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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by sniperr007(m): 8:45pm On Oct 08, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
Do you go to weekly church programs?
I doubt because if you do, your flesh will be kept under as your spirit is being lifted at such programs but it's obvious the only things you feed your soul with are thoughts of sex and wild imaginations of sex.
Watching sexual videos and all sorts.

If you want to get your mind off it, think and dwell more on spiritual things like the word of God. Gospel songs and if possible, fasting and prayers asking the holy spirit to help ( he can help you). That is if you're even a christian.

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This is wrong.
She's human and it's normal for her to feel Hot. Rather than give advise you are critcising her. If you no get advise. Save your mb and read through.

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Maliqcious: 8:45pm On Oct 08, 2022
Just get yourself a new hubby read books
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Annahh(f): 8:45pm On Oct 08, 2022
You need to deal with the spirit of lust, the spirit of lust can manifest in your life even in marriage, it's not bad to feel sexual urge, it shows that you are normal and your body system is functioning but when the urge is too strong that you can't handle it, a spirit is behind it. I have been practicing abstinence for years now and I don't even feel half of this urge like you feel, you need to discipline your mind and put your flesh under subjection.

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Huracan(m): 8:46pm On Oct 08, 2022
Sex urge need to be quench... nobody can stop it's urges to have sex and moreover it's a normal thing..if you can't hold on any longer use vibrator or you self service

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Annahh(f): 8:46pm On Oct 08, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
Do you go to weekly church programs?
I doubt because if you do, your flesh will be kept under as your spirit is being lifted at such programs but it's obvious the only things you feed your soul with are thoughts of sex and wild imaginations of sex.
Watching sexual videos and all sorts.

If you want to get your mind off it, think and dwell more on spiritual things like the word of God. Gospel songs and if possible, fasting and prayers asking the holy spirit to help ( he can help you). That is if you're even a christian.

Well said, all that will reduce when she feeds her mind with pure things, the word of God, satisfying lust with sexual thoughts and pornography will lead to more lust.

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by 36STATES: 8:49pm On Oct 08, 2022
I bring out my bible and read Hezekiah and pray hail Mary five times.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by onlinestaff2020: 8:50pm On Oct 08, 2022
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

Call me so that I can help you dig your urge with wild fantasies and styles.

No strings attached, it's just for the fun of satisfying you, baby.

Don't be shy Isabella.

0/8/1/3/4/1/9)8/7++9&5
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Michelle70(m): 8:50pm On Oct 08, 2022
Nonexisting1:
You are seeking validation to fucck that young man you've been seeing lately but the God your husband serves will expose you. Nigga is out there slaving away his life for you to have a better life but all you can think of is dirty wild sex most with another man. Go ahead, DNA test will always seek you olosho wives out.
how are u sure the husband is not...

Just fogerrit
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Jacketaltrade: 8:50pm On Oct 08, 2022
Enter prayers, That Bastard Demon Will Leave you.
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by klonboi: 8:50pm On Oct 08, 2022
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

Your hubby travelled probably to go and make more money for the family and the only thing you can think of is hotsex?
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by backtalkG(m): 8:51pm On Oct 08, 2022
Say no more
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Confirm4real(m): 8:51pm On Oct 08, 2022
So assuming your hubby stays abroad what would have happened

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by GloriousGbola: 8:52pm On Oct 08, 2022
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

Buy a sex doll and stop disturbing people on SM.
Silly transgendered
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Softmirror: 8:52pm On Oct 08, 2022
A GUY PRETENDING TO BE A FEMALE LOL.

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Jacketaltrade: 8:53pm On Oct 08, 2022
Onye sister.
Annahh:
You need to deal with the spirit of lust, the spirit of lust can manifest in your life even in marriage, it's not bad to feel sexual urge, it shows that you are normal and your body system is functioning but when the urge is too strong that you can't handle it, a spirit is behind it. I have been practicing abstinence for years now and I don't even feel half of this urge like you feel, you need to discipline your mind and put your flesh under subjection.

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Shikini: 8:53pm On Oct 08, 2022
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

My dear, please touch yourself and use objects.
Your husband will understand and tolerate it ... compared to fornication.
.

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by wacuc0: 8:54pm On Oct 08, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
Do you go to weekly church programs?
I doubt because if you do, your flesh will be kept under as your spirit is being lifted at such programs but it's obvious the only things you feed your soul with are thoughts of sex and wild imaginations of sex.
Watching sexual videos and all sorts.

If you want to get your mind off it, think and dwell more on spiritual things like the word of God. Gospel songs and if possible, fasting and prayers asking the holy spirit to help ( he can help you). That is if you're even a christian.


This is a discussion forum not for abuse. We are all human, it is a simple question and if you have a superior argument on what to do, simply educate people and win souls for Christ with more decent and civil language.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Akalia(m): 8:55pm On Oct 08, 2022
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.
You are normal. Just relieve yourself by yourself. Don't cheat o!
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Athemisia: 8:55pm On Oct 08, 2022
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.
Madam masturbate... Get object and touch your self to satisfaction...
Those dirty thoughts will get off your mind once you cum..
If you refuse to, you might end up underneath another man.

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by SUXXI(m): 8:57pm On Oct 08, 2022
As a married person. Best is to take trasnport and meet your husband wherever he is located. Even if he is very busy,he MUST create out the time for you both to meet and do the needful.Marriage partners are not supposed to be separated for long so as not to give any room for temptation. Pick up your phone and call your husband for you both to meet immediately. If he is outside the country and money is available to book flight for you to meet him and spend quality time with him. Work is not all about money to take care of the family financially and be emotionally neglected and starved.It should be balanced.Bible said husband should pay his dues to his wife and vice versa.

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by xynerise: 8:59pm On Oct 08, 2022
You see all these people telling you to get busy or go to church programs, they are hypocrites. It is easier said when you are dishing out advice and not the person involved.

My own be say Long distance relationship sucks big time.

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by 2loadedguy: 9:00pm On Oct 08, 2022
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.
It's obvious you are are not a real gee hence you won't be here asking jamb questions . Go out there and you will see many babes wants to be laid. They don't care if you are married or you don't have money, all you need do is appear rich and be able to buy drinks and fish in outings. You will be amazed the number of sex you can get in a week, particularly if you are in Lagos. These days I can't even count the no of babes that wants to lash u especially when you are married.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Nobody: 9:00pm On Oct 08, 2022
Cutehector:
cheesy
I don fúck now is going to over 1 yrs 7 months and I dont use to feel shit grin maybe because I day fin moni make op try fin something to do grin grin
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by yusfatedeeprof(m): 9:03pm On Oct 08, 2022
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.
Haha, you've been watching pornography, all these "Blacked" porn. You're seeing BBC's and really wanting that cheesy

My advice, stop watching porn in total or watch only ethical porn, some straight girls also loves watching all these sensual Lesbian porn. Touching yourself to that will help with the urges rather than Hardcore porn.

Also Get an intimacy gadget (Love Machine, vibrator) and have sex chats and calls with your Husband while you use your new toy cheesy

Don't cheat on your husband, stay far away from men, especially the ones you find attractive, as much as you can.

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Johel(m): 9:03pm On Oct 08, 2022
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.



Soapy.....no need wasting time n money chasing pussies.

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by milkySperm(m): 9:06pm On Oct 08, 2022
I am just the only therapist in town. I absolutely understand yu, a try would tell you more
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Iamthoney(m): 9:07pm On Oct 08, 2022
E sure me die say Op hubby don kpansh more than twice in that 8 months but him go expect Op to hold her self.

Op use your head ooo and apply 99 intelligency by masturbating if you no get the odordor to kpansh real gbola

Konji big like rain, dem no dey tell person say konji don come the person go feel am for body like person wey rain beat


Op if you change your mind to knack real gbola try use protection ooo

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Uthmaniyya: 9:10pm On Oct 08, 2022
Here is my advice
If your husband is not far apart, try go see him or he squeez a day in his workng schedule if it is possible and see you, then u sort things out
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by ruby360: 9:10pm On Oct 08, 2022
STOP watching porn and don't chat with your ex and admirers.

Occupy yourself with tasks that are brain challenging, watch thriller movies, read books, avoid too much social media, pray and talk with your hubby frequently.

YOU WILL OVER COME IF YOU BECOME OBI-DIENT grin
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Mayeldah(m): 9:13pm On Oct 08, 2022
Don't marry man we dey abroad una no go hear, if you must marry him, let him get your paper ready and take you along

Some of these men stays abroad for years without comimg home and yet get their family members to monitor the wife's every movement

My sister, sorry o, I don't have any advice for you. keep managing it till he comes.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Farid24224(m): 9:13pm On Oct 08, 2022
So painful for me....Pain helps me cool down my urges cry

I pinch the side of my thigh so hard...I do have scars there too..
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by SPAMBOX7: 9:14pm On Oct 08, 2022
And you can't tell that your imaginary hubby about your urges instead you came on NL lol

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