Hi guys..

There's something I would like to have y'all's opinion about.

My neighbour, male, married with children, always leaves his house to come to my veranda and stand. Especially when I'm indoors or he suspects that I'm out of the house.

Overtime I have tried to check his motive and I can't seem to find any ulterior motive. He will just leave his flat upstairs, come to my flat's Veranda in the ground floor and stand there, moping at empty space. If I come out from my parlour, we will greet and he will hurriedly leave

I'm beginning to find it not so funny. Should I confront him? From my investigations, he doesn't do anything, doesn't peep, but just stay there and be moping, sometimes with a bottle of water in hand.

Why always the front of my crib? If he needs a thinking session, he can as well use another place. What do you guys think? I should confront him or let it be?

Edited....

He has a young wife who used to come down stairs when she's bored to play ludo OUTSIDE with me and my friends if they come around.

This man's behaviour made me to stop the ludo thing. I no get strength abeg.

My door is always locked by the way but I just want to have different opinions about why he's always in my veranda when he has a house and family to go to

Use eku gum to hold him there till night

Pour him hot water

Buy a dog

Buy a machete and make sure he sees it the day you bring it in. Practice cutting down a random tree branch so that he can see how well you use it.

Bleep your gf or olosho very loudly

Play porn at high volumes so amebos can see his face whenever they investigate

Arrange a calabash with red cloth or idols on your verandah

When next he comes, go upstairs and sit by his own door or verandah without saying a word make we dey see who go lose dis battle

What do you guys think?

Maybe he want to relate with you [like normal gist /how neighbors live in peace ] .

I should confront him?

Yes, in a polite manner. e. g like this my corridor dy charge your energy, make I follow you share the spot. [with smile on your face ].

Well op
I like your last paragraph and will beg you to be positive about him staying there .
But if you still feel uncomfortable just try and engage him small with random talks maybe God can use you to unlock the answer he badly want. People connect not necessarily for relationship only nor business. You will be surprised he has an answer to your question too.
But in all don't directly tell him to stop coming else you are ready to leave the house

Glad you have some evidence. The guy might have a mental problem.

You'll get the motive very soon.

The advice I want to give you is to ALWAYS lock your doors.


No go loose guard ooo

He is suspecting you

OP leave the guyman abeg, u dont know what he's running away from in the hand of that gender at home (pun intended tho)

Nukilia:
Glad you have some evidence. The guy might have a mental problem.

You'll get the motive very soon.

No, I don't think so. We talk normal and he reasons just fine. This particular behaviour of his is what I'm yet to understand the rationale

endsarrrs:
He is suspecting you

Right? He has a young wife tho and she used to come down stairs to play ludo outside with me and my friends if they come around.

This man's behaviour made me to stop the ludo thing. I no get strength abeg

Jeon:

What do you guys think?

Maybe he want to relate with you [like normal gist /how neighbors live in peace ] .

I should confront him?

Yes, in a polite manner. e. g like this my corridor dy charge your energy, make I follow you share the spot. [with smile on your face ].

You can tell that this one has never been responsible enough to rent her own place.

OP if you confront him directly, you two will have problems until you move out of that house. If he is the troublesome type, that's what he wants so that trouble will start.


Follow any of my methods above but make sure you don't directly engage him. Allow him to be the one to break silence. Only then will his true intentions be revealed.

VeryWickedMan:


You can tell that this one has never been responsible enough to rent her own place.

OP if you confront him directly, you two will have problems until you move out of that house. If he is the troublesome type, that's what he wants so that trouble will start.


Follow any of my methods above but make sure you don't directly engage him. Allow him to be the one to break silence. Only then will his true intentions be revealed.

VeryWickedMan:


Use eku gum to hold him there till night

Pour him hot water

Buy a dog

Buy a machete and make sure he sees it the day you bring it in. Practice cutting down a random tree branch so that he can see how well you use it.

Bleep your gf or olosho very loudly

Play porn at high volumes so amebos can see his face whenever they investigate

Arrange a calabash with red cloth or idols on your verandah

When next he comes, go upstairs and sit by his own door or verandah without saying a word

. Be serious guy

Jeon:

What do you guys think?

Maybe he want to relate with you [like normal gist /how neighbors live in peace ] .

I should confront him?

Yes, in a polite manner. e. g like this my corridor dy charge your energy, make I follow you share the spot. [with smile on your face ].

Ok, thanks. I'm not the chatty neighbour type. I love my space

Samakus:


. Be serious guy

I am
Choose 1 method there

VeryWickedMan:


[s]You can tell that this one has never been responsible enough to rent her own place.

OP if you confront him directly, you two will have problems until you move out of that house. If he is the troublesome type, that's what he wants so that trouble will start.


Follow any of my methods above but make sure you don't directly engage him. Allow him to be the one to break silence. Only then will his true intentions be revealed.[/s]

YOUR METHODS ARE THE MOST USELESS AND SENSELESS ON THIS THREAD.

bottlewater1:
Well op
I like your last paragraph and will beg you to be positive about him staying there .
But if you still feel uncomfortable just try and engage him small with random talks maybe God can use you to unlock the answer he badly want. People connect not necessarily for relationship only nor business. You will be surprised he has an answer to your question too.
But in all don't directly tell him to stop coming else you are ready to leave the house

Thank you. Will try this. Just that I prefer good morning, good morning kind of neighbour relationship.

Jeon:
[s][/s]

YOUR METHODS ARE THE MOST USELESS AND SENSELESS ON THIS THREAD.

You are a baby.
You think real life issues are creche problems abi.

decatalyst:
The advice I want to give you is to ALWAYS lock your doors.


No go loose guard ooo

Ok

Samakus:


Thank you. Will try this. Just that I prefer good morning, good morning kind of neighbour relationship.

This is the best before see finish will rubbish you.
Don't confront him lest the story turns around on you.

Use my method to defeat him psychologically.

endsarrrs:
He is suspecting you

About what, possibly? We don’t have any business together aside living in the same compound

VeryWickedMan:


You can tell that this one has never been responsible enough to rent her own place.

OP if you confront him directly, you two will have problems until you move out of that house. If he is the troublesome type, that's what he wants so that trouble will start.


Follow any of my methods above but make sure you don't directly engage him. Allow him to be the one to break silence. Only then will his true intentions be revealed.

Ok

VeryWickedMan:

You are a baby. You think real life issues are creche problems abi.

HOW I VIEW LIFE IS DIFFERENT FROM HOW U DO.
AND EVERYONE HAVE THE WAY THEY HANDLE ISSUES .

VeryWickedMan:


Use eku gum to hold him there till night

Pour him hot water

Buy a dog

Buy a machete and make sure he sees it the day you bring it in. Practice cutting down a random tree branch so that he can see how well you use it.

Bleep your gf or olosho very loudly

Play porn at high volumes so amebos can see his face whenever they investigate

Arrange a calabash with red cloth or idols on your verandah

When next he comes, go upstairs and sit by his own door or verandah without saying a word

Odogwu... You Bad.

is like u dey eye guyman wifey abi

Jeon:


HOW I VIEW LIFE IS DIFFERENT FROM HOW U DO.

AND EVERYONE HAVE THE WAY THEY HANDLE ISSUES .

Every living being views life differently - even rats.

Robnectar:
is like u dey eye guyman wifey abi

Nah. I don't do married women. Thank you

Samakus:


Ok, thanks. I'm not the chatty neighbour type. I love my space

OK.
But as I said don't confront him in a harsh manner [ He is just finding a way to enter your space ].

Best option is to ignore him.

VeryWickedMan:


Every living being views life differently - even rats.

Yes, so next time share your thoughts without interrupting/ opposing anyone for their contributions.

Jeon:


Yes, so next time share your thoughts without interrupting/ opposing anyone for their contributions.

You are misleading the OP and others who may have similar problems.

Now apologize to everyone here.

Jeon:


OK.
But as I said don't confront him in a harsh manner [ He is just finding a way to enter your space ].

Best option is to ignore him.

Copy that. Thanks

VeryWickedMan:

You are misleading the OP and others who may have similar problems.
Now apologize to everyone here.

Not everyone solve a problem with violence neither with speed.