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She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 9:35pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
Good evening nairalanders, something just happened in my hostel, I'm an introvert, though I always tell myself that it's my choice because really I see girls as distractions that would slowly eat you up, moreover I barely have time for myself talk less of another person. So to the issue, there's this pretty girl in my hostel (yes I admitted she's pretty ) though I hold her in high standards (maybe crush if you wish to interpret) but I'd never wanted to date her or anyone else for that matter, she's gentle, composed unlike many girls around. we usually exchange pleasantries anytime we see and that's all, we've never had any conversation, today is just terrible and I wish it never happened. Today her friend called me, the three of us sat outside and her friend started talking to me, me and the other girl didn't talk to each other, few minutes later, her friend left leaving only me and her and boom it happened, let me not get into details ,she told me she likes me. I laughed and pretended as if she was joking but she said she wasn't. I told her I was very tired, that tomorrow I'll see her, I left her outside. Now it's either tomorrow I rebuke her feelings or I accept ,I don't want to be in a relationship but I don't want to offend her either, we see each other everyday, now no matter what, it would never go back to the way it was when we walk pass each other, please I need your advice on how to reject her politely. |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Crowwejihadist: 9:39pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
Baba don fall in love. leave story!! 12 Likes |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Danbukason(m): 9:40pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
You communication with her should be platonic and not erotic/sexual. Not all friends are meant to date each other. If the feelings is one side, pant go shift be that oo 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 9:45pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
Crowwejihadist:love? even though it's true, I don't want a relationship oo 1 Like |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 9:46pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
Danbukason:yes thank you, but what could I possibly tell her tomorrow? |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by jedaii(m): 9:46pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
tell her you dont have time. And even though you care about her, its just on your time frame and see her reply. |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Allison012: 9:48pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
see op,i swear what happened to you has happened to me.exactly as you talk am. even me i don't wanna date the girl and don't wanna offend her. the day i killed that thing called introvertness in me,i toast this girl sotay she no understand herself. another terrible thing is,this girl is living rent-free in my head.but i don't want to date her. |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 9:56pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
jedaii:thank you, I'll try this |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Othority(m): 9:56pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
Men encourage ladies to open up and tell their feelings to guys, but the same men, 9 out of 10 times, reject to date them. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 10:00pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
Allison012:you know am bro, I don't know how I'll stylishly tell her that I'm not interested in a relationship |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:01pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
reject her politely and let some other brotha chop that sweet thing. |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by PerfectStranger(m): 10:01pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
Othority:A taste of their medicine ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Hacks4dummies: 10:03pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
Op accept her, You Arrow |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by buttlover(m): 10:11pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
run anytime you see her coming from afar. do this for days. if she didn't check up on you in your room, forget her. she wan use you catch cruise. |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 10:14pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
Othority:really? I thought guys normally jump on the slightest opportunity to date girls |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 10:17pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
buttlover:i never really thought of this possibility, say she just wan use me catch cruise, girls sha |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Allison012: 10:18pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
Tekahashi:Look,toast the girl.but never tell her, you like her.just make sure you end the conversation well. no sexual talk o,if not,u don offend her be that. but we introverts, we dey suffer inside abeg. |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Lonestar124: 10:20pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
Crushing Ko, crushing nii ![]() A girl open her mouth tell you she love you in first discussion you have with her, and you can't read the handwriting on the wall..Chai!!!! Op, if you can smoke, smoke, if you can drink, drink and eat cumcunber to absorb the smell of it in your mouth, that is before meeting her tomorrow, tell her you will be preparing a dinner for her tomorrow night, she should come and visit you in your hostile, after the dinner, don't fail to dine with her in your bed aftermath come back and thank me here... 1 Like |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Allison012: 10:23pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
Tekahashi:forget that thing, she no wan use you catch cruise bro.what that girl feel for you is real. |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 10:34pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:you know girls na, probably she won't talk to me again |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Tekahashi: 10:36pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
Hacks4dummies:i said I'm not ready for a relationship |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:57pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
Tekahashi: ...and so what? if thats her decision then so be it. you dont want to be with her so why would you even care? just live your life and in due time, she will come back to her senses. |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Gerardo88: 12:49am On Sep 06, 2022 |
Just give her the chance, allow her to help shape you at least to be opening up to her...... Cus u may one day regret if u reject her. Give in, if u see harm u can later leave.... I believe The feeling's real, but as an introverted soul if u give in ND u see harm u will know ND then u can leave 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Nonywendy(m): 1:56am On Sep 06, 2022 |
Tekahashi:simp forming redpiller |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by imagrg(m): 4:53am On Sep 06, 2022 |
It's rare to find a girl like this. Oh boy, you will always get it for free whenever you want totow. Please don't turn her down even if you don't need a relationship. Tell her you appreciate her offer but that for now, you want it to start on a platonic platform. Tekahashi: 1 Like |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 5:03am On Sep 06, 2022 |
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Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by benqo01(m): 5:38am On Sep 06, 2022 |
No sexual talk, make una still dey communicate Sha no love talk, sex talk, money talk just random |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Whoody: 6:28am On Sep 06, 2022 |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Hacks4dummies: 7:15am On Sep 06, 2022 |
Tekahashi:oya tell her say Yiu no like her |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by MrBachelor: 9:31am On Sep 06, 2022 |
Tell her you are not ready for a relationship at the moment, but you are happy to be friends with her. |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Oturatetuala(m): 9:39am On Sep 06, 2022 |
Someone might actually like u but it doesn't mean she wants a relationship with u either. Be friendly please. 1 Like |
Re: She Finally Said This, What Should I Do? by Chris2863(m): 9:50am On Sep 06, 2022 |
Oturatetuala:op doesn’t know this |
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