AfroKnight:
Lies.

At some point or the other in their 20’s, all those women met at least 3 guys who would have been great husbands to them. They didn’t give the men any chance cos of baseless pride and conceit, or they preferred heartbreakers.

In hindsight, they can see which men actually wanted them for marriage and which didn’t.

This reminds me of one babe (a friend of mine) who was considering one player like that. I warned her several times. She even accused me of being jealous and a hater. She accused me of secretly wanting her but that certainly was not the case, cos she was not even my type.

Everyone knew this guy was only going to break her heart. They couldn’t warn her but I didn’t send her. I told her straight. It was funny sha cos She had just left one player and was about to fall for another. And there was a serious decent guy by the side who was dying for her. She kept friendzoning that one. Responsible guy, enterprising and a kind person. Lol.

Long story short, she got heartbroken again. Surprise surprise. The friendzoned guy too was a mumu, instead make him find another chick, he was still hanging around but they never dated cos she still didn’t see him as suitable when all he ever did was care for her. I graduated before them anyway and left them to their silly situationship. Last I heard, she’s still single. I don’t know where the other guy is.

The word mumu is an understanemnt . He needs drilling.. He is an idiot and slowpoke..

johnfem321:
I swear.. he is only looking to bring setback to his life based on a used up left over.. total ignorance

Back then when i wanted to do jamb, we were 6. We arrived at location, then this my friend met this girl and they had sex that same day. Next day we went for jamb and only him failed out of we 6 and he couldn’t get admission until after 3 years..

It was later after sometime he got to know the girl he slept with a day before jamb was a pregnant girl..

johnfem321:
What I notice this days is a lot of women lie about their age.. you will see 32years old claiming 25years.. I don’t understand the reason behind this lie

A girl that's not married will hardly tell her age but once she gets married. She can tell.

A turn off question is asking a girl her age and what she does for a living

toujurs:
Some can be, tbh. But most women are more stupid.

now,that's fair enough

we are not talking about married women Broda

yusufmurry:


A girl that's married will hardly tell her age but once she gets married. She can tell.

A turn off question is asking a girl her age and what she does for a living

Baronthecelebri:
Lies, I met a fine girl, I approach her and ask her for friendship she says no, I met her again she said that she'll think about it, I travel for a job that Last 7 month, when I came back she's pregnant for one stupid Iceland guy that is in prison for murder. She call me for urgent 2k, I gave her condition
1-when she come we'll have sex before she eat.
2- we'll have 2 rounds of sex before she go.
So guys she agreed, anytime she need 2k, I invite her we have 3 rounds of sex with the pregnancy. Did I do anything wrong.

I just hope your joking or looking for likes cos is not funny blood it kills faster than bullet

Chai imagine unnecessary set back

GeneralPula:

Back then when i wanted to do jamb, we were 6. We arrived at location, then this my friend met this girl and they had sex that same day. Next day we went for jamb and only him failed out of we 6 and he couldn’t get admission until after 3 years..

It was later after sometime he got to know the girl he slept with a day before jamb was a pregnant girl..

Michelle70:
Give them some break biko.
Its not always their fault.

Some tried to build something till late 20's only for the man to run away. e deh happen.

Some left school probably at 24 and build a career till late twenties, afterall if they didnt build, u will still tag them leech and how they didnt bring anything to the table.

I have read a story on NL where a married man decieved a lady to marry him, only to find out he was married on her wedding days, how could u blame her?

I have also read a story of how a man died, 2weeks to his marriage, would u blame the woman?

Some women prepare for marriage, and on wedding day, husband was nowhere to be found, ring sef dem no see.

Please being a Nigerian is enough to torment us, do not force someone into depression with ur words, Alot of kidnapping, rituals, forceful marriage is going on cos the society has decide to force a standard down our throat

If Warren buffet had set a standard for us, everybody was suppose to be a millionaire at 29yrs.

Most of them I talked to rejected suitors because of standards they set. Abeg they are the cause of their wahala. Me I no wan desperate news paper, I am almost 40 and I am not bothered about marriage.

listen in life you are where you are because of who you are. there are absolutely no coincidences in life. if you are broke homeless marriedless sick etc etc its all because of who you are. the universe gives you who you are. no coincidences. at a point in time the universe has offered every person the opportunity to do the right thing and to pick the right choice and the right choice has been presented to them but because of who they are they have chosen the wrong thing. they have chosen thugs or bad boys etc etc. however should they be crucified for their present predicaments ? let he without sin cast the first stone. i want to see a poor person cast the first stone because truth of the matter is that you are poor also because of who you are, which is not a good person and so maybe people should make fun of you too because you are broke and poor ?. this life is spiritual in nature. you will always be where you are supposed to be at all times

that is why we say life no balance!

Who told NL men/ boys that being single over 30 is bad? Smh

bluefilm:


Jesus!

Who knows the type of pressure this lady, and so many other ladies out there in a similar situation, is under now due to marriage wahala?

Unfortunately for them ladies, I don't pity any of them who are in this wahala.

In fact, I rejoice over such issues.

I actually enjoy TORMENTING them.

You wanna know why?

Listen, any lady who failed to use her time when she was in her prime to catch a nigga, assuming she is not a lesbian or something of that nature, is to be blamed for not playing her game well.

These ladies sit back and watch what happened to other ladies and yet they still feel like it won't be their own portion... until it eventually happens to them.

Now they want us to start pitying them and considering them for marriage after they have wasted all their good years chasing fun.

That's absolute nonsense.

Lady, you made your bed.

And you MUST lie on it.

The other group of oves

have you fùcked an ugly girl b4?

Lucrativress:

I'm sure the picture of this "decent man" is frugal spending or pretty low income,who knows could be with a bright future or not.
I don't know why it's almost like a crime for women to be hypergamous...

Be hypergamous all you want but allow guys make their own choices of having younger, fresher girls whose coochies are still intact and fresh. Let's see where your hypergamy would lead you to.

Stop forming motivational speaker when a man wants to make his own choices.

Jman06:
Be hypergamous all you want but allow guys make their own choices of having younger, fresher girls whose coochies are still intact and fresh. Let's see where your hypergamy would lead you to.

Stop forming motivational speaker when a man wants to make his own choices.

Be calming down ehn Sweetheart
And who says we both can't have it all ehn?
Or at least to the extent we can?
Last last we'll end up with good or bad spouses but I believe we can always get close to what we want, we'll just do what it takes to have it ni

mirinder:
have you fùcked an ugly girl b4?

Nah.

Michelle70:
Give them some break biko.
Its not always their fault.

Some tried to build something till late 20's only for the man to run away. e deh happen.

Some left school probably at 24 and build a career till late twenties, afterall if they didnt build, u will still tag them leech and how they didnt bring anything to the table.

I have read a story on NL where a married man decieved a lady to marry him, only to find out he was married on her wedding days, how could u blame her?

I have also read a story of how a man died, 2weeks to his marriage, would u blame the woman?

Some women prepare for marriage, and on wedding day, husband was nowhere to be found, ring sef dem no see.

Please being a Nigerian is enough to torment us, do not force someone into depression with ur words, Alot of kidnapping, rituals, forceful marriage is going on cos the society has decide to force a standard down our throat

If Warren buffet had set a standard for us, everybody was suppose to be a millionaire at 29yrs.

IF YOU NEED A RESPONSIBLE HUSBAND LET ME KNOW, I CAN ASSIST YOU FOR THAT.

Big lies. They will keep adding more layer to their excuses, which one be serious guy again

You answer to Jennifer and your moniker is Michelle

Michelle70:
Kunle, Did i ever tell u i was a lady?

Michelle70:
Give them some break biko.
Its not always their fault.

Some tried to build something till late 20's only for the man to run away. e deh happen.

Some left school probably at 24 and build a career till late twenties, afterall if they didnt build, u will still tag them leech and how they didnt bring anything to the table.

I have read a story on NL where a married man decieved a lady to marry him, only to find out he was married on her wedding days, how could u blame her?

I have also read a story of how a man died, 2weeks to his marriage, would u blame the woman?

Some women prepare for marriage, and on wedding day, husband was nowhere to be found, ring sef dem no see.

Please being a Nigerian is enough to torment us, do not force someone into depression with ur words, Alot of kidnapping, rituals, forceful marriage is going on cos the society has decide to force a standard down our throat

If Warren buffet had set a standard for us, everybody was suppose to be a millionaire at 29yrs.

"It is not always their fault" is as useless a statement as "It is not always all men that are heterosexual".

When discussing these sought of issues about a large group of people, it is the generality that matters, not your focus on exceptions and/or minority. And there are few large groups that are as large as "Female Group".

Your listing of exceptions is basically meaningless.

The realities are:

1. Everyone is responsible for their respective destiny.
2. Women have the powers in their youth and are the selectors.
3. The finer a woman is, the less excuse she has that it is not her fault being single at an advanced age.
4. A large proportion of women who are single at advanced age failed in the 3 points aforementioned.

Trying to find few exceptions to excuse and protect the majority is quite disingenious.

Majority wasted their beauty in their youth because:

a. They were power drunk and thought their power, queue of suitors and ability to dictate in their youth will last forever.

b. They over-valued themselves and engaged in delusions (the damage feminism has done; I have been saying this for over 10 years on NL before the Red Pill movement; Search my name and L'Oreal on NL).

c. They chose bad boys for excitement when they had options.

d. They have poor relationship skills.

e. They were unrealistic and thought because one or more HVM effed them, then that is their class of men/level to marry.

f. Nigerian economy is so bad, many Nigerian men are hesitant to marry until they make something (which is now in their late 30s)


Except a woman is very ugly right from time, there really is very few reasons beyond her fault if she can't find a man to couple with. They had all the chance in their youth; and their youth is very important and fundamental to their ability to pick the best market.


This is a post I made in 2010:

https://www.nairaland.com/406708/fiancee-hates-home-made-food/1#5629365

In it, you will be able to see that I have been talking about "What do you bring to the table" and women over-valuing themselves long before Red Pill movement emerged and started saying it. Na we define am, I didn't learn it.

You will also see that back then, I felt Nigerian girls in Nigeria were better; but they have copied nonsense movement (copy-copy) and are paying for it too now.

Why would men approach them when they were doing shakara then?

I don't believe every problem is spiritual like most Africans believe.......Some ladies are the architect of their misfortunes. The funny thing is that the younger ones now still don't wanna learn. They are wasting their time jumping from one club to the other then later they will put the blame on someone.

You can't eat your cake and have it, someday your past might come back to haunt you.

It's a combination of so many factors, yes there are ladies that are picky but so many of them too just want to wait a little to find the best but sometimes the best never comes.

The economy is also a factor, most young men are not doing well presently, if 80% of our youths are gainfully employed, there will be marriage ceremony every weekend, even the not so beautiful ladies will all find love and get married.

With the way the economy is now and the standard the society has set, it may be difficult, that's why very few marriages are happening. Also the economy is affecting the ladies too, most of them now sees Relationship as a means to survive thereby putting so much pressure on the struggling young man. The more reason many relationships breaks too.
The ladies have to learn, if you are in a relationship, take it as a relationship and not a transaction. If wan be prostitute, do it with your full chest so that everyone knows where you belong.
Also all these 'your money is our money' but my money is my money' will not help women. If you meet a good man who is thriving, support him both emotionally and financially, work with your hands to make a living, your man will value you more.
Above all pray, smile always, go out often and make a lot of friends, it helps.

Michelle70:
Give them some break biko.
Its not always their fault.

Some tried to build something till late 20's only for the man to run away. e deh happen.

Some left school probably at 24 and build a career till late twenties, afterall if they didnt build, u will still tag them leech and how they didnt bring anything to the table.

I have read a story on NL where a married man decieved a lady to marry him, only to find out he was married on her wedding days, how could u blame her?

I have also read a story of how a man died, 2weeks to his marriage, would u blame the woman?

Some women prepare for marriage, and on wedding day, husband was nowhere to be found, ring sef dem no see.

Please being a Nigerian is enough to torment us, do not force someone into depression with ur words, Alot of kidnapping, rituals, forceful marriage is going on cos the society has decide to force a standard down our throat

If Warren buffet had set a standard for us, everybody was suppose to be a millionaire at 29yrs.

well said but in most cases situations ladies found themselves or victims of...are usually men luring women into women fantasies.... fantasies are never true,but women want and like to have fantasies to be reality....this is a bait lot of women get trapped into.... women like lies alot...man tell them truth they are never satisfied with it until they jam liers... at the end they will now be crying victim

Sagamite:


"It is not always their fault" is as useless a statement as "It is not always all men that are heterosexual".

When discussing these sought of issues about a large group of people, it is the generality that matters, not your focus on exceptions and/or minority. And there are few large groups that are as large as "Female Group".

Your listing of exceptions is basically meaningless.

The realities are:

1. Everyone is responsible for their respective destiny.
2. Women have the powers in their youth and are the selectors.
3. The finer a woman is, the less excuse she has that it is not her fault being single at an advanced age.
4. A large proportion of women who are single at advanced age failed in the 3 points aforementioned.

Trying to find few exceptions to excuse and protect the majority is quite disingenious.

Majority wasted their beauty in their youth because:

a. They were power drunk and thought their power, queue of suitors and ability to dictate in their youth will last forever.

b. They over-valued themselves and engaged in delusions (the damage feminism has done; I have been saying this for over 10 years on NL before the Red Pill movement; Search my name and L'Oreal on NL).

c. They chose bad boys for excitement when they had options.

d. They have poor relationship skills.

e. They were unrealistic and thought because one or more HVM effed them, then that is their class of men/level to marry.

f. Nigerian economy is so bad, many Nigerian men are hesitant to marry until they make something (which is not in the late 30s)


Except a woman is very ugly right from time, there really is very few reasons beyond her fault if she can't find a man to couple with. They had all the chance in their youth; and their youth is very important and fundamental to their ability to pick the best market.


This is a post I made in 2010:

https://www.nairaland.com/406708/fiancee-hates-home-made-food/1#5629365

In it, you will be able to see that I have been talking about "What do you bring to the table" and women over-valuing themselves long before Red Pill movement emerged and started saying it. Na we define am, I didn't learn it.

You will also see that back then, I felt Nigerian girls in Nigeria were better; but they have copied nonsense movement (copy-copy) and are paying for it too now.

Sagamite!!!

You still dey here??

BigBellyBurst:

Sagamite!!!

You still dey here??

Just passing by o. Lol

Just highlighting that I am a Prophet!

Sagamite:


Just passing by o. Lol

Just highlighting that I am a Prophet!

Lol I get bro

bluefilm:


Jesus!

Who knows the type of pressure this lady, and so many other ladies out there in a similar situation, is under now due to marriage wahala?

Unfortunately for them ladies, I don't pity any of them who are in this wahala.

In fact, I rejoice over such issues.

I actually enjoy TORMENTING them.

You wanna know why?

Listen, any lady who failed to use her time when she was in her prime to catch a nigga, assuming she is not a lesbian or something of that nature, is to be blamed for not playing her game well.

These ladies sit back and watch what happened to other ladies and yet they still feel like it won't be their own portion... until it eventually happens to them.

Now they want us to start pitying them and considering them for marriage after they have wasted all their good years chasing fun.

That's absolute nonsense.

Lady, you made your bed.

And you MUST lie on it.

The other group of overaged ladies I may not torment are the ones who are naturally UGLY.

Their case is quite understandable and there is no more reason to worsen their situation.

The 30 and above evening newspapers can be married but:

1. She can't control which other girls I talk to and can't prevent me from dating other girls....

2. I will give her a roof over her head and food....anything else financial she has to fend for herself financially....

Sagamite:


Just passing by o. Lol

Just highlighting that I am a Prophet!

Oga Sagamite it's been like 3 - 5 years you still dey this forum? Post more!

johnfem321:
What I notice this days is a lot of women lie about their age.. you will see 32years old claiming 25years.. I don’t understand the reason behind this lie

Naso my ex lie say she is 22 while she b 26 and baba dey celebrate birthday for her every year with false birthday age

BigBashiru:


Oga Sagamite it's been like 3 - 5 years you still dey this forum? Post more!

Bro, the forum is so full of stupid people, there is no intellectual discussion to be had here at all.

Shocking degradation!

Candidlady:



They will chop off your head for this post... do wear a protective gear

They are coming for you

Nobody will chop off his head. he made valid point.
But some of these ladies never give a chance for a genuine relationship unless one owns a car or he's dripping with cash.

Imagine that level of confidence

Abyounghammed:


Naso my ex lie say she is 22 while she b 26 and baba dey celebrate birthday for her every year with false birthday age