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Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by Sahad1234: 6:40am On Sep 17, 2022 |
Some people blind sha , you guys should read properly before just jumping into conversations.. "hospital" it's there ! topcatking: |
Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by Mindlog: 6:53am On Sep 17, 2022 |
Sahad1234: Adding hospital as after thought, changes nothing. That obsession about his daughter's (if he truly has one) virginity is unhealthy.....many girls who were sexually abused by their fathers, have one thing in common....their father's obsession if they were still virgins. If he is a single father and lives alone with his 15 year old daughter...it is a huge red flag. 4 Likes |
Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by bukatyne(f): 6:56am On Sep 17, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Is her sexual choice not part of the definition of responsibility? Or do you mean 'financially successful'? |
Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by bukatyne(f): 6:59am On Sep 17, 2022 |
Mrsoft3: @bold: While, there are exceptions, it is a very great point. |
Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by bukatyne(f): 7:10am On Sep 17, 2022 |
@OP: He has been bursted to be a fluke with very conflicting stories except he is a sampling opinions which should be clearly stated. @Topic: Someone said something I really like; it is your duty as a father to plan your kids environs. While you are worried your daughter might not be a virgin (which I find off; someone even takes his daughter to the hospital monthly. Except he has promised someone his virgin daughter in marriage, it is strange and off), your son's might be introduced to crime, homosexuality & rituals. Join hands with your wife to create a peaceful and loving environment at home so they are not seeking for 'love' & 'attention' outside. Train them right from when they are very young in the way of the Lord/ imbibe whatever values are important to you and be a good example. Have a relationship with them so they can discuss with you about life issues. Create healthy boundaries and scrutinize their associates. Teach them age appropriate sex education. Etc, etc. etc. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by ghosttownboss(m): 7:19am On Sep 17, 2022 |
Rozross:Are u father? |
Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by frozen70(f): 7:25am On Sep 17, 2022 |
GraciousGod190: I think you should seat her down and counsel her Provides for her whatever you think she needs to avoid her looking out You can still make plans to relocate or start making plans to relocate to another area Your child will be guided till she enters university and keep counseling her But i cant say what her peer group will teach her when she gets admitted into the university Thats when you should be more worried about her virginity |
Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by Ebonygeek(f): 7:30am On Sep 17, 2022 |
GraciousGod190:Sit her down and talk to her about sex. Let her know that sex is sacred and she's special and shouldn't let just anyone enter her temple. Let her know you love her and would be disappointed if she lets you down Tell her that now that she's so young and innocent, guys will always come around her and tell her that she's pretty, but that's something they will always say because they just want to have sex with her. Tell her she is beautiful so that she doesn't feel any different when a random guy says it to her Taking her to the hospital regularly and obsessing over it will let her know you don't trust her (when I was younger, my dad used to make my mom check mine manually. It was disgusting and embarrassing to say the least). Using harsh and stern words might not work either 1 Like |
Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by Crampyblood(m): 7:53am On Sep 17, 2022 |
You see that her small nyansh?? Boys go tear am for sure... Kind of like how you de bang Tope, Toyin, Sandra and co that year for area |
Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by iykofias(m): 8:47am On Sep 17, 2022 |
mariahAngel:where you not raised well? Are you currently a virgin or did you marry as a virgin? Leave all the holy shenanigan you’re trying to infuse here, the street is brutal |
Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by nahzyla: 9:18am On Sep 17, 2022 |
Ebonygeek: Eeewww, I would have hated my parents for life of they did something like this to me. |
Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by Goldmaxx(f): 9:51am On Sep 17, 2022 |
Mufakirnaqdiun:They don't know anything. Pastors pikin dey knack anyhow. It's even worse abroad. In this jet internet age, it's hard for a child not to spoil no matter how they were raised. Even girls I know that has been locked under parental supervision almost all their lives tend not to be virgin when you enter... I don't know how. |
Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by Goldmaxx(f): 9:53am On Sep 17, 2022 |
mariahAngel:Really? If you raised your child in a rough street in which he interacts and mingles with children of the street, street go enter an. |
Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by Nobody: 11:07am On Sep 17, 2022 |
GraciousGod190: Signal from environment has a great impact on our programming. Family Head must plan where to live with safety of kids and wife in mind. If possible, limit her interaction with the world to a predictable few. Ensure she doesn't have social media apps on her phone. Move to gated community where access is limited and ensure teenage girls are enrolled in nearby schools and pay surprise attention always. As for virginity, be her friend and promise her 1m naira if she keeps her virginity till 18 and a car if she keeps it till 20. But also let her understand that erotic love is too powerful for girls her age and in the event that she makes mistakes she should inform you right away for abortion pills. 1 Like |
Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by Kobojunkie: 1:40pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
bukatyne:Are you asking if the sexual choice of a teenager is the responsibility of a parent? |
Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by Nobody: 3:13pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
Sahad1234: In your idiocy, you had no idea that the OP edited his original post (added "hospital" after my comment!. Next time ehn, when you feel compelled to display your ignorance on a thread, especially on someone else's comment, I urge you to exercise restraint and think...before you type. |
Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by mhizandrea1(f): 4:10pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
I just hope when you were a young guy you " kept your thing in your trousers " and not chasing after young girls upandan What I heard some guys in my hostel discussing about girls yesterday would make you puke ........ It's just the grace of God oh...... Try to also have a close relationship with her( or her mum), so that she'll be able to tell you everything and anything. I am like that with my mum |
Re: As a Father How Do I Follow Up My Daughter's Virginity? Please Help by Nobody: 5:17pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
MasterJayJay:No mind am. He's 38 and have never dated? So how he take get the pikin. Him rape person or the mama na ashawo?
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