PerfectJUSTICE:


And make him dey wear better shoes and clothes o or else the gossip fit turn to public gest wey fit in turn make the compound tire am...(what am I even saying self)

victooman:
So the previous compound l lived in, l was literally the clown of the house, I try to make every one happy especially the females. l was jovial, friendly and accomodating. I realized that the attitude wasn't in any way paying me. l was disrespected and it looked as if most of the girls were just using me to pass time and nothing more.

The one that broke the camel's back was when a girl barely 20yrs in my compound threatened to give me a hot slap if l ever touch her, this is a person we do play and gist a lot o. Since that day l borrowed sense.

Now l am in a new compound. Unfortunately the house has a lot of female occupants, with guys, but based on my past experience l no just send the girls and l am already in a serious relationship so even their friendship doesn't trick me. l no just want compound wahala...

So now the way those girls look at me and try to get in between my nerves is something else, all guys play and relate with them so why me? The hostility is getting out of hand and l dont want to slap sense into any girl head.

Please how do l handle this issue.

victooman:
l have worked,, this incident occurs the little time l stays at home,,,

victooman:
So the previous compound l lived in, l was literally the clown of the house, I try to make every one happy especially the females. l was jovial, friendly and accomodating. I realized that the attitude wasn't in any way paying me. l was disrespected and it looked as if most of the girls were just using me to pass time and nothing more.

The one that broke the camel's back was when a girl barely 20yrs in my compound threatened to give me a hot slap if l ever touch her, this is a person we do play and gist a lot o. Since that day l borrowed sense.

Now l am in a new compound. Unfortunately the house has a lot of female occupants, with guys, but based on my past experience l no just send the girls and l am already in a serious relationship so even their friendship doesn't trick me. l no just want compound wahala...

So now the way those girls look at me and try to get in between my nerves is something else, all guys play and relate with them so why me? The hostility is getting out of hand and l dont want to slap sense into any girl head.

Please how do l handle this issue.

SeriouslySense:
haha, reminds me of primary secondary school ( they are no longer in secondary school, now in tertiary, the rules have changes too), but reporting them will only give them what they want, the drama, and in this case, they will be justified, because they did not even touch him, he might begin to look like a crazy or weak fellow, the antisocial one, they have been dreaming about.

lendahand:
no no, we don't know the law and that's why people trample on our rights. Anybody that carries out a smear campaign against you unwarrantedly has defamed you and is guilty. Well I'm speaking as an advanced married man now though still young but when I was in university, I got along with most ladies in my compound though I did that from a distance so you don't tear my cloth like a dog tomorrow. If you live in a face me I face you, you must find a way to get along but not too close, that's the op's error.

victooman:
So the previous compound l lived in, l was literally the clown of the house, I try to make every one happy especially the females. l was jovial, friendly and accomodating. I realized that the attitude wasn't in any way paying me. l was disrespected and it looked as if most of the girls were just using me to pass time and nothing more.

The one that broke the camel's back was when a girl barely 20yrs in my compound threatened to give me a hot slap if l ever touch her, this is a person we do play and gist a lot o. Since that day l borrowed sense.

Now l am in a new compound. Unfortunately the house has a lot of female occupants, with guys, but based on my past experience l no just send the girls and l am already in a serious relationship so even their friendship doesn't trick me. l no just want compound wahala...

So now the way those girls look at me and try to get in between my nerves is something else, all guys play and relate with them so why me? The hostility is getting out of hand and l dont want to slap sense into any girl head.

Please how do l handle this issue.

victooman:
na so e dey start bro,, that was how l started in the first compound,,,,let them just be on their own and let me be,, the other day l was at the bathroom and within 5 minutes of been in the bathroom one of the girls came and start blabbing how the person in the bathroom is wasting her time,, saying all manners of rubbish outside to purposely irritate me,,l just came out and hold my peace ,,l didn't reply to the barking dog,,but honestly one day l am afraid they will push me to the wall.

PrinceofAgoAre:
Wait till they tag u proud..

Daguga:
Just make sure to greet them sometimes, good afternoon, good morning, that's all. No need to ask how was ur day or whatever. And don't go into unnecessary discussions with them. You know when to talk and when to keep quiet and when to pass by .

Your manner of relating with the people determines your level of respect. People can be saucy.

The fact that you greet them at intervals is good, whenever ur clothes are on the line and it's rainy and you aren't around, that greeting relationship gears them to help you pack your clothes. Even at this, when you go to collect your clothes from them later, just thank them and smile. That will bring more respect with nothing attached.

Munzy14:

Clowns don't make the goto boy friend for a mature lady..

Most of these skit makers and stand up comedians are different in real life...Some no dey smile anyhow in reality..

Their is something unserious about a man being a clown...It is highly repulsive for some ladies even if you have a comfortable life..

Again, one can be a clown for the money, and one can be a clown and use it as advantage to be touching the ladies who come closer anyhow..It is very very disgusting...

In whatever you do as a man, Respect your self and have self control around women..Even if she is your romantic interest..Their is something attractive in a man who acts like he doesnt care.

Well, your new life is fake one due to past insults from women, that is why it is hard for you to maintain it..Just return to the clown sef, but respect boundaries..You don't touch a lady anyhow even in private if she isn't yours and not cool with that.

Read body language of women more...They communicate more through that means.

naija4life247:


Slap sense into the girls' head, then you will see their Cultist boyfriends come and teach you a lesson you will never forget. People no play with you, e come dey vex you, you wan slap them, go ahead nah

KristaPretty:
You are the one who has a nasty attitude, more like who they call a busy body or notice me

If you are a busy boy, you would not look or even notice that anyone is giving you attitude, however it clearly shows that you derive joy in getting attention that would lead to Insult eventually

dragunov:


Guy, they are looking for your attention at all cost. That girl that came to attack you is like their sentry. They are "testing the waters" to see if you're solid as you're portraying. The way you held your calm was the best. Just keep ignoring them but hold your self intact.

Ijaya123:


Don’t you have work? Are you always home 24 hours? Stay in your apartment and mind your business.

lendahand:
haa no wonder!! Face me I slap you na normal wahala be that, see finish must enter. Kneel down and pray to God to upgrade your life then work hard and find your way into a self contained apartment at least

blingxx:


This is me .. as I too dey frown face like cultist , I no dey even allow anybody charge for my room , the tin dey pain them ehnn

Dorakay93:

How old are you self?
U can still relate with them and still earn your respect. It depends on your brain and maturity.

victooman:
So the previous compound l lived in, l was literally the clown of the house, I try to make every one happy especially the females. l was jovial, friendly and accomodating. I realized that the attitude wasn't in any way paying me. l was disrespected and it looked as if most of the girls were just using me to pass time and nothing more.

The one that broke the camel's back was when a girl barely 20yrs in my compound threatened to give me a hot slap if l ever touch her, this is a person we do play and gist a lot o. Since that day l borrowed sense.

Now l am in a new compound. Unfortunately the house has a lot of female occupants, with guys, but based on my past experience l no just send the girls and l am already in a serious relationship so even their friendship doesn't trick me. l no just want compound wahala...

So now the way those girls look at me and try to get in between my nerves is something else, all guys play and relate with them so why me? The hostility is getting out of hand and l dont want to slap sense into any girl head.

Please how do l handle this issue.

ford101:
let me advice you as an alpha male.you don't have it is that you don't have it.that manly composure that makes you stand out on ur own level.you don't no who u really are.or were you are from.iv had such experience as an under graduate.even till tomorrow I keep to my self.i relate to only people like you who would go out of there way to be funny to attract my attention.i love clowns like you cos u are friends to everyone.your type would definitely update me on the happenings so I don't have to go out of my way to talk to anybody in the compound.

victooman:
Talk too much how? in a compound l just explain that l hardly relate with anybody,, this is over 8 months of living in that compound and l can bet most of them dont even know my name.