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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:15pm On Jul 15, 2022
Nyascobar1414:


Its amazes me how grown up men will still be acting like they are kids..

Love doesn't exist..
Unconditional love doesn't exist..

No human(woman) can love you so dearly apart from your own mom..
Only God can love you unconditionally..
Quite this mentality of seeking for true love you will never see...

Stay real and leave the fantasy world.
You don't know shit.
Oga, true love exists o. Love is something children can't understand.
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by jerobua: 12:15pm On Jul 15, 2022
I can relate to what you are talking about, ITS CALLED THE HAMMER OF GOD. BACK LUCK, DRY SPELL. You will have many regrets, thinking that you have probably allowed the lady for you to go during your days of adventures(Lol), what I will just say is that you shouldn't be too hard on yourself while trying to have a good relationship, so you don't sink into depression.
You are going to get too many advices here and there. try the good ones.
Go for special prayers and if it's possible change your location.
I wish you the best

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by cayorday89(m): 12:16pm On Jul 15, 2022
LutherSanchez:
Na you know wetin u read and wetin u dey type. How will a man who knows what he's doing be desperate to get married these days? Them don too lie give broke men say if them get married their fortunes might change,but that is the worst lie ever.
We are saying same thing, the point I am driving at is some will still go ahead with it even without anybody necessarily lieing to them or pressuring them to get married, in all, Finance and circumstances comes into play when a man is to settle down.
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nyascobar1414: 12:19pm On Jul 15, 2022
nijaomegacode:

You don't know shit.
Oga, true love exists o. Love is something children can't understand.

stfu.. Even you, you cant love another human being unconditionally..

Or abi make I prove am to you..

All humans have one form of selfishness..

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by EMAXIM(m): 12:20pm On Jul 15, 2022
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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:24pm On Jul 15, 2022
Nyascobar1414:


stfu.. Even you, you cant love another human being unconditionally..

Or abi make I prove am to you..

All humans have one form of selfishness..
Just because you can't doesn't mean others can't. When I was in my early twenties , I couldn't love unconditionally. I was stupid and foolish at the same time selfish. Now I am older and I am planning to love this girl unconditionally.
I know she has faults. I Know she's crazy. I know she can be strong headed but I have decided to love her. Not for sex, not for pleasure or anything. I have just made this conscious decision to love her like that.
Now, that's the point maturity starts from.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Dearlord(m): 12:29pm On Jul 15, 2022
begoniaa:
grin grin Las' las', reality go meet every one of you brostitutes. The other day it was Nwanneni, today it is you. You people have not start to see anything o. Una go find good women taya. Shey you are waiting for Isaiah 4:1 to come to pass? Just wait a lirru bit more. Keep waiting.

grin you made me laugh, abeg remind me werren dem talk for Isaiah 4:1?
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:30pm On Jul 15, 2022
begoniaa:


So that means you wouldn't be interested in being my Man? :-(



Okay.
Yes o. But we can be friends cheesy
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by KingRSHD2(m): 12:31pm On Jul 15, 2022
My dear brother it's like that everywhere ooo it's kind of very difficult to find a woman called wife material ..so don't blaims yourself for anything because it's everywhere even am also a victim presently ....

May God help us grin angry tongue

kartelkid:
Please guys I need to understand something that really bothers me; I sometimes result to smoking to cope with, as I find it really depressing.

In my early days I used to have girlfriends, and it was quite a deal, back then in school.
As I got older I switched to being used to hookups and ashawo; and the sorts, because I realized all I wanted was sex.

Years past, I've outgrown this hookup thing, and value creating relationships with women; which obviously includes sex, but is more serious and could lead to something in future.

What worries me is that despite all my attempts online and offline to find a relationship material woman; I realized that almost all the ladies I toasted wanted nothing but hookup. The moment I appear serious; they disappear or try to play mind games.

Please guys is this a normal thing now in our country, or it's just me experiencing this. It's really sad; and hopeless, as a normal relationship will help my morale and prepare for the future.

Have you found it easy to have permanent relationships without playing the religion card?

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nyascobar1414: 12:31pm On Jul 15, 2022
nijaomegacode:

Just because you can't doesn't mean others can't. When I was in my early twenties , I couldn't love unconditionally. I was stupid and foolish at the same time selfish. Now I am older and I am planning to love this girl unconditionally.
I know she has faults. I Know she's crazy. I know she can be strong headed but I have decided to love her. Not for sex, not for pleasure or anything. I have just made this conscious decision to love her like that.
Now, that's the point maturity starts from.

Ok.. You still SIMPly matured..
Lol..


Peradventure that your girlfriend accidentally looses two of her eyeballs, will you still love her as you do?


Yes or No..








This is a prove that humans gad no love bro.
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by bukatyne(f): 12:33pm On Jul 15, 2022
jasminer:
Humans would always want companionship as they get older but when the chips are down, loneliness hits men more than it hits women. But because true love is scarce, people are now seeking true love in an offspring. This is where the women win the game.

I always said it that the next 10yrs will be interesting.
The first man after being alone for years decided it was better to die with Eve than live alone forever. Some people think they are wiser than Adam and the female gender is only good for hookup or producing babies. Limao.

Isaiah 4:1 isn't a future prophecy. It has already been fulfilled. It is a continuation of Isaiah 3:25-26
Isaiah 3: 25
Thy men shall fall by the sword, and thy mighty in the war.
Isaiah 3: 26
And her gates shall lament and mourn; and she being desolate shall sit upon the ground.
Isaiah 4: 1
And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.
******************************************

Currently, male population vs female population is 52:48 (google is your friend before you start arguing). For Isaiah's prophecy to happen, it should be 14:86 (1 man to 7 women or more even).

Husbands are scarce, men are not scarce. Same way wives are more scarce but women are not scarce.

cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

You should have left the other guys on the thread in their delusions.

That's why I love reality; you can't wish it away with useless theories.

Women and men have weaknesses and strengths given to them by nature; no amount of wishing away through useless theories (let me choose peace and not mention them grin) would change anything.

Study your gender, know the strength nature has given you and leverage on it. Also study the weakness and mitigate against it.

The ones you can't mitigate, accept your fate and move on.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:35pm On Jul 15, 2022
Justnow2022:


You sound frustrated. Marriage is never a problem to a man unless he lacks money. And even when a man lacks money, if he brings he’s expectations down, he will easily find a wife. This can’t be said of women.

Four women are on my waiting list right now. I’ll eventually choose one out of them.

The way you think you're playing these women, they're playing you too. You're just one out of many options. Think nigga. Think!

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by anonym0us: 12:37pm On Jul 15, 2022
You did it the wrong way
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by gevans(m): 12:38pm On Jul 15, 2022
posty56:
the sooner men realize there's hardly wife material in this era the sooner they find peace ,my guy stop stressing yourself,be like don jazzy be like timaya ,they ain't married but they're are happy ,no be must say everybody marry
There are wife materials. The truth is, we attract our kind of persons in most cases
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Hassanmaye(m): 12:43pm On Jul 15, 2022
Datboredberri:
Illiterate... Men like you friendzone themselves then wail like bush babies on redpill threads that women are bad...

Will you shut up
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Taiwojon(m): 12:45pm On Jul 15, 2022
kartelkid:
Please guys I need to understand something that really bothers me; I sometimes result to smoking to cope with, as I find it really depressing.

In my early days I used to have girlfriends, and it was quite a deal, back then in school.
As I got older I switched to being used to hookups and ashawo; and the sorts, because I realized all I wanted was sex.

Years past, I've outgrown this hookup thing, and value creating relationships with women; which obviously includes sex, but is more serious and could lead to something in future.

What worries me is that despite all my attempts online and offline to find a relationship material woman; I realized that almost all the ladies I toasted wanted nothing but hookup. The moment I appear serious; they disappear or try to play mind games.

Please guys is this a normal thing now in our country, or it's just me experiencing this. It's really sad; and hopeless, as a normal relationship will help my morale and prepare for the future.

Have you found it easy to have permanent relationships without playing the religion card?
You get who you are.

Inorder word.
You attract your type.


Since it is sex and hook up you want. You will keep on meeting people who are hook up and sex oreinted.

Well
You can change that.

By first giving your life to Jesus and confession your sins. Then hate sins and sex outside marriage as a poison.

Then God will give you your bone of your bone......

If you continue in this sex relationship path, na hell and doom you dey go so oooooo.

Remember
Sex outside marriage kill

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by foleskay(m): 12:51pm On Jul 15, 2022
Prettygirl200:
See them,if it was a woman now all manner of insult would have been rained on, oga u are a brostitute and u have lost body count. Just test pls
Shey u no also lost body counts?? Hippocrite.
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jul 15, 2022
Nyascobar1414:


Ok.. You still SIMPly matured..
Lol..


Peradventure that your girlfriend accidentally looses two of her eyeballs, will you still love her as you do?


Yes or No..








This is a prove that humans gad no love bro.
Currently, she only have One eye sef. Cataract affects one of her eyes. So brother, pray you are able to love because against this, there is no law.
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jul 15, 2022
Dat is nice. At least, let responsible men find good women to marry while we live the prostitutes for u to Bleep till old age . There is a big gap between a happy stable longtime family and a wayward life. Most of u men are just self defensive and pained. Even our forefathers that were far wiser and stronger than us got married to many wives. So who are u? Just wait. Old age will humble u. Wen u see u couldn’t even build a family on ur name
begoniaa:


I get you.

"Broke men are desperate for marriage"LutherSanchez, 2022.
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by sniperr007(m): 12:53pm On Jul 15, 2022
begoniaa:


grin You are recommending evening newspapers to him?
Not that.
Some ladies spend their prime dating one guy from school. And after breakup spend years to get over it.

Age doesn't describe if a girl is old paper or not. Truth is some of this younger ones are more sexual liberal and can't be trusted based on GenZ mindset.

There are many benefits of dating an older lady.
Older ladies know what they want and more reasonable.
They mostly know what they want in life and from life.
They know themselves better.
They are more emotionally stable to handle the emotions of a man
They are mostly independent
They mostly have better experience in pleasing a guy sexually.
Mentally and emotionally ready for marriage. Cos truth be told, marriage is HARD and major wisdom and emotional strength is needed.

Most younger girls don't know what they want and are still finding themselves.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by sniperr007(m): 12:54pm On Jul 15, 2022
Nyascobar1414:


So he should go for women that have retired from hookup and other bs for a long term commitment?

He should go for non virgins(aka ex or repented call girls).

He should even pay a bride price for an ex hookup girl?
Chaii, men dont love themselves.

Who virgin help?

There are many benefits of dating an older lady.
Older ladies know what they want and more reasonable.
They mostly know what they want in life and from life.
They know themselves better.
They are more emotionally stable to handle the emotions of a man
They are mostly independent
They mostly have better experience in pleasing a guy sexually.
Mentally and emotionally ready for marriage. Cos truth be told, marriage is HARD and major wisdom and emotional strength is needed.

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nyascobar1414: 12:55pm On Jul 15, 2022
nijaomegacode:

Currently, she only have One eye sef. Cataract affects one of her eyes. So brother, pray you are able to love because against this, there is no law.

My question is if she looses both eyes(totally blind), will you still love her?
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nobody: 12:57pm On Jul 15, 2022
Nyascobar1414:


My question is if she looses both eyes(totally blind), will you still love her?
Why not. This boy don't understand o.
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nyascobar1414: 12:58pm On Jul 15, 2022
sniperr007:


Who virgin help?

There are many benefits of dating an older lady.
Older ladies know what they want and more reasonable.
They mostly know what they want in life and from life.
They know themselves better.
They are more emotionally stable to handle the emotions of a man
They are mostly independent
They mostly have better experience in pleasing a guy sexually.
Mentally and emotionally ready for marriage. Cos truth be told, marriage is HARD and major wisdom and emotional strength is needed.

so you can pay 1million naira for an ex call girl..
Lol..
Tell me more.
Kindly continue doin' old wh*res..
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Nyascobar1414: 12:59pm On Jul 15, 2022
nijaomegacode:
Why not. This no don't understand o.
Ok.. Keep deceiving yaself.
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by KristaPretty(f): 1:01pm On Jul 15, 2022
PumpumPrince:



ok so are u sayin u aint lightskin & u dont were minisket or tongue?...WHy?? angry

What are you saying? Like what on earth are you trying to say?

Read what you wrote and tell me if you understand yourself. Abeg shift angry
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by womenareapezz: 1:04pm On Jul 15, 2022
KristaPretty:
The world is changing. Most people don't want to get married or entangled now

I suggest you join groups in the church volunteer groups as well where you can meet more responsible people I guess
the church is full of repentant boko haram female parading as saint undecided

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Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by bukatyne(f): 1:05pm On Jul 15, 2022
Ten06:
You are not the only one, what you are experiencing is the modern trend.
Ladies nowadays do not want relationship anymore, what they want is to get rich.
Most will agree to date or marry you when they see that there is something in it for them. You can call it selfish interest. It is just like our present day politics, both voters and the voted now pursue their selfish interest
@bold:

You don't say cheesy
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Prettygirl200(f): 1:05pm On Jul 15, 2022
foleskay:

Shey u no also lost body counts?? Hippocrite.
Sorry sweetheart!!!! Am not like u neither the op that has bleeped 100 women and has lost body count, with una over used and community dick una go dey find virgin woman or responsible woman wey una wan carry worn out dick give. Bloody hypocrites!!!!
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by KristaPretty(f): 1:07pm On Jul 15, 2022
womenareapezz:
the church is full of repentant boko haram female parading as saint undecided


Choose your kinda evil dear. It's better than meeting her in the forest with a gun. Choose a version you prefer.
Re: Am I The Only One Finding It Difficult To Have A Relationship by Pimine: 1:07pm On Jul 15, 2022
begoniaa:


undecided Who is blackmailing you? Do you have comprehension issues? Abi you did not read where the OP said he is feeling depressed because he can't build a meaningful relationship with women? Is loneliness far from that? Did he not say he is in want of love: a long-lasting connection with a woman and not just something casual like sex? And I ask you why. I thought men are naturally wired for having sex and sex and sex and sex and do not have the capability for love. Why is the OP having such FEELINGS as a man?

People in marriages are regretting; why is your SINGLE guy, the OP also regretting his past decisions?

Last attention? E be like say soldier ant dey wånk for inside your brain. I quote you for public forum, you dey talk attention and staying out of your mentions, as per who you be? Na untop who you wan dey feel fly?
Madam stop imagining things. He's not regretting his past decisions anything. Did you expect a young man to just up and marry a young woman and start feeding her sand when he's not financially ready?

He's just lamenting the fact that most women are not marriageable these days. I dunno what you're going on and on about undecided

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