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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Nobody: 2:44pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Treasure17: More to life than Marriage and Kids? If her own parents had this same challenge and were to follow this same piece of advice back then, how would they have given birth to her? What are the major purposes for being created then? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Templee333(m): 2:45pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Evolutionlove:hi 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Rubbiish(m): 2:45pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Magnumproperty:@bold to u she is happy, but deep down she is sad. The smile u are seeing on her face is just smokescreen. 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by ORLAHOLUWA(m): 2:47pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
If you could check that name they are all Igbo This can never in Yoruba or Hausa Cos una bride price for una girls too high same things goes to calabar too |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by denobaba: 2:52pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:I understand, but you need to be more pragmatic and deliberate towards relationship, if you are a lady past 25 already. Clearly, everything does not depend on you but recognise that your biological clock is ticking, which makes your chances slimmer, if at all. It's too much risk marrying a woman above 25. There are health concerns, reproductive issues, emotional baggages that could potentially crystallise from such choice. In general, we hope for the best and I know some ladies were just unlucky. However, outside of economic consideration, toxic feminism has made marriage such a bad deal for men. What we are likely to experience is high percentage of single motherhood, fatherless neighbourhoods, sexual promiscuity, mental depression among our women, increased ageing in women because of the mostly unguarded quest for financial agency. It's up to us to buck the trend by embracing our African culture or continue the plunge into the abyss by further importing western dysfunctionalities into our soceity. To women and men who genuinely seek life partners, I pray God to help you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by benqo01(m): 2:53pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Same way it is for men as well but it hit the ladies harder than men when it comes to marriage |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by benqo01(m): 2:55pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Who knows she must have turned down many suitors when she was very young....u can't tell of some ladies but they can be d cause of thier problem |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by TritNG: 2:56pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Kewtt:As a woman, if you're 30 and unmarried(never been married), there's a problem. For men, if you're 40 and unmarried(never been married), there's a problem 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by benqo01(m): 2:57pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Even people dey wey don marry for here dey shout marriage is not everything una well done stop that rubbish |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by TritNG: 2:58pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
ibechris:Correct guy. |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Stargurl20(f): 2:59pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
FrancisDiote:Lol... You guys contradict yourselves in most of the things you say. Not all ladies, but you generalize. It's not a crime for ladies to initiate, yet most guys take advantage of such ladies. It's okay if you don't like them and reject them. Guys get rejected as well, but most guys won't do that. They see her as vulnerable and take advantage of that. Tell me, if you were in women's shoes, would you take such risk? Pls, be sincere. At times, I just read comments silently and laugh at what most young guys comment which is opposing to the reality. I'm a young girl as well. I know they are ladies who are prideful, saucy, and ill-mannered. However, they are some chaste ladies who not just lucky. Plus, nature has really favored men in many aspect. That's the reality!, And that why I laugh when some women drag equality with men. We're unequals, whether any lady takes it or not. I'm a lady as well. Beyond greed for wealth, bad attitude, over selectiveness and all other negative things you guys think keep most of age ladies unmarried, there more nonnegative things hindering them from marriage. Thank you. 8 Likes |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Figger(m): 3:00pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Treasure17:it's not everyone that can handle loneliness. 2 Likes |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Stargurl20(f): 3:04pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
benqo01:It's Nigerian society I blame, sir. I know marriage is necessary. In Islam, when you get married, you're fulfilling half of your Deen. However, not all women will marry at the expected age due to certain circumstances. However, trust the society to be there to judge one and see one a bad omen. |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by egopersonified(f): 3:05pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Please if you are a lady approaching 40, no marriage or children, and you desire to have kids, please take in for any reasonable man you are dating seriously or casually. You can take care of the child yourself if the man is not interested. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by karkinase(m): 3:08pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Stargurl20:You a smart lady.. |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by scaryblake: 3:12pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
38yrs old never had a girlfriend no money good old church rat heading to 40 to answer the idom a fool at 40 2 Likes |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by abbey621(m): 3:14pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
denobaba: So let's see average woman gets admission to the university at age 20, thanks to ASUU strike and other roadblocks they use 5 or more years at the Uni and must serve one year before struggling for a job. So you mean to tell me that after all those struggles it should all end in the kitchen? Our African mentality has done more damage to women than anything feminism could accomplish. Years of backwardness has resulted in women living unfulfilled lives, parents at the mercy of their child's husband and so on. I can't even imagine I have a daughter spent millions raising her and one bloke insinuating that because she's 25 or older, she should settle down by force and forget her quest for financial agency. To that person, my only response is DEM DON WIPE YOU CORD FOR NECK BEFORE? 2 Likes
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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Nobody: 3:15pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: Leave the frustrated nonentity. Illiteracy has eaten deep into his thinking faculty, so he just goes about spewing trash without reasoning. |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by DryMouth: 3:17pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
meobizy:This is the problem with you ladies. You keep living in fantasy until reality hits you hard 2 Likes |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 3:17pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Brassers: You see these girls matter ehnnn ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by samonak(m): 3:19pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Katcall:
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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by JustforMen: 3:25pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
All MEN are scum! |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Nobody: 3:25pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Treasure17: Is this how you question your father ? 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Caseless: 3:25pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Treasure17:it begins to get lonesome when she hits 40. She needs someone to take care of her in her old age. Your logic can't solve that. That's why she's crying and not because of what society subjects her to. 5 Likes |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Katcall: 3:28pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
nedekid:you? |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by JustforMen: 3:29pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Don't waste your time telling her the truth1 As if what she believes in delusion is enough to change reality!! ... "Experience keeps a dear school, but fools will learn in no other." - Benjamin Franklin DryMouth: |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by press9jatv: 3:32pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Why the men aren’t interested in marrying the type of generation of ladies is because the set of ladies in this generation are not well cultured and trained. It’s so so unfortunate. It’s very rare you see a well cultured lady in this generation. They are scarce nii 2 Likes |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by JustforMen: 3:32pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
No it is not! Don't mind them, you hear!!! Last last, e go clear!! MufasaLion: |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Katcall: 3:32pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA:will you get married and have kids |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by passionberry(f): 3:33pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
ibechris: |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by JustforMen: 3:34pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
You get mindset so you no fit see road even dem dey hold ya hand pull!! Continue!! BRATISLAVA: |
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