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How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Up4good: 5:37pm On Aug 10, 2022
It's not easy for a man at all and life sometimes don't come as one expected. I never prayed for the condition that I find myself today and I am very sad about it because it's not my thing. I was brought up from a Godly home where stealing was never allowed.

I live in a compound where small "things" are constructed as kitchen for me and my neighbour, very close to each other although we are many in the compound.

This is a kind of confession that I am making and I pray God forgives me.

Why this post?

It is because of the last thing I stole from her which was detergent. I had dirty clothes to wash but had no money on me, soap or detergent and when I looked through her kitchen, I saw a pack of detergent and that was how it got missed. As usual, she came looking for it without success. She started complaining, shouting and raising a scene. I didn't voice at all and I know she couldn't confront me but inside of me, I was feeling very bad.

Toothpaste, salt, Maggie, soap and others, I have stolen from my neighbours due to unemployment hence, hardship.

I pray God forgives me in all I have sinned against Him. Please I need your prayers and good wishes in life. This is not where I am supposed to be in life. May God bring open doors as I put in my best to succeed in life, amen.
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Up4good: 5:38pm On Aug 10, 2022
Please be easy with your backlashes please even though I deserve it.
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Up4good: 5:39pm On Aug 10, 2022
I believe God will help me and make me a better person.
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by jetwonder(m): 5:41pm On Aug 10, 2022
grin what kind of stealing are you into?
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Boogyman557: 5:42pm On Aug 10, 2022
Holly Gram cool Since my man wunmi590 say make I voice out, I go Visa out...


Okay guy... If u have a church u attend, go and meet ur pastor and explain things to him..


He will help or he might give u a job inside the church to be doing, that way he will be paying u..


Alota guys are doing it, even girls...

Just reason ur pastor.. em fit table ur matterz or MATAYANCE, u never can tell, one big man for church fit carry u along or help u..


in terms like dis.. is better u meet ur pastor ooo..

before them go catch u were u de steal Magi and NAKEDD u for public, by then ur village people don de dance MAKOSA...


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

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Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by wunmi590(m): 6:03pm On Aug 10, 2022
Boogyman557:
....

Voice out boogy
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Jking20(m): 6:04pm On Aug 10, 2022
Well, it's sad that the Nigeria government can't provide for it's citizens in one way or the other, but I can only advice you to find something doin that can be keeping you busy and at least earning a little change. Life is step by step my brother, don't wish to have that which your mates or even your younger ones had. There days are not long here on earth.

Don't also forget to seek the presence of God in whatever you're doing, for he never sleeps.

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Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Boogyman557: 6:05pm On Aug 10, 2022
wunmi590:

Voice out boogy
Holly Gram cool Not now my Gee!

The topic never gather crowed, e never make SENTENCES to the universe..

LITE UP my WEED in peace

WTF MAN!
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by wunmi590(m): 6:06pm On Aug 10, 2022
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool Not now my Gee!


The topic never gather crowed, e never make SENTENCES to the universe..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

cheesy
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Shidda: 6:15pm On Aug 10, 2022
Up4good:
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I pray God forgives me in all I have sinned against Him. Please I need your prayers and good wishes in life. This is not where I am supposed to be in life. May God bring open doors as I put in my best to succeed in life, amen.

If you believe in God and believe that there might be repercussions for this and it will be worse than what you are trying to escape.
The times are hard and I think it's very understandable hunger makes people do things that wont imagine ever doing. My advice and only an advice is to confess to your neighbours, and I want to believe that will be understanding and instead of putting yourself in a situation where you have to steal why not put yourself in a situation where you have to work and you will get something as little as the things that you are stealing.
Someone came to my house a while back looking for job and even though there was nothing for her she asked if she could do anything even if it was to clean the kitchen and she did and she got paid for it, the little money would have paid for the things that was stolen to be better than to have stolen it.
Again things are hard true but instead of wishing things were better wish I were stronger. Whatever happens eventually all pass away I need to be history as far as this world is concerned.

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Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Lighthouse50: 6:34pm On Aug 10, 2022
Ha ha... Why now? Its always adviceable to beg than to steal. Best confession that counts before GOD Is to confess to the woman. Let her forgive you cos it might affect you for its not everyone that can be cheated. Without her altering words may mean a great thing. Im disappointed in you but still love you for opening up.

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Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:47pm On Aug 10, 2022
yet you call yourself a xtian?!?!? you disciple of the devil!
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Up4good: 7:01pm On Aug 10, 2022
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool Since my man wunmi590 say make I voice out, I go Visa out...


Okay guy... If u have a church u attend, go and meet ur pastor and explain things to him..


He will help or he might give u a job inside the church to be doing, that way he will be paying u..


Alota guys are doing it, even girls...

Just reason ur pastor.. em fit table ur matterz or MATAYANCE, u never can tell, one big man for church fit carry u along or help u..


in terms like dis.. is better u meet ur pastor ooo..

before them go catch u were u de steal Magi and NAKEDD u for public, by then ur village people don de dance MAKOSA...


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

Thank you for your comment

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Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Up4good: 7:02pm On Aug 10, 2022
Jking20:
Well, it's sad that the Nigeria government can't provide for it's citizens in one way or the other, but I can only advice you to find something doin that can be keeping you busy and at least earning a little change. Life is step by step my brother, don't wish to have that which your mates or even your younger ones had. There days are not long here on earth.

Don't also forget to seek the presence of God in whatever you're doing, for he never sleeps.

Thank you

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Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Up4good: 7:04pm On Aug 10, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
yet you call yourself a xtian?!?!? you disciple of the devil!

Understand my point please.
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Up4good: 7:05pm On Aug 10, 2022
Lighthouse50:
Ha ha... Why now? Its always adviceable to beg than to steal. Best confession that counts before GOD Is to confess to the woman. Let her forgive you cos it might affect you for its not everyone that can be cheated. Without her altering words may mean a great thing. Im disappointed in you but still love you for opening up.

That is why I'm opening up because I don't want to do it again. God help me.
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:42pm On Aug 10, 2022
Up4good:
Understand my point please.

understand MY point...
next time you are hungry, go see your pastor OR get down on your knees and pray!
next time your clothes are dirty and dont have soap, go see your pastor OR get down on your knees and pray!
next time you dont have transport money, go see your pastor OR get down on your knees and pray!

... but stop being a yeye xtian only following the teachings of your bible when it fits your selfish narrow minded agenda... where in your bible does it say it was ok to steal if you are hungry or lack soap?!

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Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Begood100: 7:55pm On Aug 10, 2022
MrBrownJay1:


understand MY point...
next time you are hungry, go see your pastor OR get down on your knees and pray!
next time your clothes are dirty and dont have soap, go see your pastor OR get down on your knees and pray!
next time you dont have transport money, go see your pastor OR get down on your knees and pray!

... but stop being a yeye xtian only following the teachings of your bible when it fits your selfish narrow minded agenda... where in your bible does it say it was ok to steal if you are hungry or lack soap?!

You are taking it personally and I don't think you should be the judge. Na WA om
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:02pm On Aug 10, 2022
Begood100:
You are taking it personally and I don't think you should be the judge. Na WA om

you religious hypocrites who are quick to call yourself xtians but are instead servants of the devil!!!! read your goddamn bible if you are in doubt or talk to your yeye pastor!

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Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Begood100: 8:11pm On Aug 10, 2022
MrBrownJay1:


you religious hypocrites who are quick to call yourself xtians but are instead servants of the devil!!!! read your goddamn bible if you are in doubt or talk to your yeye pastor!

Being an unbeliever, a pagan, a juju priest and whatever is personal and you shouldn't use your choice to thro tantrums on Christians on everything. Whatever happened to live and let's live.
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:24pm On Aug 10, 2022
Begood100:
Being an unbeliever, a pagan, a juju priest and whatever is personal and you shouldn't use your choice to thro tantrums on Christians on everything. Whatever happened to live and let's live.

what the fukc are you talking about? THEFT is not personal, it is a crime...punished by law, punished by morals but most importantly PUNISHED BY YOUR BIBLE! lets call the devil when you see it, instead of pretending you dont know where that OP belongs!

if prayers dont help, if talking to your pastor doesnt help, then THE DEVIL YOU ARE!

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Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Begood100: 8:44pm On Aug 10, 2022
MrBrownJay1:


what the fukc are you talking about? THEFT is not personal, it is a crime...punished by law, punished by morals but most importantly PUNISHED BY YOUR BIBLE! lets call the devil when you see it, instead of pretending you dont know where that OP belongs!

if prayers dont help, if talking to your pastor doesnt help, then THE DEVIL YOU ARE!

You sound like a pained soul. Seek mental rehab.
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Shidda: 8:46pm On Aug 10, 2022
MrBrownJay1:


what the fukc are you talking about? THEFT is not personal, it is a crime...punished by law, punished by morals but most importantly PUNISHED BY YOUR BIBLE! lets call the devil when you see it, instead of pretending you dont know where that OP belongs!

if prayers dont help, if talking to your pastor doesnt help, then THE DEVIL YOU ARE!

While am not a Christian, I believe if the people that spread the religion spoke like you, Christianity won't have been here today
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:49pm On Aug 10, 2022
Shidda:
While am not a Christian, I believe if the people that spread the religion spoke like you, Christianity won't have been here today

i speak with NO HYPOCRISY compared with the people you are referring to. lets call a spade A SPADE!

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Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Ginaz(f): 9:05pm On Aug 10, 2022
why can't you ask her to give you those items instead of stealing? sad

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Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Up4good: 9:26pm On Aug 10, 2022
Hmmmmm, God will see me through.
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by VTJN(m): 9:33pm On Aug 10, 2022
@OP I'd say you aren't discipline enough. If i should tell you what I've gone through and what I'm currently going through in life, you'd appreciate your condition sincerely

Hunger is already part of me and i assume it doesn't kill but make one stronger provided you have water at your disposal. I've last eaten since yesterday afternoon. I'm only taking water just to dehydrate and possibly to avoid ulcer

I've missed so many interviews including KPMG and Access Bank because i don't have any money on me for transport

Despite my condition, it's not an excuse for stealing nor duping anyone honestly


Reason why i do condemn anyone found wanting in crime be it cyber fraud, pick pocket, stealing et al

I know we are different and our level of tolerance vary but I'd assume you aren't discipline well enough.


Instead of stealing you should rather ask her to sell on credit even though you don't know how you'd pay back or talk to her who knows she might just consider and give it to you

Resorting to crime of whatsoever based on our predicament is not an excuse neither is it justifiable

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Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Chidi2022: 9:44pm On Aug 10, 2022
MrBrownJay1:


i speak with NO HYPOCRISY compared with the people you are referring to. lets call a spade A SPADE!
Na that SPADE go chook you for eye.....i am only imagining how stupid you would look while typing all these....
God dey owe you? wey you wan kill yaself...
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:49pm On Aug 10, 2022
Chidi2022:
Na that SPADE go chook you for eye.....i am only imagining how stupid you would look while typing all these....
God dey owe you? wey you wan kill yaself...

i understand you evil hyprocrites are pained because someone is telling you what time it is... dont despair your time is soon up!
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Chidi2022: 9:55pm On Aug 10, 2022
MrBrownJay1:


i understand you evil hyprocrites are pained because someone is telling you what time it is... dont despair your time is soon up!
Wahala.... see you who owns a 3 bedroom flat in hellfire doing time keeper for others.... Do you know the multitude of your sins? Cheat like you.... How many times have you defiled your vow? You are not fit to cast the stone because you are a worse sinner.. you who is a cheftain of fornication and adultery is judging someone who stole to eat...Brownjay...i have known you for long....go yansh down abeg...
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Begood100: 10:06pm On Aug 10, 2022
VTJN:
@OP I'd say you aren't discipline enough. If i should tell you what I've gone through and what I'm currently going through in life, you'd appreciate your condition sincerely

Hunger is already part of me and i assume it doesn't kill but make one stronger provided you have water at your disposal. I've last eaten since yesterday afternoon. I'm only taking water just to dehydrate and possibly to avoid ulcer

I've missed so many interviews including KPMG and Access Bank because i don't have any money on me for transport

Despite my condition, it's not an excuse for stealing nor duping anyone honestly


Reason why i do condemn anyone found wanting in crime be it cyber fraud, pick pocket, stealing et al

I know we are different and our level of tolerance vary but I'd assume you aren't discipline well enough.


Instead of stealing you should rather ask her to sell on credit even though you don't know how you'd pay back or talk to her who knows she might just consider and give it to you

Resorting to crime of whatsoever based on our predicament is not an excuse neither is it justifiable

It is well bro
Re: How Unemployment Is Pushing Me Into Stealing. I Need Help by Begood100: 10:08pm On Aug 10, 2022
Chidi2022:
Wahala.... see you who owns a 3 bedroom flat in hellfire doing time keeper for others.... Do you know the multitude of your sins? Cheat like you.... How many times have you defiled your vow? You are not fit to cast the stone because you are a worse sinner.. you who is a cheftain of fornication and adultery is judging someone who stole to eat...Brownjay...i have known you for long....go yansh down abeg...

I tell you, some holier than thou people.

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