Enuguguy:



That's not the information I'm looking for from you
Your statement is diversionary

Na so abi? You no go hear word now..... Premium tears await u and pls don't come back here to disturb our peace later

Enuguguy:



That's not the information I'm looking for from you
Your statement is diversionary

I pity you, you better listen to what the guy you quoted said, tomorrow you might look back and regret why you didn't take this advice serious. As irrelevant as it may sound to you now, it might be one of the best decisions you've ever made. Don't just wave it off, think about this advice carefully, women are something else, no matter how good they may seem now.

Nyascobar1414:


What a lost soul..

Adversaries will make you learn.

Jobless man. I repeat. Grab a copy of Brighter Grammar ASAP

Munzy14:

The problem with you ladies is, If one man treat you bad, all men are bad..smh.

On issue of female circumcision, a strong mother will not allow that..It is still up to you ladies.

I never said that.

And if the father wants it?


There was a thread that exposed that alot of nigerian men still support female circumcision

Martinez39s:
Don't take her to the UK. Go there alone, hustle hard, stay single and enjoy your life, don't have kids, and don't cohabitate with a female.

You tell a Nigerian not to do these things?

MT:
Why is everyone seeing taking someone abroad as an achievement . No it is not and you are not automatically wealthy.

The value you possess will separate the men from the boys over there.

Na achievement, do u know many people that have gone through the process but failed

Enuguguy:
I planned to marry in 1st week of November 2022 and bring my wife to UK immediately with me
When do I suppose to start my visa application
NB..we don't have any marriage certificate yet
Nairaland help a brother

Congratulations for bringing a woman for another in UK or someone that will send you packing

Enuguguy:


What do you make of Akwa Ibom girls vs Yoruba/Igbo girls abroad
Which one stay in marriage and respect their husband

That's a tricky one.

Once abroad, the average Nigerian girls acts almost the same.
I think this quasi uniformed behavioral pattern is conditioned by the sense of poverty which haunted their past.
Also, the ingrained aggressive trait of our culture plays its part as most times, you find out she offers her responses or insights to things from the angle of fight, argument or roforofo.

To be more direct, the Calabar girl will easily show you Pepper on the long run as see finish sets in.

The Yoruba girl is 50/50.
If she's the type that's family oriented, avoids large circle of friends and frequent owambe; then go for her.

The Ibo girl- If she's too educated, much money, make sure you have a back up plan.
Also, watch her friends and the sort of movies or words that come out of her mouth because one day, she will give you a playback and your life will be like a movie.

odinson1:


Experienced men are advising you now you won't listen.
Don't come and create a thread later of how your wife accused you of domestic violence and kicked you out of the house sha.
If you must get married,marry a White woman there. Do not ever make the mistake of marrying here in Nigeria and taking her with you abroad

So you complain that Nigerian women go to Europe and get westernised and embrace feminism and othe kinds of isms.

And your suggestion is to encourage him to marry an actual WESTERN person instead??


Are you kidding me?

Mariangeles:


Okwu gbasara ihe ndi a ehn...o di stressful.

I choro Igba oso..

In life, we pray to be good, and also find the good one..

Some marriage wu hell, some marriage wu heaven.

Iamicekid:


Mumu do you know what prenup is, read about that before coming here to disgrace your family on social media

Your whole mumu family, should read this ........

https://www.forbes.com/sites/jefflanders/2013/04/02/five-reasons-your-prenup-might-be-invalid/?sh=7de2517b19a5

1Sharon:


I never said that.

And if the father wants it?


There was a thread that exposed that alot of nigerian men still support female circumcision

Thats Archaic if it has proven to be bad scientifically and legally...Why indulge in it?

Only men I knw undergoes circumcision even in the scriptures.

When I tried look into the issue, I was told the only reason was to prevent the lady from being promiscuous...smh Thats really Archaic.

shege45:
I think a prenup would fix the asset thing. Anything u have bfor her is urs

It does not ........

If you want case laws where prenup agreements, got disregarded in court........

Read till you get tired ....... The internet would provide you with loads.............

brandsoncharlie:

I guess the unfair contract terms wasn’t into use when Emmanuel eboue Wife made him signed document he had no knowledge of and the law court grant it.
the person engage in any contract should have full capacity to know what he/she is entering unless not of age it is void.
Why will it be shredded when the document is bind by the law court.
Am not here to argue with u

Are you privy to all the details of the case you quoted.......

Remember, this case on this thread is a UK issue, so would fall under UK jurisdiction and regulations........

UyaiIncomparabl:
Why did you bring your plight here?

These bitter boys with no achievements will come and tell you otherwise and call you a SIMP. That's what they know how to do best.

See your mouth like duck fowl own!, shey achievement they forbid you too, most people commenting here are commenting from experience, not you in Nigeria wey never even see plane, yeye girl... opinionated my ass. Na your type dem dey talk about, useless feminists!

Munzy14:

Thats Archaic if it has proven to be bad scientifically and legally...Why indulge in it?

Only men I knw undergoes circumcision even in the scriptures.

When I tried look into the issue, I was told the only reason was to prevent the lady from being promiscuous...smh Thats really Archaic.

Exactly, ask them

Munzy14:

I choro Igba oso..

Yes.

In life, we pray to be good, and also find the good one..

Some marriage wu hell, some marriage wu heaven.

Ike gwuru o.

Go any Magistrates court close to you and obtain a marriage certificate. You need it to proof there a tie between and your wife.

Enuguguy:
I planned to marry in 1st week of November 2022 and bring my wife to UK immediately with me
When do I suppose to start my visa application
NB..we don't have any marriage certificate yet
Nairaland help a brother

People can be so myopic with their reasoning, thinking all women are the same. For the fact that you had multiple failed relationships with some uncultured and loosed beings does not mean everyone will be same.

Op if you are sure of your woman you can go ahead and do what you so pleases.
You can't come and condemn people like that without even knowing what they share in common, what they might have discussed behind closed doors where obviously you weren't there, everyone is just pouring out their insecurities about women on the op. it's vice versa, she might also get there and be the one to help at the end of the day.

you know this woman more than we do, if you think she's worth it, you can give it a try.
but most importantly you need to open your eyes and brain and don't take decisions based on love that's sharking you. Use your tongue to count your teeth.

I like this one. E get coconut head.

Enuguguy:



That's not the information I'm looking for from you
Your statement is diversionary

Mariangeles:


Yes.



Ike gwuru o.

Hehehehehe Ngwa gbalaga

outofthebox:


Do your thing man. The western culture is spreading faster than I thought. We still have few women that are African but I would say do your thing.
And of course I don't agree a man must be domineering.r

What makes you a man if you are not domineering!?... even nature alone should let you know a man is built to dominate, take your feminist shit outta here!

Enuguguy:
I planned to marry in 1st week of November 2022 and bring my wife to UK immediately with me
When do I suppose to start my visa application
NB..we don't have any marriage certificate yet
Nairaland help a brother

Only apply when all your documents are complete. And marriage certificate is very important if you want to claim you are married.

Enuguguy:
I planned to marry in 1st week of November 2022 and bring my wife to UK immediately with me
When do I suppose to start my visa application
NB..we don't have any marriage certificate yet
Nairaland help a brother

If you see any sign if feminism in her, you are doomed

Enuguguy:



That's not the information I'm looking for from you
Your statement is diversionary

You simps are terrible. This is exactly why you're Called simpletons.

He gave you the best and perfect advice anyone could give yet you're being stubborn and arrogant. Go and marry her and take her to the UK na, u think say Nigeria na UK? your eyes go soon clear!!

The problem with you simps is that una no dey ever dey hear word until the narrative changes, don't come here seeking for help telling us how she dumped you for another Man over there or how she kicked you out of your house etc because we no go answer you!!!! Receive Sense and follow the advice above. You can continue simping or swallow the Red pill, The choice is yours!

Abeg who get bucket.
I wan collect tears

Zoharariel:


I agree completely with your write up. Once you take any married Nigerian lady abroad, they instantly turn to tiger.

I cannot count the number of N kiigerian men abroad who have been jailed (some committed suicide afterwards) for shooting or killing their inglorious, stubborn & ungrateful wives after they were taken abroad and turned into a mountain tiger.

Life is full of unintended consequences both good & bad for everybody, so - I would rather learn from other people’s mistakes & misfortunes than others learning from mine.

Marry yourself na or go for gay marriage! What is all these women this and that? Are Nigerian women not bringing their men abroad? We have a lot of daft men here.

Enuguguy:



That's not the information I'm looking for from you
Your statement is diversionary

Mumu.. women always HV a plan b.... Don't b taken unawares

1Sharon:


So you complain that Nigerian women go to Europe and get westernised and embrace feminism and othe kinds of isms.

And your suggestion is to encourage him to marry an actual WESTERN person instead??


Are you kidding me?

WESTERN women are already used to the system so they tend to abuse it less. But a Nigerian woman going over there will feel like She is God. It's simple logic

Dbliz:

Thanks alot for the input. But answer just this other one. At old age, there are certain things that definitely you just can't do again. In such cases, what should such person do? Hire a maid? Or stay in an elderly health care home?

Yep. Go to elderly health care home or hire maids and caretakers. At a very old age, you wouldn't be able to do much and that is okay. Old age is when you should relax, reflect on your life, and prepare for death (everyone's final bus stop). Do all you want to do and chase fun and your happiness when you have the strength.

If you get divorce raped or stay in a marriage where the woman wears the pants (thanks to the family laws), becomes a thorn in your flesh (thanks to the family/domestic violence laws) and you become miserable and can't leave due to the cost of divorce, you will wish you took my advice. You might argue that it doesn't happen everyone, but it only takes one encounter and the probability of what I wrote happening is large.

Your peace of mind, serenity in your abode, and utter freedom are priceless and not worth risking by getting married in a western society. Never! Later in life, you will realise this.

Finally, try your best to avoid entering the child support plantation because that is another slavery and oppression on its own. Avoid having kids with a wife, babymama or any woman.

Go and enjoy your life. Hustle hard, make that paper and go have fun. There are a lot of sweet hobbies and entertaining and fulfilling things to do with your one and only life before you die.

aaking:
Make her sign a written document that
1. If she purpose to leave you in UK you are entitled to the Children on the said document write that " I am not fit enough to withstand the problems of the Children and don't need them around me"

2. Every of your assets and finance wouldn't be shared between both that "am ready to go for free"

Noted !!! Don't tell her about this info but give her to sign that is part of the document she'll needs to get there.

Another method for her to sign without she noticing what she is signing.

Type the following agreement document with all the wordings in it and the signatures both of you right and left side. Then input two witnesses from both families.

Then start this method.

After typing the following headings leave it blank without any inputs then go down to put the signatories . Same pattern
The headline should be in your own surname e.g your name is John book while she is ciara don. Your headings MOST be AGREEMENT BETWEEN JOHN AND CIARA BOOK.

I am giving you the experience of what my cousin went through.

This may be laughable. But this is wisdom

UyaiIncomparabl:


Can't you mind your business and face front? Bitter soul. Kolanut brain.

i go beat you comot for here. Useless olosho