Ovieemmanuel:
lol lol . It wont be easy oo. I must warn u.

djkirkoo2:
her family might support her in training the child so me I want to train my child myself and that's why I am fighting to be seeing him

You are a good man buddy... Your type are not up to 78 in the world considering your limited resources

djkirkoo2:
this month end I am trying to see how my family with hers would hold a meeting to iron things out then if they refused to give in to my plea then I will take the case to human rights.

Mindlog:


Both parties should aim at meeting each other halfway as you both are connected to each for life even after you both have moved on with other people.

Richy4:

You are a good man buddy... Your type are not up to 78 in the world considering your limited resources

djkirkoo2:
who ever thought things would be like this? She was nice and very economical when we first started. I guess she was pretending.

djkirkoo2:
maybe you should reason with your brain and not your leg. A salary of 63k should I give her all the 63k for her upkeep or you didn't see where I stated how the money is being spent monthly? All these women Sha. As if you can finish your salary at home if you are in my shoes.

KimFab:
Baby mama? 5k? For salt abi pepper? Anyway, na mumu dey do baby mama for Nigerian men.

That aside, your rent is high o, for someone who earns 63k. Almost 4 out of 12 months is spent working for your landlord.

Richy4:

You are a good man buddy... Your type are not up to 78 in the world considering your limited resources

pocohantas:


78 where? They no pass 7 o. The guy is really a good guy and shouldn’t be blamed for giving his BM N5000 a month. He can’t do pass himself!

As at when she decided to have the baby, she knew his income. Even this condom question doesn’t fly. The guy is not denying the baby and if a woman doesn’t want to have a baby, we all know she wouldn’t.

I do not see the sense in a woman saying it is her body when it pleases her, but go ahead to malign the man who wasn’t ready to have a child for not meeting up with her preferred child support.

If you want to be a BM, you as a woman should also be very prepared and the man should support too. Linda Ikeji no get two head.

Honestly, I totally agree with you.. with that kind of income, a lot of us will see it as an answered prayers if she leaves the house...at least the 5k he gives will be channelled to something else...
I have never been in such situations but If I should be, with that kind of income, I doubt I will be fighting like him especially knowing that my kid is in good hands. just being real here .. I will be contributing 2k a month for my kid's sakes

pocohantas:

if a woman doesn’t want to have a baby, we all know she wouldn’t.

Richy4:

Honestly, I totally agree with you.. with that kind of income, a lot of us will see it as an answered prayers if she leaves the house...at least the 5k he gives will be channelled to something else...
I have never been in such situations but If I should be, with that kind of income, I doubt I will be fighting like him especially knowing that my kid is in good hands. just being real here .. I will be contributing 2k a month for my kid's sakes

Mindlog:

pocohantas:


Very nice guy. I am sure if we trace his ancestry, we would see he isn’t a Nigerian.




Yes na.

Mindlog:


Recently hung out with a group of Nigerians, one of the guys got talking about his British girlfriend and how the lady has been regarding their relationship as recreational despite all his "efforts". Another Nigerian guy suggested he should impregnate her in order to tie her down to him and it led to a heated argument and I insisted that impregnating a woman, does not mean she will carry it to full term if she doesn't want to, especially here abortion pills are legally delivered to one's home by the postman .

Baronthecelebri:
Listen my advice for you is to forget about your child and work on yourself,Las when you don't blow like dangote, she'll be the one to come, and once the child becomes an adult, he'll trace his root back to you. That's how things will work

pocohantas:


Wow!!!! They do that there?

You were very correct. Except she is entirely clueless, probably a minor, you can’t tie her down with pregnancy. If person no dey ready, leave am. If at all she keeps it, she can grow to resent you. A lot would change - her body, her career/life path..etc

Why e wan tie am down sef?

Mindlog:


E wan papers but the lady in question just want sex with no commitment.

pocohantas:


Very nice guy. I am sure if we trace his ancestry, we would see he isn’t a Nigerian.


Yes na.

Where do we trace his ancestry from?
Which country or black race is better than Nigerian men among black race in taking adequate care of ladies?

KimFab:
Baby mama? 5k? For salt abi pepper? Anyway, na mumu dey do baby mama for Nigerian men.

Baronthecelebri:
Listen my advice for you is to forget about your child and work on yourself,Las when you don't blow like dangote, she'll be the one to come, and once the child becomes an adult, he'll trace his root back to you. That's how things will work

We4all:


Alaye, didn’t you know your salary was 63K before you decided to impregnate her? Stop crying foul and face your responsibilities.

pocohantas:


78 where? They no pass 7 o. The guy is really a good guy and shouldn’t be blamed for giving his BM N5000 a month. He can’t do pass himself!

As at when she decided to have the baby, she knew his income. Even this condom question doesn’t fly. The guy is not denying the baby and if a woman doesn’t want to have a baby, we all know she wouldn’t.

I do not see the sense in a woman saying it is her body when it pleases her, but go ahead to malign the man who wasn’t ready to have a child for not meeting up with her preferred child support.

If you want to be a BM, you as a woman should also be very prepared and the man should support too. Linda Ikeji no get two head.

mjuvey3:


Truth is bitter He should just do so.

It doesn't mean you hate the child....No....Go and focus on yourself and make yourself better.

I make 100k weekly from trading on Paxful alone...Not to talk of office work and my barbing salon yet I ain't thinking of marriage or having a child now.

I must be rich before I get married and this is my perspective....My family must be very comfortable even if my wife is a billionaire....As a provider,you must be up to the task.

Cutehector:
she wasnt pretending sir. A woman will always be a woman when a baby is involved.

She will tell you, when it was sweeting you, why didnt you pull out. So bro, its all on you.

djkirkoo2:
you get sense at all or you are just being fuulish? People earning lesser even survive with more than a kid you are just here trying to defend your gender that want men to kee himself for them before they will know that the man is trying. Lubbish

We4all:


Trying ke? You give her a monthly upkeep of 5K and still very proud to announce it on a public forum. You be ode.

Richy4:


Where do we trace his ancestry from?
Which country or black race is better than Nigerian men among black race in taking adequate care of ladies?

djkirkoo2:
God bless you for your apt reply. I wonder why people don't want to read to understand. They are forgetting that we still have people out there that do not care at all, all they think about is their self then some people are here castigating me. Maybe they want me to kee myself because say na me first born for the world.

pocohantas:


78 where? They no pass 7 o. The guy is really a good guy and shouldn’t be blamed for giving his BM N5000 a month. He can’t do pass himself!

As at when she decided to have the baby, she knew his income. Even this condom question doesn’t fly. The guy is not denying the baby and if a woman doesn’t want to have a baby, we all know she wouldn’t.

I do not see the sense in a woman saying it is her body when it pleases her, but go ahead to malign the man who wasn’t ready to have a child for not meeting up with her preferred child support.

If you want to be a BM, you as a woman should also be very prepared and the man should support too. Linda Ikeji no get two head.

pocohantas:


78 where? They no pass 7 o. The guy is really a good guy and shouldn’t be blamed for giving his BM N5000 a month. He can’t do pass himself!

As at when she decided to have the baby, she knew his income. Even this condom question doesn’t fly. The guy is not denying the baby and if a woman doesn’t want to have a baby, we all know she wouldn’t.

I do not see the sense in a woman saying it is her body when it pleases her, but go ahead to malign the man who wasn’t ready to have a child for not meeting up with her preferred child support.

If you want to be a BM, you as a woman should also be very prepared and the man should support too. Linda Ikeji no get two head.