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Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by bukatyne(f): 11:23am On Aug 27, 2022 |
pocohantas: @bold: |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by debola27(f): 11:31am On Aug 27, 2022 |
But why didn't the op just find a job for the bm while she was still with him? Even if it was just a 20k teaching job. That might have eased things a bit. Giving her money to start a business when you don't know her level of business intelligence is just like wasting money. And giving a woman 5k monthly, I really don't know what she would do with that. I know some men will say she's not his wife just a babymama yenyenyen, but if she's good enough to sleep with, then you must be ready to be responsible, and at least assist her to stand on her feet too without putting all the burden on you. This case is somehow. Op too has his blame and he can't come here to be playing the victim. If he doesn't check where he is wrong, the same thing will repeat itself with the next woman |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by MrNipplesLover(m): 11:51am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Cutehector:WTF mehn!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by ravensckar(m): 11:52am On Aug 27, 2022 |
tonididdy:It's you who can't express himself in simple English that doesn't have 'comprehensive problem?'. Olodo! Go school, you sey na scam, now see as you dey shoot gun on top sey you wan express yourself. Arindin! |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by ravensckar(m): 11:57am On Aug 27, 2022 |
jayjayolajide:Lolz. So many illiterates on the loose today! Where did you fools escape from? Even you too that can't type an error-free sentence dey quote somebody just to spew gibberish. Orisirisi! Go and read your Brighter Grammar please. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by MrNipplesLover(m): 12:01pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
I doubt they did proper engagement/wedding... u can't throw out the woman u married legally like that... ur first attempt throwing her things out was very wrong, bro... A responsible man doesn't do that... BTW, u guys should know how to spend money on ur wives/baby mamas... The money u dey spend monthly is too small to make ur woman satisfied with u and dey happy... u know why? Women like money pass anything... It's understandable that u cut ur coat according to ur size, but real men do well to spend good money on their women... Cos I see that ur madam too have big mouth for money, na the issue she get with u be that... Triple ur hustle and if u like, go and thief, na u sabi... Cos when u knew u never get the full capacity to handle a home, u for definitely use condoms as other monikers stated from the 1st page of this ur post... I always tell una, no get urself in any commitment with any woman if u want peace for urself... Go to work. Eat want u like, fvck pussy, or get FWB and bang ur life on with her. No commitment. No child. No shiit. Just dick + condoms + pussy = pleasure... U will be fine... But na lie, una go dey bring children come suffer for this world for nothing... Crap.... |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by bukatyne(f): 12:08pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
pocohantas: @bold: This is how it was traditionally done aka shotgun marriages or the family accepting the child and caring for it. This however means there is no 'my body is my body's and other strange concepts we have today. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by henrijin: 12:16pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Brother this your story no gel. Your expenditure na 61/62k. You dey live inside the company? If yes, you dey pay rent to live inside your place of work? You no dey chop for work at all? You no dey drink beer once in a while? You no dey carry olosho? Don't angry me comrade. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Obason22(m): 12:17pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
The only advice i have here is that u should cut the cost of ur rentage. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by wasi9ice: 12:46pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Though l don't support babay mama practice but some ladies are not gratefull at all,, Some of them will never know the value of the things they have until they lose it |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by jmichael259(m): 12:51pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
djkirkoo2: imagine nonsnse as long as u are overly desperate to see ur son and calling them, na u dey blackmail yourself. If dey wan hide child for the next 1yr, there's nothing you can do from the tone of ur writeup. ladies have learnt this method and it's "SIMPS" like u dey use to showcase. try 6-8weeks challenge. Dnt call or plead. Redirect ur mind an time to ease d pain would they try all this rubbish if u were cultist, agbero or SARS and you dey beat the girl? U no sabi DSS, EBUBEAGU, AMOTEKUN or especially NAPTIP to arrest the family of trying to secretly traffic the baby? 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Desammyst(m): 12:54pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Ovieemmanuel: I am telling you bro... I really feel for him o. Same thing happened to my brother, but she is back to him. Human Rights really intervened, as they talked to the girl. Though I don't know how much they fare now, as my brother is an officer staying far North East. So I understand the intricacies of what the OP is passing through. May God be with you, OP. I pray you really find peace with yourself and with the woman. Maybe go to Human Rights office, try to keep an open mind and most importantly, pray about it... Oh yes, pray seriously. God bless you! |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Kronikuz: 1:52pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
KimFab:Who wan make you babymama both home and abroad sef.. Lmfao |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Kronikuz: 1:54pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
djkirkoo2:Why you replying hoes? Focus on how to get your boy man. Women will always support their kind no matter what they have done 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by KimFab: 2:10pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Kronikuz: Lmao! |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by Josephali(m): 2:11pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
djkirkoo2:. Much respect bro, from your article here, I could feel your plight and I know how it is affecting your mental health, you have done what a responsible man should, fending for an infant isn't easy talk more of an ungrateful adult, even as a family man I know what the challenges are, if she continues like this, tell her you can't kill yourself or is either she appreciates the little you provide or she look for something doing even though it teaching job, or tell her you want to take the child to your Mum so she could do the needful. Abi I lie. 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by ogene144(m): 2:33pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
FantasticJ: Bro forget her and move on with your life get a better babe and plan together the one that has hand work not liability |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by FreeConCiencE: 3:43pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Landmack: Life is short nah |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by leesamyoung(m): 3:48pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
anonimi:what about this cleaner that use depose condom to impregnate herself and win child support https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/11/woman-who-impregnated-self-with-stolen-semen-from-billionaire-wins-child-support-battle/ |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by leesamyoung(m): 4:00pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Ishilove:what will you say about this hotel cleaner that use depose condom to impregnate herself and still win child support https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/11/woman-who-impregnated-self-with-stolen-semen-from-billionaire-wins-child-support-battle/ |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by zrocky: 4:27pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
djkirkoo2:how do you know the child is yours? You do dna. In Nigeria you are not entitled to carry child support bro. Go and focus on yourself and stop simping 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 5:13pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Josephali:she has ran away with my son for over a month now |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 5:13pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
zrocky:it is well 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 5:14pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Kronikuz:so true. It is well. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 5:16pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
jmichael259:soon I will face them legally |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 5:20pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
tosaino95:I've tried everything just to allow me see him but till today noway. She and her family are hiding him and he's just 11 months old which he'll be a year old on Monday the 29th. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by phenom666(m): 5:24pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
djkirkoo2: I will advise you to stop giving her any money, if you die now your baby mama and child will still survive. Plan your life, for now forget them now and focus on yourself at least for the next 5 year. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 5:24pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
4040nysc:it is well |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by phenom666(m): 5:25pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
djkirkoo2: Nice One. When the child have come of age do a DNA test. 1 Like |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 5:25pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Hamachi:she brought up the business plan and idea so I had to adhere. |
Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by djkirkoo2(m): 5:27pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Chopcy29:hmm. Had it been I know things would go like this I wouldn't had allowed the pregnancy to stand. |
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