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Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by oguntoyese: 10:07pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Quite similar to what am facing. Some Ladies/ Women are just ingrates and so full of themselves when they have no financial inputs. Never will I go closer to a job less or unindustrious woman again. They will drain you. Despite the man providing everything for the baby and the mother. To the extent buying the woman bra and pants. I think some women just choose to be a baby mama. Two Captain cannot sail a Ship. My Son is with my parents for now. 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:08pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Cutehector:My English teacher you are not well sir. This is the internet. This isn't LinkedIn, formal place or work or a written interview. My conversation with you is on internet language and internet language isn't formal. Shebi you write shouldn't. Is that not a short form of should not? Why didn't you write the letters completely? 2 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by MasterKernel: 10:10pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Landmack: Mr. Perfect people like you are full of shits. He didn't complain of having financial constraints, but unreasonable Baby Mama. English language isn't too hard to comprehend. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:10pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
4Humanity4All:Oh. You expect the girl to be working while nursing? You these boys no dey reason well o |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by jeromestarks: 10:19pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
djkirkoo2:Don't worry op. You're not a bad boy. Bad boys wouldn't do the thing you did. She missed her English classes that's why she called you a bad boy. YOU'RE A FOOLISH BOY. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by fuckwell2080: 10:25pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
@OP no need kill yourself.see she they use your son blackmail you.she is the lazy type.A woman that is never satisfy about what you give her can never be satisfy even if you give her MILLONS.For this buhari reigeime a woman supose understand be supportive Not a LIABILITY NOT SATISFIED.Some women are just lazy using little child to blackmail collect money.They prefer to be BABY MAMA so that they can always do PER SECOND BILLING.Such a baby mama are ready to born for 50 diffrent MEN.@OP check if that child is truly yours to stop stories that touches soon.A man no supose strugle pikin with woman.The child must surely locate is father so relax @OP.NO kill YOURSELF because of a BITCH If you DIE another BOBO go they Bleep ur BITCH she go forget you totally move on.SO use ur brain.Who quote me telling OP truth hug transformer. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Sukkyy2010: 10:30pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
KimFab:You dey mind him, he's ego to live above his mean is impoverishing him and he's unaware. That exhibit he lack financial intelligence. No hype, I'm earning 250k monthly on a average, but inspite my income income na boys quarter I dey live here in Lagos and it a 3k monthly rent. inspite my monthly income, I'll rather cut down every viable expenses to increase chances for savings. 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by One4me: 10:47pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
djkirkoo2: Look, to be honest with you, women have always used the child(ren) to Blackmail their Husband, especially if the Husband is the type they perceive, loves his children, f[/b]rom the days of Adam so it is not new. But l am happy that you realized that if you are not careful, you will quickly joining other men who have died early before their time, due to the pressure and heart troubles of cantankerous women. First, make your heart strong, if you die, that child will live and your Woman will make him call her latest Boyfriend "Daddy" (That go really pain your dead body! ![]() Any Woman who uses the Child as a weapon against the Husband, [b]is capable of killing that Husband and should be avoided like a plague. I understand both of you are not legally married and he Parents seems not to be able to say and do the right thing, which is order her back to her "husbands" House. So, you started on a very wrong footing and this can be God's way of bailing you out. So, they want to keep the Child right? Fine, let them keep and be raising him, at least for now. Use the time to work on yourself. #63K salary will not get you far in life and you should not even be having a Child with such level of income otherwise, you will end up struggling all your life. Go back to your Single Status. Rent a Cheaper, Self contain Apartment Start saving Money instead of living from one pay-check to another. Hustle harder, to make more money. Start a Side Business that wont disturb your current job. You are nothing without Money and that is why the lady's Parent are disrespecting you! If your level of Education is low, this is the time to improve it. Yes, Sex is required but their are other ladies out there who would jump at you, if they see Potential in you .... but remember to always use a Condom! Get another girl that is younger and is not desperate to have a baby, probably one that is still in a high Institution and is looking forward to a bright future, not just spawning Babies. ![]() ![]() Change your House Keys IMMEDIATELY, Forget that your baby Mama, your Child will be brought to you, with BEGGING, if you start making progress with your Life but never forget to teach her a lesson, just cater for your Child, never have anything to do with he, from now on. THIS IS A SECOND CHANCE FOR YOU TO GIVE A NEW DIRECTION TO YOUR LIFE. Grab it with both hand otherwise, you will remember this lost opportunity. That Woman is the type that will never allow a Man to grow in Life. a good woman always plan with her Man, on how they can progress in life and despite being open with her and "trying your best", she is still not satisfied and wants to push you into debt and poverty, because she is not contented. She should go and get a job herself and see how far. ![]() Be a Man and be decisive otherwise, face the consequences. Worst case Scenario, you take another Woman and have one more Child, to take care of your emotions and attachment to Children nut sincerely, it is still a sign of weakness and they have a way of coming back to haunt the weakling. 3 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by OhiOfIhima: 10:52pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
djkirkoo2: So sorry about this... I know that would have given lots of heart ache. But if I was in ur shoe, I will arrange guys n find a way to locate that so called boyfriend house n take my child from her... A less than a yr old child, taking him to her boyfriend house, that's vr bad... Do that asap b4 the said boyfriend start claiming ownership of ur child. Sorry bro... You baby mama a teenager. 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Davytech(m): 10:52pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
![]() djkirkoo2:True true you get bad mouth. ![]() djkirkoo2:True true you get bad mouth. 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by CSTRR: 10:59pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
How can sombody that earns 63k live in a 210k house rent? How? You should not be spending more than 120k on rent, and send your baby mama more money. 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by aestake: 11:01pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Odunharry:That guy is ready, him baby mom isn't. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by johnfem321: 11:05pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
For now you really don’t need that kind of Borden in your life.. make hin parent dey take Care of your baby mama and send some money monthly to them.. try and find ways to cut cost and save on the side for your future wife and child.. school fees cost o |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by RaptObserver: 11:07pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Sweetplum: When you don't even know me? Don't say that because life is unpredictable |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Oqw1: 11:11pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Never spend on a whorre simp Be wise don’t be fool |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Nobody: 11:29pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
RaptObserver:Ok. You are right, life's unpredictable |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Ybaby: 11:34pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
We4all: Wow!!!!!!!!! God bless you!!! Reasonable people still dey. We do not have baby mama in Nigeria .... if she is not your wife then the baby belongs to her father Once she buys always sanitary pad from the 5k how much is remaining..... she was nice but now she is no more nice.... ![]() ![]() ![]() When you tell this young girls to avoid men who are on a financial journey they no dey hear word.
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Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by RaptObserver: 11:39pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by staga: 12:04am On Aug 27, 2022 |
djkirkoo2: SMH. A man earning 63k in today's Nigeria has no business with an unemployed baby mama. 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by grandstar(m): 12:06am On Aug 27, 2022 |
djkirkoo2 You're between a rock and a hard place. The greatest problem you have is that she's not your wife but a baby mama. If she's your wife, she would most likely have come back but that's not the case here. I would advise you start a Bible study with the Jehovah's Witnesses using the boom "The Secrets of Family Happiness". It has saved countless marriages. Truth be told, as you're not married to her, you're in an immoral relation. Also, you need to obey Caeser by solemnizing your relationship into a marriage at a government registry if you want to treat her as a wife (Read Titus 3:1). You aren't her husband and therefore you owe her no husbandly duties. It's only your child you owe duties to (Read 1 Tim 5: ![]() Anyway, i know that the book will assist you in moving you in the right direction. It will be extremely useful how to maneuver as a baby daddy. Bringing her back into the flat with you may eventually lead to more babies and trapping you the more. You may be forced to marry her. Your present problem is the price you have to pay for having a kid with someone your not married to. It is never a reason or justification for marriage. It is simply the bitter price you have to pay. 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by tonididdy(m): 12:50am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Odunharry:Two idiots Cutehector: |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by tonididdy(m): 12:51am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Mindlog:Who be this one ? ![]() What case? He is the boys father or did you miss that part? |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by tonididdy(m): 12:53am On Aug 27, 2022 |
djkirkoo2:My guy over try dey worry you. Your first priority should be your son, ensure he's in your life. He needs you while growing up |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by tonididdy(m): 12:58am On Aug 27, 2022 |
We4all:It's idiots like you will come on NL with stupid marriage topics asking for solutions like NL Is a marriage counselling forum. You see someone with the traits of ungratefulness and you are asking the OP to marry her. Are you normal like this ![]() |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by tonididdy(m): 1:05am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Baronthecelebri:That's an archaic method used by our ancestors and look at kind of men and women littered allover the place. A child needs mentoring, monitoring and leadership and this can only happen when both parents are 100% in thes child's life. "That he will trace his roots back" will only result to a child seeing his father like an uncle or elder brother. No bond, No freedom. It's like two matured adults meeting and keeping boundaries. It's awkward! |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by tonididdy(m): 1:19am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Sweetplum: Woman wey want belle na dey carry belle. Shove your oloshoic opinion up your centre path. 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by tonididdy(m): 1:22am On Aug 27, 2022 |
ravensckar:Obviously you have comprehensive problems. The OP has settled with her decision to move out, he's more consigned about the role of child custody between them. Kappish |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Mindlog: 1:25am On Aug 27, 2022 |
tonididdy: Boy's father? ![]() ![]() ![]() On top say he was never married to his son's mother? Divorced men most times don't get custody of the children from their ended marriage, e come remain Baby Daddy! ![]() Uncle, ask any qualified lawyer around you if he can take their son away from the mother....my cousin who took his daughter away from his ex-wife and headed to the east with her to stay with his mother, the ex-wife reported to the Lagos state social welfare office and they got the Lagos state police command to track down my cousin, he was arrested alongside his mother for being an accomplice and both brought back to Lagos while their 4 year old daughter handed back to his ex-wife. It wasn't cheap getting out of that case. 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by fluffybaby(f): 1:38am On Aug 27, 2022 |
djkirkoo2: So sorry. You sef control your tongue small na. Imagine if she has sharp mouth to insult you everytime you "piss" her off? Isn't that the nagging and insults men lament about in their homes? So unless you two are in an insulting bout Abi battle, stop saying nasty things to her. Also, the 55k you gave her, how did you guys plan for her to spend it? What business and what items? You guys need counselling for sure but if go no go, come no come and you decide to move on she shouldn't deny you access to your child. Abi do you have the tendency to kidnap him if she decides not to be with you again? Anyways, go to the family court around you and settle the matter. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by tonididdy(m): 1:48am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Landmack: How else or more would you show love to your kid on a 65k salary ![]() Psls answer! ![]() |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by tonididdy(m): 1:50am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Mindlog:Pfff.... It's because he did it illegally. Through family rites, NGO or a court sitting ...he could have full or partial custody. He is the kids father and is entitled to that. No court gives one side of the parent 1000% custody rights unless the other half of the parent is physically or mentally unfit. |
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