KristaPretty:
The world is changing. Most people don't want to get married or entangled now

I suggest you join groups in the church volunteer groups as well where you can meet more responsible people I guess

kartelkid:
Please guys I need to understand something that really bothers me; I sometimes result to smoking to cope with, as I find it really depressing.
In my early days I used to have girlfriends, and it was quite a deal, back then in school.
As I got older I switched to being used to hookups and ashawo; and the sorts, because I realized all I wanted was sex. Years past, I've outgrown this hookup thing, and value creating relationships with women; which obviously includes sex, but is more serious and could lead to something in future.
What worries me is that despite all my attempts online and offline to find a relationship material woman; I realized that almost all the ladies I toasted wanted nothing but hookup. The moment I appear serious; they disappear or try to play mind games.
Please guys is this a normal thing now in our country, or it's just me experiencing this. It's really sad; and hopeless, as a normal relationship will help my morale and prepare for the future. Have you found it easy to have permanent relationships without playing the religion card?

LutherSanchez:
Women never wants you to need them only to want them. The moment your want becomes need,they no longer wants you

LutherSanchez:
Women never wants you to need them only to want them. The moment your want becomes need,they no longer wants you

Datboredberri:
Karma is a bit**... But I won't judge... Many men are like you... Spend their youth sexualizing women then complain that there aren't any decent women left when they've passed their 'whoring' phase... Who were you fu**ing? Didn't matter then, did it?

You should change your circle... Go places where you would find the sort of women you want... Depending on your interests... Like books, go to the library... An art gallery... Culture? History? Science? Join online groups too...

That way you find someone who would truly appreciate you...

kartelkid:
With all due respect, you're absolutely correct. I guess this is why most guys fish out single mothers everywhere.
The reality is that I'm no longer getting long-term satisfaction from only having casual sex. I also need a help mate.
Thank you.

Datboredberri:
Illiterate... Men like you friendzone themselves then wail like bush babies on redpill threads that women are bad...

LutherSanchez:
The last guy you friendzoned showed that he needed you thereby try to play mr nice guy that's y he's there.

Datboredberri:
Who doesn't like men who are nice?

I don't think that would get you friendzoned...

posty56:
the sooner men realize there's hardly wife material in this era the sooner they find peace ,my guy stop stressing yourself,be like don jazzy be like timaya ,they ain't married but they're are happy ,no be must say everybody marry

LutherSanchez:
Me am not nice and i don't negotiate with Mercenaries. Bye

posty56:
the sooner men realize there's hardly wife material in this era the sooner they find peace ,my guy stop stressing yourself,be like don jazzy be like timaya ,they ain't married but they're are happy ,no be must say everybody marry

Because you are in their lives, or in the dead of the night when they are alone, you are always there to know their deepest thoughts and saddest cries?

Be consoling yourself with that one.

If 35 - 40+ single celebrity women are in want of marriages and a fruit of the womb, it is their male counterparts that do not want the same? An average guy above is lamenting, so you can bet it is certainly the same thing for most (of the other) males.

And you don't find it surprising? Why should a man even be experiencing feelings of loneliness and cravings for a relationship at all, that he'll need to hear advice such as yours just to feel better? Innately, should men not be aversed to feelings, and especially feelings of love and a desire for connection?

Datboredberri:
Karma is a bit**... But I won't judge... Many men are like you... Spend their youth sexualizing women then complain that there aren't any decent women left when they've passed their 'whoring' phase... Who were you fu**ing? Didn't matter then, did it?

You should change your circle... Go places where you would find the sort of women you want... Depending on your interests... Like books, go to the library... An art gallery... Culture? History? Science? Join online groups too...

That way you find someone who would truly appreciate you...

LutherSanchez:
Well said bro

Datboredberri:
The second most stupid comment...

Fish out single mothers...

How does this even make any sense? You're the one who spent years fu** ing anything with a hole... If contraceptives didn't exist, you would be father Abraham... And you think you're in the position to judge?

You want a help mate... Should have thought of that before making yourself a community di**...

I fu**ing hate people like you... If you were smart, women would think you were worth sh** but they don't... Tells a lot...

posty56:
the society for long has wired men to get married soon as they reach a certain age, because of that many men are wired to think that without getting married they'll die old and lonely , only for them to jump into marriage and realize it's not what it is and it mostly favours women ,I am breaking from that matrix bro ,I don't fancy marriage and no matter the emotional blackmailing I won't fall it

begoniaa:


Because you are in their lives, or in the dead of the night when they are alone, you are always there to know their deepest thoughts and saddest cries?

Be consoling yourself with that one.

If 35 - 40+ single celebrity women are in want of marriages and a fruit of the womb, it is their male counterparts that do not want the same? An average guy above is lamenting, so you can bet it is certainly the same thing for most (of the other) males.

And you don't find it surprising? Why should a man even be experiencing feelings of loneliness and cravings for a relationship at all, that he'll need to hear advice such as yours just to feel better? Innately, should men not be aversed to feelings, and especially feelings of love and a desire for connection?

LutherSanchez:
Marriage is an endgame for the women only not for men.

posty56:
thank you! I haven't said finish one mumu girl don write epistle inside my mention. because they know if more and more men become liberated them go suffer ,.

LutherSanchez:
Marriage is an endgame for the women only not for men.

Old age is the endgame for Men while a woman retires early to focus and be committed to her marriage/family/ children. Men who're around thinking it will last forever, at the end the woman enjoys the benefit of her "early retirement" while the man the benefit of his whoring.

Which makes me ponder if some of you ever take time to think deeper things than sex and whoring!
It's disturbing to read garbage like this from a supposed 21st century youth.

posty56:
na you Sabi , loneliness is and old form of emotional blackmailing ,there are people who are married and are regretting. it everything is all about choice ,so stay of my mention ,. last attention I go give you

Who is blackmailing you? Do you have comprehension issues? Abi you did not read where the OP said he is feeling depressed because he can't build a meaningful relationship with women? Is loneliness far from that? Did he not say he is in want of love: a long-lasting connection with a woman and not just something casual like sex? And I ask you why. I thought men are naturally wired for having sex and sex and sex and sex and do not have the capability for love. Why is the OP having such FEELINGS as a man?

People in marriages are regretting; why is your SINGLE guy, the OP also regretting his past decisions?

Last attention? E be like say soldier ant dey wånk for inside your brain. I quote you for public forum, you dey talk attention and staying out of your mentions, as per who you be? Na untop who you wan dey feel fly?

posty56:
thank you! I haven't said finish one mumu girl don write epistle inside my mention. because they know if more and more men become liberated them go suffer ,.

Do you want to do this? Because I will bite it. But I never start and you don dey run away... should we keep insults aside and have a civil, enlightening discourse on this matter? Huh?