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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jul 14, 2022
Persephone1:
Old age is the endgame for Men while a woman retires early to focus and be committed to her marriage/family/ children. Men who're around thinking it will last forever, at the end the woman enjoys the benefit of her "early retirement" while the man the benefit of his whoring.

Which makes me ponder if some of you ever take time to think deeper things than sex and whoring! undecided
It's disturbing to read garbage like this from a supposed 21st century youth.
Marriage is security for women at the expense of man's freedom. Women want to get married because they hv everything to gain and nothing to lose. SECURITY AND COMMITMENT is the female endgame and marriage provides it.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by posty56: 11:07pm On Jul 14, 2022
come oh why is it that when men make choices women will start to list the cons of the choices. I advice OP not to carry marriage for head it's his choice to either take my opinion or leave it ,if OP comes again for were he should get women I will advise him to choose foreign women over ours ,all this masturbating inside my mention won't change anything. , as Nigeria women they take find rich husband ,na so me they take find foreign women, with no too much strings attached cool ,if like cry for my mention na ya cup of tea cool ,adios!

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 11:10pm On Jul 14, 2022
posty56:
na you Sabi , loneliness is and old form of emotional blackmailing ,there are people who are married and are regretting. it everything is all about choice ,so stay of my mention cool,. last attention I go give you

Also, if loneliness is an old form of emotional blackmailing, are you admitting then that guys actually use it to blackmail women like us? Are you saying when guys threaten that we'll die single and husbandless, they are actually trying to manipulate us? grin grin

So, iyen ni pe, you people know these things and you say it to women. You actually know what such statements attempt to achieve, but when I threw it back at a man now, you're crying "emotional blackmail."

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 11:11pm On Jul 14, 2022
Persephone1:
Old age is the endgame for Men while a woman retires early to focus and be committed to her marriage/family/ children. Men who're around thinking it will last forever, at the end the woman enjoys the benefit of her "early retirement" while the man the benefit of his whoring.

Which makes me ponder if some of you ever take time to think deeper things than sex and whoring! undecided
It's disturbing to read garbage like this from a supposed 21st century youth.
Like it or not,a man can choose to marry at any age he likes but women.......

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 11:12pm On Jul 14, 2022
LutherSanchez:
Like it or not,a man can choose to marry at any age he likes but women.......

grin The OP will disagree with you.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 11:13pm On Jul 14, 2022
posty56:
thank you! I haven't said finish one mumu girl don write epistle inside my mention. cool because they know if more and more men become liberated them go suffer cool,.
On the contrary dear Nl Bill Gates women won't suffer, perhaps women whom you share the same bloodline with because an apple doesn't fall far from it tree they say. Luckily your bloodline makes only 0.001% of women population so yes the world is safe from backward thinking.

It is pitiable that upon threads opened daily by guys complaining of not finding a suitable companion, you in your deluded mind still believe women are the one suffering or who will. Lol your typical African mind is playing pranks on you and refuse to snap out of it. Women aren't the ones opening heartbreak or "find me a husband" threads, women aren't the one screaming" no good men" . The gender who you claim to be liberated are the ones wailing.
Lol... while women are chasing what makes you relevant (which they are getting) you all are here believing and spreading feebles. Not that I blame you, it's easier to dream than face reality sometimes.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jul 14, 2022
begoniaa:


grin The OP will disagree with you.
Not until he finds out what marriage is all about. I was like him once,he'll learn soon enough.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 11:16pm On Jul 14, 2022
posty56:
come oh why is it that when men make choices women will start to list the cons of the choices. I advice OP not to carry marriage for head it's his choice to either take my opinion or leave it ,if OP comes again for were he should get women I will advise him to choose foreign women over ours ,all this masturbating inside my mention won't change anything. , as Nigeria women they take find rich husband ,na so me they take find foreign women, with no too much strings attached cool ,if like cry for my mention na ya cup of tea cool ,adios!

See as you are already shaking like a wet chicken, hopping here and there like a slimy frog... you wan turn am to foreign vs. local women matter?

Lailai. grin Come here, don't go anywhere o. Let us help your brother diagnose and solve his emotional issues.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 11:18pm On Jul 14, 2022
LutherSanchez:
Like it or not,a man can choose to marry at any age he likes but women.......
To like or hate is not my business, I really don't care. You mistake me for one who is insane enough to put all humans in a box and argue who choose to do what first. I stopped doing that at 10

You do not expect me to start dragging who marries first or last with you right? Don't make me laugh.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 11:19pm On Jul 14, 2022
LutherSanchez:
Not until he finds out what marriage is all about. I was like him once,he'll learn soon enough.

THAT IS NOT THE POINT.

Jesus!

You said a man can marry at any age, I pointed how the OP is struggling to find a decent woman at his age ... does that not nullify your point? Explain why the OP is finding it hard to get a woman, given your premise that a man can CHOOSE to marry at any age he likes.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Justnow2022: 11:21pm On Jul 14, 2022
begoniaa:
grin grin Las' las', reality go meet every one of you brostitutes. The other day it was Nwanneni, today it is you. You people have not start to see anything o. Una go find good women taya. Shey you are waiting for Isaiah 4:1 to come to pass? Just wait a lirru bit more. Keep waiting.

You sound frustrated. Marriage is never a problem to a man unless he lacks money. And even when a man lacks money, if he brings he’s expectations down, he will easily find a wife. This can’t be said of women.

Four women are on my waiting list right now. I’ll eventually choose one out of them.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 11:22pm On Jul 14, 2022
Justnow2022:
You sound frustrated. Marriage is never a problem to a man unless he lacks money. And even when a man lacks money, if he brings he’s expectations down, he will easily find a wife. This can’t be said of women.

Four women are on my waiting list right now. I’ll eventually choose one out of them.

O ku orire.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 11:26pm On Jul 14, 2022
begoniaa:


THAT IS NOT THE POINT.

Jesus!

You said a man can marry at any age, I pointed how the OP is struggling to find a decent woman at his age ... does that not nullify your point? Explain why the OP is finding it hard to get a woman, given your premise that a man can CHOOSE to marry at any age he likes.
OP is trying to find the Perfect which exist only in his head,by the time he faces reality and gets to find out the truth. He'll then decide whether he's gonna get married now or next 5 years that's if at all he'll want to marry after his discovery.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 11:30pm On Jul 14, 2022
posty56:
the society for long has wired men to get married soon as they reach A CERTAIN AGE

LutherSanchez:
Like it or not,a man can choose to marry AT ANY AGE he likes.......

See as confusion dey set for their camp. E don dey happen.

grin Abeg, na WHICH gender in particular don dey conditioned to marry at a certain again? Which gender craves marriage the most? Can you explain to me why this OP is feeling all he's feeling now... if all you guys' assertions about men are true, then someone should just tell me why the OP's case is the way it is na. Anyone. Any body?

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 11:33pm On Jul 14, 2022
LutherSanchez:
Marriage is security for women at the expense of man's freedom. Women want to get married because they hv everything to gain and nothing to lose. SECURITY AND COMMITMENT is the female endgame and marriage provides it.
Two counter response yet nothing.
Marriage isn't the endgame for Men, yet marriage is security for women at the expense of Men's freedom. Doesn't that sound contradicting to you? Would you like to edit your first post to avoid sounding confused. ?

Everything to gain but nothing to lose? Aside financial security which most of you are failing at what else does a woman gain from a typical Nigerian Man? Prick? Escape from societal pressures majorly constituted by Men? What does a woman gain?
A woman who is damned to end up with a typical Nigerian Man only gains Children! Her bundle of Joy! (Which you lots are wailing over already now anyways)

Nothing to lose? A woman loses everything about her, she changes her being, her career, job, her freedom, her liberty, her power, her mind, her body. Everything that makes HER just to be with an entitled brat like some of you here. What greater sacrifice than that ? But then like your society raise you, her sacrifice isn't monetary so it's of no value. Not surprised!

Security and Commitment? From who? From a man who is whoring around? Okay I'm beginning to get your jokes!

Heaven helps whoever ends up with a typical Nigerian Man.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Justnow2022: 11:33pm On Jul 14, 2022
begoniaa:


O ku orire.

Daalu nne
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jul 14, 2022
begoniaa:




See as confusion dey set for their camp. E don dey happen.

grin Abeg, na WHICH gender in particular don dey conditioned to marry at a certain again? Which gender craves marriage the most? Can you explain to me why this OP is feeling all he's feeling now... if all you guys' assertions about men are true, then someone should just tell me why the OP's case is the way it is na. Anyone. Any body?
SOCIETY has long wired men to get married at a certain age is nothing but a THEORY. A man can marry at any age he likes is the REALITY.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by fineberry(m): 11:37pm On Jul 14, 2022
LutherSanchez:
Women never wants you to need them only to want them. The moment your want becomes need,they no longer wants you
hmmm

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 11:39pm On Jul 14, 2022
LutherSanchez:
SOCIETY has long wired men to get married at a certain age is nothing but a THEORY. A man can marry at any age he likes is the REALITY.
Good thinking!

Little wonder why men get desperate when they are over 35 with no woman. He should have been relaxed and whorre more since he has the time. Men don't age, women do!

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Justnow2022: 11:42pm On Jul 14, 2022
LutherSanchez:
SOCIETY has long wired men to get married at a certain age is nothing but a THEORY. A man can marry at any age he likes is the REALITY.

My brother stop wasting your precious time on these frustrated feminists. If Ned can marry at over 60yrs, I can do it. In fact, my dad remarried a girl he was older than by 36 years.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 11:46pm On Jul 14, 2022
After you turned your wife into a one night stand? shocked shocked shocked

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 11:46pm On Jul 14, 2022
Justnow2022:


My brother stop wasting your precious time on these frustrated feminists. If Ned can marry at over 60yrs, I can do it. In fact, my dad remarried a girl he was older than by 36 years.
This would be so great! Please let's encourage breeding more of Ned. That will help to eradicate poverty in Nigeria.

Having the average Nigerian worth billions would be so wonderful to the country's economic growth. And yes! Women won't have to labour through stress and tears to raise their kids and live life.

It's a Win-Win after all!

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Prettygirl200(f): 11:48pm On Jul 14, 2022
See them,if it was a woman now all manner of insult would have been rained on, oga u are a brostitute and u have lost body count. Just test pls

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 11:48pm On Jul 14, 2022
Justnow2022:


My brother stop wasting your precious time on these frustrated feminists. If Ned can marry at over 60yrs, I can do it. In fact, my dad remarried a girl he was older than by 36 years.

But are you, and could you ever be Ned? lol! Reality check!

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 11:48pm On Jul 14, 2022
LutherSanchez:
OP is trying to find the Perfect which exist only in his head,by the time he faces reality and gets to find out the truth. He'll then decide whether he's gonna get married now or next 5 years that's if at all he'll want to marry after his discovery.

So obviously, his choosing is DEPENDENT on favourable or unfavorable conditions.

Now, how long do you wager that the OP would take to find out this truth? Do you think he'll ever find the truth at all? Is his choosing to marry at any age of his choice still within his control?

If he WANTS to marry, but eventually discovers the unfavorable side of this truth coin, has his choice to marry not be altered now?

If he doesn't find the kind of woman (perfect or not) he wants, wouldn't his choice to want to marry be affected?

While a man can marry at any age, hence you calling it a 'choice' (which is actually a decision), is that age always going to be his desired age? Is that age always going to be an age of his choosing? Wouldn't there be circumstances that'll come that might disrupt a man's timeline for marriage (and kids)?

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 11:50pm On Jul 14, 2022
LutherSanchez:
SOCIETY has long wired men to get married at a certain age is nothing but a THEORY. A man can marry at any age he likes is the REALITY.

I see... so posty56 was only here yapping off about unrealistic theories...

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 11:51pm On Jul 14, 2022
Persephone1:
Good thinking!

Little wonder while men get desperate when they are over 35 with no woman. He should have been relaxed and whorre more since he has the time. Men don't age, women do!
Not all men,only broke men.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 11:55pm On Jul 14, 2022
As a man. If anyone forces you into marriage other than your own time and convenience,you're ruined for life. So yes,under no circumstance should a man marry unless when he wants.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 11:55pm On Jul 14, 2022
LutherSanchez:
Not all men,only broke men.

Ahhh... this is lovely. A bro broke-shaming his gees. cheesy

So you are saying only broke men are desperate for marriages?

All of you guys should come and read this o.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 11:56pm On Jul 14, 2022
LutherSanchez:
Not all men,only broke men.
So Many Elon,Bills, and Job on Nl!

You dream more than you live! Na your brother Dem chase out of the house for sharing prick around yen. grin

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 12:01am On Jul 15, 2022
LutherSanchez:
Not all men,only broke men.

And now... I think I am getting it... you saying a man can choose to marry at any age is just another way of saying rich or financially free guys can choose to marry at any age.

That means then that A BROKE GUY doesn't have the luxury of choice when it comes to marriage?

So your diagnosis for the OP's case is a lack of money... that is why he's in want of a meaningful relationship... what a sweet conundrum.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:05am On Jul 15, 2022
begoniaa:


Ahhh... this is lovely. A bro broke-shaming his gees. cheesy

So you are saying only broke men are desperate for marriages?

All of you guys should come and read this o.
Why would i be desperate for marriage? To have kids or what? Davido and wizkid aren't married but they have kids. So why d pressure?

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