. |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Dfynboi: 7:08am On May 25, 2022 |
Let's watch and see how things will go but to me o,I think ur plying a very dangerous route, the father of that child will one day come for her nd if he is not d gentle type,I fear for ur life |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Belafonte(m): 7:13am On May 25, 2022 |
Sweetplum: Yes, my daughter |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Nobody: 7:26am On May 25, 2022 |
Belafonte:How are you sir? |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Fathersdesire(f): 7:44am On May 25, 2022 |
For someone who is sapiosexual and cannot spell sapiosexual ![]() Have a heart to heart conversation with her, so she could tell you the real gist. But wait o why don't you believe what she has told you is the real gist sef ![]() Or you could set up a meeting with the guy in question(the baby's daddy) and talk with him man to man. |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by IMO01: 8:04am On May 25, 2022 |
Shebi she has cut ties Tell her to give the details of the guy communicate with the guy for confirmation. 3 Likes |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Clinghton: 8:10am On May 25, 2022 |
In cases like this you're in best position to advice yourself, after watching American underdog(movie) it changed my narrative about issues like this. 1 Like |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by advanceDNA: 8:10am On May 25, 2022 |
Belafonte: U like violence ...lol 3 Likes |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by advanceDNA: 8:17am On May 25, 2022 |
Uniquetani1: Why would someone want to make another man's child his own when the man is not dead...it doesnt even sound well to me... Mayb OP is impotent... 4 Likes |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by advanceDNA: 8:23am On May 25, 2022 |
Maverick777: This is rough play oooo... Why would you want to make another mans child your own...the mans is fvcking alive for crying out loud...he even has family that can come back and ask for the kid...... She said ahe told him to stay away...and thats the end..??.no let woman manipulate you oooo This woman is playing an angle thats blind to you...u should be careful...it says a lot about her...why strip a man of his fatherly rights even in the future to come by givimg to child to someone esle...... She has no right...tell her to get a consent letter from the man and a couple of elders in the man's family like the mum...u cant just adopt a kid because a woman said u should do it.. dont think with her pvssy man...use your head Besides, u can love and care for the kid without changing her name or issuing a new official birth certificate ....... abi u dey impotent nii?? 6 Likes |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by InfinityFabric: 8:25am On May 25, 2022 |
Belafonte:Marrying a single mother is like trying to fix the Nigeria's problem caused by politicians and masses alike since 1999. The guy is a certified SIMP with money. Thank God I knew women right around the time I knew money. Else, I will be asking the same stupid question as OP. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by advanceDNA: 8:26am On May 25, 2022 |
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Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by InfinityFabric: 8:36am On May 25, 2022 |
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Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by lereinter(m): 9:07am On May 25, 2022 |
Who's the child staying with? Where's the father of the child staying? What the lady told you about the dream na scope, it's not any dream, it's what the father of the child told her Obviously he still communicate.. Stop your anxiousness, be strong reverse the name change if you want to help the kid, you can by not opening any account for her I can only advice you marry the lady if the man that impregnated her has gotten married to another lady 2 Likes |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Maverick777: 9:10am On May 25, 2022 |
Animegirl:the key word in my post was 'sensible' inputs. read the gibberish you wrote and see if it makes any sense. why the insult? are you even sane? please next time don't bring your gender bigotry to my thread. if you're so pained about something, go to rehab. think with your head and not your heart! as you were.... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by IamDora(f): 9:13am On May 25, 2022 |
Maverick777: The man will surely come back for his daughter, now or in the near future. That's the only thing I have to tell you 1 Like |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Maverick777: 9:13am On May 25, 2022 |
lereinter:the child stays with her the man stays in a city in delta state and yes, he's married with like 4 kids, that's why she left him in the first place. as for them still being in contact, I sincerely doubt that, but I know the dream stuff might be a figment of her imagination.. thanks for your input. |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Maverick777: 9:17am On May 25, 2022 |
advanceDNA:impotent is different from infertile. the fact you couldn't distinguish between the two, shows you're not smart enough to have any sensible input. as you were... |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by advanceDNA: 9:20am On May 25, 2022 |
Maverick777: mayb u shoukd google impotent...thats by the way......if you are offended by my question..my sincere apologies. ....it was not meant to insult you but it came out wromgly. ...i was just trying to get why you are desperate to take another man's child thats still alive ...u wont want someone to do that to you 1 Like |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Maverick777: 9:21am On May 25, 2022 |
Mattwillz:don't comment just because you've cheap data, avoid embarrassing yourself. as you were... |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Maverick777: 9:26am On May 25, 2022 |
advanceDNA:I appreciate your maturity. Now, as for being desperate, I'm not.. The child is bearing her(the mother) father's name not even the baby daddy's. so if I'm to marry her, I would want to own the child, I'm the only father she knows. as for someone doing that to me, I wouldn't abandon my child for 4 years no matter the circumstance. |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Maverick777: 9:29am On May 25, 2022 |
Fathersdesire:You should be smart enough to distinguish an error from total ignorance. I wouldn't possibly know what the word means and not know how to spell it. thanks for your input anyway. |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by advanceDNA: 9:39am On May 25, 2022 |
Maverick777: Giving the child her fathers name is not right to begin with...father and mother name of the child goes on the birth cert not the grandfather... The man can return, saying he wants to do his father role...it happens alot...His family can come poking if they hear someone took their daughter and changed her background without consent...jist fly easily.. U can ask a lawyer how to go about it so that u are not accused later of kidnapping and unauthorized adoption.. 2 Likes |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Maverick777: 9:43am On May 25, 2022 |
advanceDNA:thanks man.. |
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