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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Nobody: 3:24am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Shadysen:faggo t |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Nobody: 3:25am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Slynation:Kindly obtain common entrance form. Your sec school is a waste. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by NezzyMike: 3:26am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman: Trouble dey relax, you go wake am ...what was the need of doing it since you can't withstand the emotional consequences mchewwww |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by cliqtips: 3:26am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Her comments just weak me sef... Jumping everywhere trying to make OP see reason why he should stay with her. Justbehave: |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by FireUpNow(m): 3:30am On Sep 30, 2022 |
jkpbestseries:Guy forget satisfaction because some women will still cheat on you even if you are having sexz with them to their satisfaction. Remember also that the Op said he got separated from this said woman for a while before their reconciliation. Cut him some slack.woman wey be ashawo will always be ashawo. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Yusssuf11(m): 3:30am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Sluacoast:.. I pray make this happened in ur marriage which one be accidental sex again. .. How would she get drunk in the first place she doesn't see anywhere else like her female friends house to pass the night. . Nah the woman arrange this lie give ur community people like this |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by cliqtips: 3:33am On Sep 30, 2022 |
You're right with these statements.... You see that number 3, I'm sure, that lady is seeing another dude na you no wan do... It's high time men know that " if their women cheat on them, they should let her go" because if they forgive them, they will cheat on them again and still blame them for forgiving them obiekunie01: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by cliqtips: 3:34am On Sep 30, 2022 |
TANID: |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by cliqtips: 3:38am On Sep 30, 2022 |
"Once de be is always de be" Get a yoruba to read n interpret to you Maynman: if you forgive a lady/woman for what she suppose not to be forgiven for such as cheating, she would do it again and later blame you 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by NezzyMike: 3:39am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Maynman: Hope you are a legitimate son of your father Stop calling children that were conceived by a man and woman bastards. Be warned 1 Like |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Tradepunter2: 3:42am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Send the biatch away ..... But First forgive her to clear your conscience... |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Obidient4life2: 3:45am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman: Run a DNA on the mother and Child too to be sure your wife owns the child. There has been cases of child switching in clinics. Don't conclude yet until you confirm your wife gave birth to that child. I am talking from a true life event! |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by lastmanstandn(m): 3:46am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman: I will tell you one thing. Whatever you are going through right now, or that you will be going through in the coming months, your wife is going to have it in multiple folds (unless she’s a truly pathetic psychopath). How you handle this situation could make you or break you, would definitely break her, and could cause permanent damage to the innocent child and your kids. In the interest of your kids, and the innocent child, please handle this with grace, love, and compassion. You can seek a separation or a divorce, but don’t scar the kids emotionally. Sit with her, lay out your decision and plans for you, her, your kids and the innocent child. So help you God, brother. . |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by greggng: 3:49am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Jashub: I don't know if you understand English.. He said he is not the father of the fourth child. That mean he is the father of 1st 2nd and 3rd children.. Asking him to abandon those 3 kids is not the solution. He can decide to divorce her so that she can go with the fourth child..But you most takecare of your biological kids |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by NezzyMike: 3:49am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman: But this said child is more than a yr and three months. June should make the child 2 years ago I'm not understanding your story? |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by cliqtips: 3:50am On Sep 30, 2022 |
But she can shame him, right ? Biko, don't emotionally blackmail him I'm sure, the sex she had with the guy wasn't and can't be a one time thing. Note this "if you forgive a lady/woman for what she suppose not to be forgiven for such as cheating, she would do it again and later blame you" fof1: LMAO.... is the lose weight for me right now Like, are you being serious? 3 Likes |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by NezzyMike: 3:52am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Elsueno: You don't know if he's writing out of experience, there are broken men that suffered in life cus of their parents' mistake. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by RepoMan007: 3:54am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Mindlog:You are wise. Baby switching is real and people forget to eliminate it in cases like these. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by cliqtips: 3:55am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Going by your first statement, does that mean women can keep bringing bastards to their husbands since tradition says any child born while a woman is still married to the man is his ? And you think the side dude will keep her as wife? Know this and know peace *If you forgive a lady/woman for what she suppose not to be forgiven for such as cheating, she would do it again and later blame you" GerogeI: 3 Likes |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Gbeng30(m): 3:57am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Just make sure she return the bastard child to the owner and move on with your life.... Keeping her with you is entirely your choice there are many things that need to be considered before you decide to do so... I wish you best of luck |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Osanoghodua1: 3:57am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Check if machine made a mistake. In Africa, every child born under the roof of a man belongs to the man. Take in your child and ask God if the marriage is to continue. Divorce is never a good thing but if no more trust, then ask God his mind on the marriage as for the child, he's yours. Keep the baby, don't ever tell him. You're his father, he's your son. Don't make the mistake of sending him away, I will personally beat you up "lols" but keep the child as yours. God bless you daddy. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by CheapHomes1: 3:59am On Sep 30, 2022 |
toobusy: How do these men train kids that aren't theirs? Does the woman go outside, get pregnant and come back and deceive the man that he is responsible? Is that how it's done? |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by civilserva: 4:01am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Sorry forgive her |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by kwasoly(m): 4:03am On Sep 30, 2022 |
MisterMan123456: In as much as I don't support the act that produced the fruit but calling the innocent fruit is names is WRONG, pls calling that innocent child a bastard is very very wrong. Na still God dey give child and the innocent child no beg anybody to bring her into this world, pls refrain from calling her a bastard is not good. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by cliqtips: 4:04am On Sep 30, 2022 |
But this one that OP wrote was a deliberate cheat. Thank God you said "sometimes". The best thing is don't people yourself in such situations Sluacoast: |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Sixfiguresmart(m): 4:04am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Good judge. Case closed. Johnnyjohnnyman:If the lady had been honest to him when she returned, it would have been easy. Had she told him that she made a mistake that caused a child, the man might make the decision for himself if to go ahead or not. Meanwhile willfully concealing information and consciously deceiving this man is a proof of what she is capable of. You cannot save a marriage that is shattered. Once a third party comes into a marriage with a big receipt like a child, it is usually the end. The lady is shameless. Even after 3 kids she still cannot respect her body. The man sounds like someone who needs help making decision. 1 Like |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Nobody: 4:05am On Sep 30, 2022 |
CheapHomes1:....... If you are a man,be-careful any time a woman whom you having be cohabiting with or dating,who in her previous record doesn't jump into having sex with you suddenly starts initiating sex. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Nobody: 4:05am On Sep 30, 2022 |
cliqtips:Bro I condemned the woman. I m not supporting her nor justifying her deeds. In life when things occur, we should take the overall best decision. It may defy logic but if it's the best decision, it ll yield good result. You can see that the op hasn't decided if he ll divorce the wife or not. If he divorce her, how ll he or the woman alone take care of the 3 legit kids or the 4 kids? Remember, raising kids well matters in this age. I know there's guilt factor but forgiveness is key to healing. Giving forgiveness a chance is the best decision. Anything that happen after that won't be a regret cos you v done the best thing which is to forgive |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Ed12(m): 4:06am On Sep 30, 2022 |
NEVER ACCEPT A CHEATING GIRLFRIEND/WIFE... A PAST IS NEVER A PAST FOR THEM, THEY CAN EASILY GO BACK TO THIER VOMIT ESPECIALLY WHEN MAN KNACK THEM WELL .. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by cliqtips: 4:07am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Don't mind he, i think na film he relate to us. Or who come tell him the story ? I guess na that same drunk woman that claimed she no know they had sex with in the first place jimmychang: |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by NezzyMike: 4:09am On Sep 30, 2022 |
CheapHomes1: It didn't start in this generation and not ending anytime soon. Na still men dey give them belle |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Johnnyjohnnyman(m): 4:10am On Sep 30, 2022 |
NezzyMike: Conceived in September 2020 born in June 2021 from June 2021 to September 2022 1 year 3 months 1 Like |
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