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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by IgweBUIKE1(m): 6:01pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Faber:you be bad guy |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by MufasaLion: 6:02pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Veezy4u: Imagine how poor you are in typing/writing. Some of you should try and learn how to write properly! 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Nobody: 6:05pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: Yeah. You garrit ![]() ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by MufasaLion: 6:06pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Monaboo: Not many people understand that marriage and kids are not the ultimate goal or part of everyone's desire. I distance myself from people that sees kids and marriage as an achievement. I'm not even good with kids. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by MufasaLion: 6:12pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: Why pity them? Not all women wanna rush into marriage. It's even more wrong to be in a marriage because of societal expectations. People should let ladies be! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by AlphaTaikun: 6:22pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Faber:Lol... Not all single ladies in their 30s and 40s have battered VJays. Things didn't just pan out with the right guys due to the ladies' focus on career development, and for some, the men within their geographical locations were not quality men in terms of attributes like taking the initiative and being dynamic in business and career, etc. Some female bankers and lawyers fall into this category of above-30 single ladies. |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by abbey621(m): 6:23pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
denobaba: You're the one that failed to look at what I responded to, anybody that states that women over 25 are less desirable for marriage and should disregard their financial well being in favor of marriage is ignorant, that's all I'm saying! 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Rubbiish(m): 6:35pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Monaboo:U are not wired differently o We all passed through this stage, it is very sweet now because u are still young. Many of ur mates are still unmarried. Wait till u start approaching 40, seeing all ur friends kids all grown up & entering school, then it will start hitting u, believe me. U will not understand this till that time comes. This is where many ladies miss it, because they have a biological clock ticking which reduces their marital value as they age. If u are not a clergy like rev sis, always have marriage at the back of ur mind. U can always have career even at 50, but when u pass ur prime as a lady without a man, then it becomes a problem. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by denobaba: 6:36pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
abbey621:Multiple things can be true at once. Women can pursue their financial agency and still be married. These things are non-rival interests, I don't understand why you equate desire for marriage to giving up financial agency. And yes, even if you don't like to hear it, women above 25 are less desirable for marriage. That's pure fact and statistics. Facts don't care about your feelings! |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by karkinase(m): 6:41pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Guys lemme tell you something simps listen too.. . Except for spiritual husbands and ancestral curse, no good woman stays single till above 30, even if she stays in a rock. Men can sniff good women from thousand miles away. Once a woman is above 30 and unmarried it’s a huge red flag. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Carlyboi(m): 6:48pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
To all the single ladies or spinsters out there be it you’re in your 20s,30s or 40s or even 50s who seeks completeness in a marriage.I pray that the universe and the almighty God blesses you with suitable spouses and blissful marriages. I emphatize with you and I see you. I honestly don’t understand the fuss with marriages especially in Africa and particularly in Nigeria but I have come to realize it’s a socio-cultural thing and a tradition we hold dearly in this part of the Sahara and it has been elevated in to the hallowed chambers of our existence and as such I don’t think we can wean ourselves of it anytime soon nor do I see a paradigm shift in the foreseeable future and this doesn’t even exclude men an unmarried man in his 30s and 40s is seen under some afflicted microscopic lenses and sometimes seems as irresponsible,unproductive,immature or reckless so it’s a phenomenon that affects both genders,females are just more on the receiving end due to biological reasons and some other factors. I,for one don’t believe “ marriage “ is the numero Uno as far as leading a purposeful,fulfilling,happy and completing life is concerned acts like “ marriage “ should simply be like additives more of a means not an end to any individual’s happiness irrespective of the gender.So find other things that make you happy and get religiously attached to them especially if marriage isn’t happening yet for you!for someone like me I derive joy in the simplest things of life and when the time for me to get married comes it’s simply gonna be extra “ jara “ my true happiness and existence won’t and can’t be defined by marriage.This my dear is the perfect way to live and to explore this particular life you’ve get well! 2 Likes |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Nobody: 6:57pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by GoodIsGod: 6:59pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: A Christian site owner would have had checks on people's comments. This is why a forum like this owned by a Christian might not have such a huge crowd. If I were the owner, there are lots of these guys I would create kindergarten section for. Silly trolls would find themselves there and won't be able to comment in the main section. I have seen people troll a very popular girl on Nairaland till she stopped using her moniker in the travel section. Although they claimed she was a troll herself. Since Nairaland is owned by an atheist, any comment goes. Why should anyone mock anyone because they are yet to marry at 40 when they are supposed to rather sympathize with such. I have seen people on Nairaland mock Banky West and wife for having no child many times in past. Why should that be? Can a sane person do that? It is well my sister, stay blessed. 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by abbey621(m): 7:02pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
denobaba: Again read what I responded to, until you do that you can't understand, read man, READ and if you can't GTFO! |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Cromagnon: 7:04pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
libertyfather:you realise 80% of criminals are from single mums who can't cover all aspects alone? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Paulianfa(m): 7:16pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Una never see something, shea una dey select? Only ready made man una dey find not whom to build together. |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Medianna(f): 7:16pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
karkinase:this is a very gigantic lie!! Because you're a good woman! So every jack, dick and harry that comes across your way, you'll just say yes?? It mean the lady doesn't know her worth. 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by OperationalVehi: 7:17pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Paulianfa(m): 7:18pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Medianna: Keep on select nah |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Basiljoe: 7:21pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Interesting thread. |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Medianna(f): 7:21pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Paulianfa:Who is talking about selection here. ![]() If a good woman see the man that is slapping her every morning and he wants yo marry her. She should just say yea, because he is the only man on earth abi? |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by faithfull18(f): 7:25pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
karkinase:Hahahaha, this is how most of you miss out on the best partners with your mindset. Are you aware that just the way you think ladies go for rich guys, the same applies to guys, I doubt you are. If the lady never meets a guy she shares same convictions/value system with due to location or other factors nko Genotype incompatibility issues nko Then, there are those who cherish peace of mind as the men want peace too. There are those who want virgin men too as men want virgins and you know how loose your gender is even when married. Not all Ladies can cope with being married to a man who sleeps with anything in skirt in the name of marriage. There are those who really don't want to be married if there was no societal pressure. So you expect ladies to marry rubbish just because they are growing older See, start seeing beyond your nose, how many people have you met in your lifetime?? |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Suspect33(m): 7:37pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26:god abeg ooo ![]() ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by kay9(m): 7:40pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Monaboo: Wait till 40. It hits differently then, when one mostly likely would have achieved the main "bullet points" of one's career goals. And then one looks around and slowly starts wondering what all that stress was for. No gender escapes this mid-life crisis, but in truth it does hit women worse than men. You seem like a smart woman; you know what to do. 2 Likes |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by ifyemex(m): 7:43pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
captainking: Lol, I just did that |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by LOVEGINO(m): 7:45pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Treasure17:she no get problem. 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Estellie: 7:50pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
They will site the celebrities that they think are suffering depression cause they aren’t married but won’t site the ones that have died lately due to domestic violence and abuse in marriage. Abi nor be your mate die yesterday because of marriage wahala? Y’all prioritize that institution too much. Change is constant, it worked for our fathers but it’s not working for us. Live your life and be happy. Things ain’t the way they use to be. Arggghhh! |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Estellie: 7:53pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
kay9:Like there aren’t women who became widows in their twenties and thirties?? There’s more to life please |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by emmanuelbrown26: 7:55pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA:When a child receives a haircut, the shape of his head becomes obvious. D gods are wise son |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by emmanuelbrown26: 7:56pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Suspect33:I'm only a humble servant and I stand by d truth, so help me Jah |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by emmanuelbrown26: 7:58pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
MALIGNANTGuest:May loneliness send them back to their ancestors, no room for mercy |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by emmanuelbrown26: 8:00pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
kay29000:40 year old woman has nothing, absolutely nothing to bring again na 1 Like |
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