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He Is Very Caring When Sober But Very Abusive When Drunk, Should I Leave Him? by DearTiti: 11:42am On Jun 14, 2022
I met a guy online and we have been dating for more than 2 years now but we haven't met in person because he stays outside the country though we are both from Nigeria, Last month he came home but he is based in another city from where I am based, so he came down to my city because my job won't let me travel excepting I am on leave.

He lodged in a hotel where I went to see him and we met face to face for the very first time.

The guy is really nice and caring but very blunt and abusive with words and violent as well. Despite these things I wasn't too worried at first and we carried on like that, because to be honest he was quite nice too and would usually apologize for behaving badly.

These attitudes of his only shows up each time he is drunk, he starts looking for problem where there is non, he does not beat me but when he is angry he pushes me up and down and when I try to walk out he drag me back and...Click here to read more
Re: He Is Very Caring When Sober But Very Abusive When Drunk, Should I Leave Him? by Islandlady(f): 11:45am On Jun 14, 2022
Do you need a pastor/Imam to tell you to leave the relationship. . .Maybe until he kills you undecided

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Re: He Is Very Caring When Sober But Very Abusive When Drunk, Should I Leave Him? by MAMABBQGRRLS: 11:48am On Jun 14, 2022
Any kind of vawulence is a red flag my dear.

Run for your Life O to avoid stories that touch.
Re: He Is Very Caring When Sober But Very Abusive When Drunk, Should I Leave Him? by Bahamas95(m): 11:49am On Jun 14, 2022
Women!

They will never learn.

Re: He Is Very Caring When Sober But Very Abusive When Drunk, Should I Leave Him? by rickpat(m): 11:50am On Jun 14, 2022
from clapping,you start dancing...

the day he beats you please don't post any black eye here seeking advise....you are seeing trouble,you are romancing it....good luck
Re: He Is Very Caring When Sober But Very Abusive When Drunk, Should I Leave Him? by Boogyman557: 11:51am On Jun 14, 2022
Holly Gram cool Wen next una JAM face to face..


Buy better RAW WEED, use am Cook better jellof rice for the Nigga!


Em head go Set WELL..


Na u go thank me later.


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

Re: He Is Very Caring When Sober But Very Abusive When Drunk, Should I Leave Him? by Reinamaria(f): 11:54am On Jun 14, 2022
She conveniently left out the part where he's very generous.
Would she still not care about his behavior if he was broke?
Re: He Is Very Caring When Sober But Very Abusive When Drunk, Should I Leave Him? by Ravenbeast1(m): 12:06pm On Jun 14, 2022
Lol
Try and see if you can change him if you can't then you leave him..
Re: He Is Very Caring When Sober But Very Abusive When Drunk, Should I Leave Him? by Elidixran: 12:27pm On Jun 14, 2022
Reinamaria:
She conveniently left out the part where he's very generous.
Would she still not care about his behavior if he was broke?

Oil dey your head

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Re: He Is Very Caring When Sober But Very Abusive When Drunk, Should I Leave Him? by malHambra: 3:42pm On Jun 14, 2022
Women will never learn
Re: He Is Very Caring When Sober But Very Abusive When Drunk, Should I Leave Him? by Tinkerbell420: 8:02pm On Jun 14, 2022
Perhaps you should consider his good sides too
Re: He Is Very Caring When Sober But Very Abusive When Drunk, Should I Leave Him? by dayemanate: 10:31pm On Jun 14, 2022
Ok
Re: He Is Very Caring When Sober But Very Abusive When Drunk, Should I Leave Him? by Lifeschampion: 12:22pm On Jun 17, 2022
No don't leave o. Stay right there with the animal in human skin. We'll be looking out for your "Gone too soon" poster.

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