Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

Blessedmercy8:
Do you go to weekly church programs?
I doubt because if you do, your flesh will be kept under as your spirit is being lifted with the word of God but it's obvious the only things you feed your soul with are thoughts of sex and wild imaginations of sex.
Watching sexual videos and all sorts.

If you want to get your mind off it, think and dwell more on spiritual things like the word of God. Gospel songs and if possible, fasting and prayers asking the holy spirit to help ( He can/will help you). That is if you're even a christian.

leody:

I don fúck now is going to over 1 yrs 7 months and I dont use to feel shit maybe because I day fin moni make op try fin something to do

okoroemeka:
why fight nature and hormones in a battle you cannot win,get a good size rubber dick or a vibrating rabbit and watch yourselves cum out of your frustrations and relieve the built up pressure in your system,if you like pray and go to deliverence you may just end up fucking your pastor.

Terror48:
Just think about buhari, your sex urge is gone

Blessedmercy8:
Do you go to weekly church programs?
I doubt because if you do, your flesh will be kept under as your spirit is being lifted with the word of God but it's obvious the only things you feed your soul with are thoughts of sex and wild imaginations of sex.
Watching sexual videos and all sorts.

If you want to get your mind off it, think and dwell more on spiritual things like the word of God. Gospel songs and if possible, fasting and prayers asking the holy spirit to help ( He can/will help you). That is if you're even a christian.

Cutehector:
abi.. Something like bank job. She will not think of sex for two yrs.

Starz825:
Anyway..your urge is normal....
there are abnormal urges actually...like the frequent urge for porn and masturbation I wrote about.

Yours is normal...

However, it's so wrong for partners to part way for long ..it's not healthy at all....it leaves both partners vulnerable...even your husband is feeling it hard where he is rn

I tell people..... financial frustration is a bit bearable than sexual frustration...(sincerely both experience ain't cool)

if you are frustrated financially...you can find a way through it... get a loan, meet friends and family, you know what I mean, you could rally round for funds....you sure gonna get some help somehow ...

But, you see
Once you are sexually frustrated (esp. in a marriage setting) ...you won't able to think straight or do anything else for long...you will just be nagging for no reason..

To cap it : nobody will be able to help you in this mess; not your family, not your homies...
it will be so tiring and since you are married, this will further leave you vulnerable (one of the reasons why people cheat on their spouse)

Infact it's a crazy experience for women even a crazier one for men....

Ok now my advice:

*you will have to talk to your hubby about it ...tell him how you feel...ask about how he feels (he should be feeling hot too)...share your sexual hassle together (Do this regularly)....it makes you feel strong and that you are not alone.

*If your husband is at a location where you can reach him (if you don't mind the distance and the expenses) , try as much as possible to visit him...

*If you are a Christian, you can pray and fast... listen to gospel music regularly...

* Try as much as possible to stay away from any sex videos...it will only add to your already brimmed urge..and that could knock you off..

* Pls don't cheat.... keep holding up...

Good luck and God help you

garriAndsugar:
Just borrow someone a huge amount of money.
All your sexual urge will die cos you will be trying to get your money back

SUXXI:
As a married person. Best is to take trasnport and meet your husband wherever he is located. Even if he is very busy,he MUST create out the time for you both to meet and do the needful.Marriage partners are not supposed to be separated for long so as not to give any room for temptation. Pick up your phone and call your husband for you both to meet immediately. If he is outside the country and money is available to book flight for you to meet him and spend quality time with him. Work is not all about money to take care of the family financially and be emotionally neglected and starved.It should be balanced.Bible said husband should pay his dues to his wife and vice versa.

Cutehector:
you, together with the 107 people that liked this post are the problem we have in nigeria.

cedricksly:
Y'all always try to spiritualise everything... Everything isn't not always spiritual, the body need what it needs, she is married and the body needs the husband stop trying to spiritualise everything, because you are already to slave to religion from your ultrances. hail mary

Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

Blessedmercy8:


Oh... I see. Then stop watching those contents cos you'll only be tormenting yourself with it as hubby is not around.

Go out often to either window shopping or a nice restaurant to have a nice treat and by the time you come back, you'll be too exhausted to think of sex. You'll just crash on the bed and sleep.

Avoid staying alone for so long. Just step out from time to time when you're idle.

The lord is your strength.

Blessedmercy8:


Go and help her na. I know that's what you're waiting to hear. An invite. Legelege.

Issybilla:

Thanks for this.
I am not exactly one that goes to church, not even on Sundays.
I used to work with a firm that allowed me leave home daily but I am now mostly home cos I work remotely.
You are right on the adult contents, I do watch once in a while, softcore basically, i only leave my mind to describe the rest.
Maybe if I have a distinct religion, I would consider words of Gods.

Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

Blessedmercy8:
1. Do you go to weekly church programs?
I doubt because if you do, your flesh will be kept under as your spirit is being lifted with the word of God but it's obvious the only things you feed your soul with are thoughts of sex and wild imaginations of sex. Watching sexual videos and all sorts.

2. If you want to get your mind off it, think and dwell more on spiritual things like the word of God. Gospel songs and if possible, fasting and prayers asking the holy spirit to help ( He can/will help you). That is if you're even a christian.

BECALMBECALM:
God bless you for wanting to get advice instead of disrespecting your husband. Now listen to my humble opinion:1. You must practice daily mortification. 2.Wake up very early every morning and have a very quite meditation on the word of God. please do not make noise just keep calm and have deep meditation. 3. Do NOT stay idle. Keep yourself very busy. 4.Mind the kind of friends you keep but online and offline.5.DO NOT GO CLOSE TO ANY MAN. Remember the easiest way to overcome evil is to avoid any occassion that will lead you to it. Finally, if you a catholic, pick up your rosary and cry to our lady. YOUR BODY IS THE PRIDE OF YOUR HUSBAND . PLEASE KEEP IT FOR HIM AND GOD.THOUSANDS OF MEN AND WOMEN ARE DOING IT. YOU CAN ALSO DO IT IF YOU ARE SERIOUS AND SINCERE.

LastProphet:
That's the secret, start going out, the urge is always in the house from my experience. Go out and then church where good worship songs are offered clears the mind. I don't go church too but that's my experience

Rrchrd:
[b]Go to weekly churches service like winners or salvation ministries and eat their communion & pray then thanks me later

Also channel your mind out of sex. [/b]Am a guy of 30years of age . no gf . I don't masturbate & am not a gay . But i've stay for long now without sex