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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 12:08am On Jul 15, 2022 |
LutherSanchez: I get you. "Broke men are desperate for marriage" —LutherSanchez, 2022. 4 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:08am On Jul 15, 2022 |
posty56:This is what happens when you read without the intent to comprehend. A quick purposeful review of ladies posts on this thread will tell any straight thinking person that none of our post suggest any of your claims. No one has told op to get married or not. We really do not care! Unlike you lots we don't give directives or teach a man how to live. Rather we oppose the fact that you think we want you or marriage like air. Or that your existence is more important than it should be. If you like go for a Gabon woman, it doesn't change anything for us here. Don't think yourself too important, you are nothing but dust! 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:11am On Jul 15, 2022 |
Only two things matters for a typical naija lady in a SITUATIONSHIP which are MONEY AND VALUE. 3 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:13am On Jul 15, 2022 |
begoniaa:Yeah and make sure you put the word DESPERATE and quote me anytime anyday. 1 Like |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by NeckingNgulping(m): 12:14am On Jul 15, 2022 |
begoniaa: I have been following your comments. All i see you do is to capitalize on the op's predicament. Listen, the op himself doesn't make up the entire male gender. And i didn't see where he said he's lonely. It's clear that the hoes he's been following ain't just loyal. I wonder why person go dey carry woman matter for head for this kind time. For your information, women are more desperate to get married than men as the marital clock is always ticking against the female gender. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:18am On Jul 15, 2022 |
NeckingNgulping:Tell her |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 12:22am On Jul 15, 2022 |
LutherSanchez: Oh... okay... as a Naija guy, you are not looking for value in any woman should you decide that you want to go into a relationship? How can you put "typical" and "situationship" side by side with the word "value?" Why do you guys like to shame women for things you all will hold dear, things any natural human wants and try to make it into some vice that shouldn't see the light of the day? Show me any self-respecting person who doesn't look for value in all of their dealings in life. Who? Did you read where did OP said all the ladies are just looking for is hookup? That's to tell you that they care not about his financial state nor do they find any value in him... so how does this comment of yours shed any more light on the OP? Instead of you to address him, and all his lacks or even give tips for him to become better and improve his chances with women, as that's his desire, you're trying to spin it on the heads of the women. Like y'all are always fond of doing... 2 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Tboymessiah(m): 12:30am On Jul 15, 2022 |
kartelkid: NasoLifeBe!!! We are in the same shoe |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 12:30am On Jul 15, 2022 |
NeckingNgulping: ![]() Should you not be HAPPY at the lack of wifeable women? That means less stress for you men! You should be CELEBRATING our biological clocks instead and encouraging us to NOT get married since marriage is of no use to men. You cannot shame us for wanting marriages that destroy men, and still shame us for having babies without men... all the while dangling 'biological clock' over our heads. Watin you want make we do for you? Kill ourselves, LMAO? 2 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:32am On Jul 15, 2022 |
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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Tboymessiah(m): 12:33am On Jul 15, 2022 |
Victor2707: NasoLifeBe!!! You are right, I lost a relationship just because I want everything to be on a fast lane, truly being despirate ruin relationship 1 Like |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:34am On Jul 15, 2022 |
LutherSanchez:Define Situationship. Define value. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 12:36am On Jul 15, 2022 |
Imagine... tell me marital clock is ticking against the female gender... so I can go into marriage... a marriage that is to my advantage and that will end up caging men? How can you believe "marital clock is against women" and "marital life benefits women" at the same time? That means the marital clock is a GOOD thing then... it is a POSITIVE incentive pushing women towards marital life where they get to enjoy and everything, abi? So why do y'all use it as a derogatory remark? ![]() You want us to marry EARLY so we can enjoy the best of marriage to the detriment of our husbands? Sounds like a fair deal and a great advice from a good place. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 12:37am On Jul 15, 2022 |
Persephone1: You sha no wan show mercy this night. ![]() But fire on, comrade. I am feeling you. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:39am On Jul 15, 2022 |
I have already adviced OP not to carry women matter for head for this naija,else him go lose focus. I dey take naija women these days like dstv,e no matter how many months you suscribe,once you're due them go cut off,e no matter how much you don spend or given them in the past,once you just broke small dem go begin evaporate like vapour until you no go see them again. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:39am On Jul 15, 2022 |
Tboymessiah: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() In as much as I want to play a devil's advocate i feel your sadness and I will tell you this. Women see through more than you think, and to be honest with you,women will only settle for a Man of value and I'm not talking about Money! If Money is all you have to offer, I will advise you retract from wanting anything serious. Be a Man a Woman can look up to then you will have what you want. Again it's not by Money! My two cents 8 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:42am On Jul 15, 2022 |
begoniaa:I don show mercy to Tboy.messiah oOoOO. ![]() Where una pack all your love go nah? These boys wants some love ![]() ![]() I'm feeling you too Sis, my Vawulence comrade! 3 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 12:44am On Jul 15, 2022 |
Persephone1: Everything here is so right on point. But I swrrr, they always make it hard for someone to empathise with them, LMAO. 3 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 12:48am On Jul 15, 2022 |
Persephone1: Osi gini? ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Tboymessiah(m): 12:53am On Jul 15, 2022 |
Persephone1: Hahaha, Although am not searching for a lady to be in a relationship with for now, that will be next year. Just reading to know how to prepare myself |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 12:55am On Jul 15, 2022 |
LutherSanchez: You are not a kind somebody. ![]() Did you not just say brokeness is the cause of desperation in men? So how can you just tell him not to carry women matter on his head and leave it at that, without addressing the root cause? You think his problem will not keep resurfacing? Of everything you and some other dudes have said here, NONE, absolutely none of you has told the OP how to make money or build wealth... And in your mind, you think you have done well by a bro. 4 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:56am On Jul 15, 2022 |
begoniaa:Will they learn? When guys on the thread already equate their worth and value to Money. It's just the representation of what the average guy think there is to him or he can offer. A guy who thinks all he has to offer in a union is Money meets a Woman who wants more than money because it is the least of her scale of preference. There is definitely going to be some compromise or problems. But guess what these men don't want to learn. They don't even want to accept the fact that their money can be useless. They will learn! By the time they experience heartbreak over and over again, they will either add value to themselves or join their redpill brothers. 6 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Tboymessiah(m): 1:01am On Jul 15, 2022 |
Persephone1: I love your contributions, please: Apart from money what can be a man value. Also What can a man posses, to make a woman looking up to him |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 1:03am On Jul 15, 2022 |
Persephone1: I've never seen a set so brash in their ignorance. They say women are wrong when they talk to each other about what men wants...like, girls gisting in their girl groups and sharing tips have no iota of what a man wants, but we should instead hear what a man wants from a man, so why can they not also hear what a woman wants from women? If women give themselves wrong advice about men, is it now men that don't give themselves wrong advice about women in their boys' groups? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 1:10am On Jul 15, 2022 |
LutherSanchez:Now you are beginning to sound like you are trying to convince yourself that you are a high value man than you are trying to convince the audience. You no dey carry woman matter for head but you have been screaming all over the thread trying to be heard and certified. Lol You know carry them matter for her but you want to be rich like wizkid and Ned just to impress and get Women You no carry women matter for head but you have been discussing women for hours now You have broke shamed your fellow guys, made men existence all about money, Your motivation to get rich comes from women but somehow you no carry them matter for head. Brother, it saddens me to inform you that you do not only carry women matter for head, you hawk them matter like gala inside traffic. ![]() 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by beckeralice208: 1:13am On Jul 15, 2022 |
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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by NeckingNgulping(m): 1:25am On Jul 15, 2022 |
begoniaa: In truth, marriage doesn't benefit men. When you get married as a man, you're going to slug out your ass your entire life just to meet the needs of your wife(who is a grown up), and she might not even appreciate. So, men should be better off living alone. These women aren't wifeable yet they keep stressing us the men for marriage. It bothers me a lot why people who are not wifeable will keep doing this. And yes, I'll keep dangling the marital clock on your head just so I'll keep sending you on a goose chase. You'll keep running around searching for men with your bad character and end up running in circles. 5 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 1:27am On Jul 15, 2022 |
begoniaa:PRIDE The greatest undoing of a typical Nigerian Man and Black Man at large. They are too proud to learn, unlearn and relearn. They hold dear to things they ought to let go and let go things they ought to hold dear because in their minds what they see is all there is. Sadly they do not see beyond their nose. This same pride makes a man think he knows a woman better than herself or fellow woman would. ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by begoniaa: 1:47am On Jul 15, 2022 |
NeckingNgulping: ![]() ![]() If you will decide to be a fire-stoking demon shaming me, don't cry when I leap at you and scar you. And e no mean say I go end up with you, but you must taste the sting of the hornet's nest you are stirring. Wailing, broke, desperate and "valueless" simps like the OP dey for us. They will always be there to wife me. So shame away; it'll all work for good for me, babe. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 1:50am On Jul 15, 2022 |
Tboymessiah:This is relative, I can not type what every woman as it differs but I will try as much as possible to type out what some sensible women I know look out for in a Man. The first thing that strikes a woman in a man is his Comportment. When a woman meets you for the first time, she notices how you carry yourself. Your carriage speaks a lot about you. 1) Your maturity: how you deal with people around 2) Your confidence: How you see yourself 3) Your Aura: What you are all about. This is why in first 5 minutes of meeting you a woman can decide if she wants a long or short term dealings with you. As you move on with each other, she checks your level of knowledge, intelligence, assertiveness, discipline, self control, your plans, your goals, your conflict resolution ability, your rage level, time management, financial management, communication skills, leadership skills, your resilience, your vulnerability level, how you handle difficult situation, Your playfulness, Your emotional intelligence , ability to play a lover and a teacher etc. If you can beat her in all these areas, i.e be above her in these areas, believe me she will respect you and want to have you. Because not only will she want to enjoy all you have,she would want her children to enjoy these traits and have them too. There could be more, and some of the listed may not be needed depending on what she wants. But most of those things listed are what women secretly look out for in Men. As for what can be of value to Man, that will be on you. You only know what you hold dear and what you stand for. You owe me ooooo ![]() 11 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by NeckingNgulping(m): 1:52am On Jul 15, 2022 |
begoniaa: The marital clock being against you here means that: men who are the source of your benefits are scarce. They're like a gold dust, the oasis in the desert, a highly valued creatures. Hence, the reason why y'all women scramble around them for marriage. As it is now, a woman's chances of getting a man are higher at a younger age, not after she has finished whoring around. Life has made men to bear the burdens of marriages, and we are trying to change the narrative. Y'all women should enjoy while it lasts. |
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 1:53am On Jul 15, 2022 |
begoniaa if I miss out anything in my response to The boyMessiah. Kindly help to add . Let's help a brother who is willing to learn ![]() 2 Likes |
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