So the previous compound l lived in, l was literally the clown of the house, I try to make every one happy especially the females. l was jovial, friendly and accomodating. I realized that the attitude wasn't in any way paying me. l was disrespected and it looked as if most of the girls were just using me to pass time and nothing more.

The one that broke the camel's back was when a girl barely 20yrs in my compound threatened to give me a hot slap if l ever touch her, this is a person we do play and gist a lot o. Since that day l borrowed sense.

Now l am in a new compound. Unfortunately the house has a lot of female occupants, with guys, but based on my past experience l no just send the girls and l am already in a serious relationship so even their friendship doesn't trick me. l no just want compound wahala...

So now the way those girls look at me and try to get in between my nerves is something else, all guys play and relate with them so why me? The hostility is getting out of hand and l dont want to slap sense into any girl head.

Please how do l handle this issue.

victooman:
so the previous compound l lived in, l was literally the clown of the house,,l try to make every one happy especially the females,, l was jovial ,friendly and accomodating ,l realize that the attitude wasn't in any way paying me, l was disrespected and it looks as if most of the girls were just using me to pass time and nothing more,, the one that break the camel back was when a girl barely 20yrs in my compound threatened to give me a hot slap if l ever touch her,, this is a person we do play and gist a lot o.
Since that day l borrowed sense, now l am in a new compound,, unfortunately the house has a lot of female occupants,, with guys ,, but base on my past experience l no just send the girls,, and l am already in a serious relationship so even their friendship doesn't trick me , l no just want compound wahala...so now the way those girls look at me and try to get in between my nerves is something else,, all guys play and relate with them so why me? the hostility is getting out of hand and l dont want to slap sense into any girl head,, please how do l handle this issue.

first thing in this life ,if me and you have no business together ,u have no right to disrespect me be you senior or junior , check yourself well nobody will disrespect person they Don't know, maybe you are still exhibiting clownish behavior ,if you aren't ,then ignore them do your thing highest na side talk as far they ain't saying it go your face

Wetin happen for your previous compound na "see finish" them dey call am..... For my dialect them say "when you play with dog too much e go tear your cloth"..

As for this new compound I happy say u don borrow sense, talk to them when you have to but other than that my brother hold Side....

Plato talk say "a fool talks because he has to say something but a wise man because he has something to say"...

victooman:
so the previous compound l lived in, l was literally the clown of the house,,l try to make every one happy especially the females,, l was jovial ,friendly and accomodating ,l realize that the attitude wasn't in any way paying me, l was disrespected and it looks as if most of the girls were just using me to pass time and nothing more,, the one that break the camel back was when a girl barely 20yrs in my compound threatened to give me a hot slap if l ever touch her,, this is a person we do play and gist a lot o.
Since that day l borrowed sense, now l am in a new compound,, unfortunately the house has a lot of female occupants,, with guys ,, but base on my past experience l no just send the girls,, and l am already in a serious relationship so even their friendship doesn't trick me , l no just want compound wahala...so now the way those girls look at me and try to get in between my nerves is something else,, all guys play and relate with them so why me? the hostility is getting out of hand and l dont want to slap sense into any girl head,, please how do l handle this issue.

Relate with them, greet them, smile abit but keep distance, no unnecessary jokes, keep conversations short.

Youngwiz71:
Wetin happen for your previous compound na "see finish" them dey call am..... For my dialect them say "when you play with dog too much e go tear your cloth"..

As for this new compound I happy say u don borrow sense, talk to them when you have to but other than that my brother hold Side....

Plato talk say "a fool talks because he has to say something but a wise man because he has something to say"...

Thank you my brother,my life is more at peace

Ballzproblemm:
first thing in this life ,if me and you have no business together ,u have no right to disrespect me be you senior or junior , check yourself well nobody will disrespect person they Don't know, maybe you are still exhibiting clownish behavior ,if you aren't ,then ignore them do your thing highest na side talk as far they ain't saying it go your face

God forbid bro,, the previous compound taught me a lot of lessons,, this ones are just pushing me to see my limit and they will definitely get it,, is like women feel insulted when been ignored,is annoying bro

victooman:
God forbid bro,, the previous compound taught me a lot of lessons,, this ones are just pushing me to see my limit and they will definitely get it,, is like women feel insulted when been ignored,is annoying bro

then ignore them now! nawao is not that hard in fact it will sweet me if I see say person body they pepper am because of me that means you are leaving rent free in their head ,mind your business, ignore go about your business enter house. great necessary people finish

pheelhip:


Relate with them, greet them, smile abit but keep distance, no unnecessary jokes, keep conversations short.

na so e dey start bro,, that was how l started in the first compound,,,,let them just be on their own and let me be,, the other day l was at the bathroom and within 5 minutes of been in the bathroom one of the girls came and start blabbing how the person in the bathroom is wasting her time,, saying all manners of rubbish outside to purposely irritate me,,l just came out and hold my peace ,,l didn't reply to the barking dog,,but honestly one day l am afraid they will push me to the wall.

victooman:
God forbid bro,, the previous compound taught me a lot of lessons,, this ones are just pushing me to see my limit and they will definitely get it,, is like women feel insulted when been ignored,is annoying bro

Since you are starving them of your attention, be ready to receive constant gossip and provocation.

Chief check yourself well...

You got tons of character flaws you didn't realize, hence everyone is leveraging on it

While you were there playing with them one naughty guy de f*** them one by one. Na him them go fear and respect. Fear that gender ooooo.

Must you relate with any body?
Can't you be by yourself?

Abeg, rest!

Nonam:


Since you are starving them of your attention, be ready to receive constant gossip.

l tell u bro,,,

sript:
Chief check yourself well...

You got tons of character flaws you didn't realize, hence everyone is leveraging on it

that was before,, how this ones know my flaws when l barely talk or relate with them?

victooman:
God forbid bro,, the previous compound taught me a lot of lessons,, this ones are just pushing me to see my limit and they will definitely get it,, is like women feel insulted when been ignored,is annoying bro

Wait till they tag u proud..

The problem with some of you is that you want everybody to like you, that can never happen and will never happen. I'll advice you form a small circle of friends let's say 3 of them in that compound, those ones should be the ones you go informal with; laugh and play. Note this relationship should be symbiotic and respectful no parasite or disrespect should be tolerated. The rest put them in formal zone, no jokes, no smiles just greet and go straight to the point if a conversation comes up.

Zeekaycn:
While you were there playing with them one naughty guy de f*** them one by one. Na him them go fear and respect. Fear that gender ooooo.

l swear bro,,in my previous compound their guys dey come knack them even for the compound,, when they finish go,na me go come be sabinus or apkororo wey go come dey entertain them,, l dont want to live that kind of life again,l am more mature and wiser now,,is just that this ones in my presentcompound are trying to get at my nerves for starving them of my attention.

Smh

Channah1:
Must you relate with any body?
Can't you be by yourself?

Abeg, rest!

you didn't get the post ma

Op I can relate.... I feel moderation is just the thing here.


Even the Holy Bible say " there is time for everything under heaven.read Eccl 3 if you be christian ( there is a time to talk and a time to keep quiet) time to.joke and time to be serious. Etc

I guess Daddy has sent U pocket money

Op starve them more of your attention.. Guys that Ignore women.. That stuff Intimidates them....

As for me I have I dont notice you attitude.. I dont also care whether you exist.. That stuff dey pain them ehh.. Anything wey go pepper dem na em ah dey do.

Op starve them more of your attention.. Guys that Ignore women.. That stuff Intimidates them....

As for me I have I dont notice you attitude.. I dont also care whether you exist.. That stuff dey pain them ehh.. Anything wey go pepper dem na em ah dey do..

Ballzproblemm:
first thing in this life ,if me and you have no business together ,u have no right to disrespect me be you senior or junior , check yourself well nobody will disrespect person they Don't know, maybe you are still exhibiting clownish behavior ,if you aren't ,then ignore them do your thing highest na side talk as far they ain't saying it go your face

The guy don pack out from there now

victooman:
na so e dey start bro,, that was how l started in the first compound,,,,let them just be on their own and let me be,, the other day l was at the bathroom and within 5 minutes of been in the bathroom one of the girls came and start blabbing how the person in the bathroom is wasting her time,, saying all manners of rubbish outside to purposely irritate me,,l just came out and hold my peace ,,l didn't reply to the barking dog,,but honestly one day l am afraid they will push me to the wall.

Na face me I slap you be your compound?

teamoneline:
The problem with some of you is that you want everybody to like you, that can never happen and will never happen. I'll advice you form a small circle of friends let's say 3 of them in that compound, those ones should be the ones you go informal with; laugh and play. Note this relationship should be symbiotic and respectful no parasite or disrespect should be tolerated. The rest put them in formal zone, no jokes, no smiles just greet and go straight to the point if a conversation comes up.

Na barracks the guy dey live?

lessons wey okoro learn for primary school don become other people headache for secondary school

ChoCho54:
Na face me I slap you be your compound?

yes any problem with that?

victooman:
yes any problem with that?

Nope!

I will be praying for you.

ChoCho54:
Nope!

I will be praying for you.

This is unnecessary,,, and not part of the topic

This is what you see when you live in a (face-me-I-face-you) house. Just maintain normal decorum as a mature person. Greet your neighbors and get on with your daily activities.

Face me I face you compound is filled with disrespectful and razz girls so don't expect much respect,rather hustle harder to leave that kind of compound