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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Hassanmaye(m): 8:24am On Oct 16, 2022
Nonexisting1:
If you check well now, the same person will be here in nairaland claiming to be feminist and shouting men are scum. Foolish gender.
. haha
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Hassanmaye(m): 8:29am On Oct 16, 2022
Wizywiz:
my only talk with them na just greetings ooo grin no friendly whatever...I dey my lane bro..I avoid them...some don dey gossip say I fit be homo because woman no dey come my house.., I just no want any entanglement with any woman...I dey flee from dem
Lol May be they have shown you shege, me some of my girls have married but they are distrubing me, I totally block them I don't do married women

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Hassanmaye(m): 8:33am On Oct 16, 2022
womenareapezz:
NAIJA women with entitlement mentality and "I want a 6feet tall, handsome and God fearing man with 6 figure bank account " grin
When them themselves are useless piece of shiit who uses multiple dicccks to brush their mouths undecided

These days I'm even afraid to even talk to Nigeria girls because their mouths will be hozzing cums, not talkless of kissing those gorillas undecided

I only pity those SIMPs who give those female gorillas heads angry
Who the fvck will even go down on those dirty smelly black gorillas angry

When those animals are getting old from 26-30yrs that's when you will seeing them retiring from Their hook-up jobs just to settled down with a God fearing man! Hence becoming Saint and going to church undecided

Did ya fvcking ediots thinks God is stupid? angry
He was there watching you using diiccks to brush your mouths angry
Why then will he now say "hay my daughter I have found you the perfect man for you to destroy" after you have already damaged yourself during your youthful stupidity angry

Life always get his way of repaying you useless piece of shiit called naija women undecided

If things haven't going Their way you will now see them in full mode depression forming under an umbrella called feminist angry
Indeed women have shown you shege
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Wizywiz(m): 8:35am On Oct 16, 2022
Hassanmaye:

Lol May be they have shown you shege, me some of my girls have married but they are distrubing me, I totally block them I don't do married women
bro the truth is I ve always been the one doing the dumping then...I ve never been dumped by a woman before..including my ex-wife)am the ladies man like they say I know how to pamper, respect, cherish and make Dem feel lovedgrin...like in ur case I have many of Dem married too that still want to get close but I can't do married or even single because I feel for now I don't want any relationship or intimacy with any of them...there comes a time in a man's life when certain things don't matter again, so for now women and relationship to me doesn't matter for now.( So many disloyal, promiscuous, rude, and uncorth ladies out there) need to rearrange and restructure my life grin with no distractions

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Hassanmaye(m): 8:37am On Oct 16, 2022
atinga1:
No one should pity any of these ladies.
My friend decided to marry one in his office, because he felt she was mature and won't act like the indomie generation kids.
The lady is currently showing him pepper.
The Idiot keeps saying she should have waited a little more before getting married(she was 34yrs old when she got married).
Oya, leave the marriage kwanu, so the guy can get married to another lady, the fool refuses.
He married a newspaper
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Hassanmaye(m): 8:40am On Oct 16, 2022
Brassers:
Na their yanga still big pass o


My former bitch was just cruising in her 27... I told her she won't get any easier relationship if I dropped her with her annoying character, she thought I was joking... I left her, she thought I would miss her lol... She called me after one week to act as if nothing happened and started forming special adviser.. I just tell am say "what ur business with my life ?" Shame won kill d bascard... Na she hang up

Till now, she go call tire... I dey pray make she marry sha cos d guy wey go marry am ehn, I go clap for d guy.

D gal na all shades of ASHAWO AND ANY CHARACTER COMBINE
Please pity her bro she has learned
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Backpedal: 8:40am On Oct 16, 2022
Hassanmaye:

Indeed women have shown you shege
Serious shege

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Nobody: 8:47am On Oct 16, 2022
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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by lendahand(m): 9:02am On Oct 16, 2022
ibechris:
Same way u have lazy men in their fathers house at the age of 40 above doing nothing except gambling and doing cults.

I know some people are angry with me for saying this. Go to Lagos and see them loitering the street like bees,no work,no trade just fooling around the area.

Most of them are landlords children...waiting for their fathers to die just to share one room each.

Some of them are here typing rubbish and calling ladies evening newspaper as if they themselves are brand new books.


they are plenty in surulere

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by rikithor(m): 9:21am On Oct 16, 2022
These creatures don tire with pretence?
They are in need , when opportunities present itself,they will be doing hide and seek,wanting to impress they are helping the husband to be

Some male marriage managers compound their true conditions by agreeing to the unrealistic pictures of "who the man in the house should be,seen and regarded"?

"Your desires shall be upon your husband,"
says book of Genesis 3

,Yet these creatures will still blindly argue past knowledge.

My contribution to these fellas-their feminists wing,the lezies arm,the Only women/girl child empowerment mood lightening party and all those kind things is
Madam carry your load,no be we dey do you,face front!

......
Learn how to drive manual and automatic cars professionally and process driving license and vehicle papers in a short time.
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Rotentik19: 10:10am On Oct 16, 2022
BRATISLAVA:


Wait for them to tell you how her private part is slackened, and she's greedy, and she's looking for a dark, handsome, 6ft man with a billion dollars (like there are any in Nigeria to begin with), how she rejected all her suitors and is arrogant, how she was 20 and running them in circles, how the problem lies with her at her age, how she's got a hellish behavior, how she's not actually a virgin. grin

It is never the fault of the men she met.

I seriously pity any woman above 35 who is unmarried. The mocking and pressure must be intense on her. Imagine this being a forum of over 1M people, supposedly international, and the garbage that daily spills fourth about women is still unchecked. This place is 50 years behind in reasoning.
Guy you do have a point truly...If a person doesn't get married on time...two things are involved; it's either your fault or not your fault...if for instance, a man is delayed in marriage, it is most likely his fault & men are not afraid to own up. However what other guys on this thread are trying to tell u is that more often than not, women are the architect of their own misfortune. We know that there are factors beyond our control as humans, but even @ that, there are certain things we can avoid. I've witnessed ladies on a wheelchair being proposed to(God is my witness) so my conclusion is that; no matter how a lady looks or how bad u think her character is, there will be someone who desires her ! so if a lady of 30 & above is unmarried, she probably had passed opportunities unknowingly. Peace !

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by michaelwestern(m): 11:50am On Oct 16, 2022
Monaboo:


I agree with you but like I said, I think I'm wired differently. I feel people want different things in life. Same as me. I won't say because everyone is getting married or thinking about marriage then I will.

I believe that our purpose here on earth is different and when you find your purpose on earth, every other thing would fall into place.

Some people's purpose on earth is to get married and answer MADAM and have kids.

Some are married for years yet NO KIDS. Do u think they are happy in marriage?

Let me not go deep because this matter is deeper than the world sees it.

I like your comments. God has to be everything for you in life for you be to be happy and fulfilled. Can we communicate? Just friendship.
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Agbebakun22: 11:50am On Oct 16, 2022
Katcall:
dont you want to be a responsible man?
So not getting married make a man irresponsible.
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by blueAgent(m): 12:43pm On Oct 16, 2022
jaxxy:
by 30 years a lady should be worried if she cares to get married. Anybody telling u not to be worried is either fooling or just telling u to be positive.

Being positive is totally fine bt hope is not a strategy.

u have to check the path u are on and see if u are on the right track, doing the right things and making the right choices.

So much sense.

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Veezy4u(m): 12:50pm On Oct 16, 2022
MufasaLion:


Imagine how poor you are in typing/writing. Some of you should try and learn how to write properly!
how do you mean sir?
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by BRATISLAVA: 1:33pm On Oct 16, 2022
Rotentik19:
Guy you do have a point truly...If a person doesn't get married on time...two things are involved; it's either your fault or not your fault...if for instance, a man is delayed in marriage, it is most likely his fault & men are not afraid to own up. However what other guys on this thread are trying to tell u is that more often than not, women are the architect of their own misfortune. We know that there are factors beyond our control as humans, but even @ that, there are certain things we can avoid. I've witnessed ladies on a wheelchair being proposed to(God is my witness) so my conclusion is that; no matter how a lady looks or how bad u think her character is, there will be someone who desires her ! so if a lady of 30 & above is unmarried, she probably had passed opportunities unknowingly. Peace !

Nice contribution, but on this same thread, we've seen how men break up with these women after years, or refuse to marry them because they are virgins, or because they clocked 30 while waiting for the relationship to progress, or whatever other picky reasons men have instituted for women. If they weren't faithful all those years, the same men would still blame and condemn them as unfaithful. But now that the men didn't marry them after their faithfulness, it is still her fault.

If a lady above 30 is unmarried it isn't because she passed opportunities, rather everybody has their own time for things, and her opportunity is still upcoming. Believe it or not, opportunity is not time. She may simply be a victim of a man who was never serious about her or men who believe in using women for fun. There's no law for marriage under 30 if you're a woman the way unmarried men on this thread are claiming.

Men are afraid to own up, and instead pick on women and come up with the usual excuse of money not being available for marriage, when the fault lies with them. Plus, a lot of old, unmarried men aren't berated as much, though they equally should be looked at with such condemnation if they aren't married at 30.

Why? It is only on Nigeria that men get as old as 30 and aren't married and console themselves that men don't get old. Boys of 18 are getting married and handling family responsibilities worldwide,but Nigerian men will give excuses. If men at 30 years of age aren't married in Nigeria, how can women of 30 be married? And if they aren't married, it is because they passed up opportunities, too.
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by blueAgent(m): 5:30pm On Oct 16, 2022
womenareapezz:
we all know she slept in the mountains for 5days with one native doctor undecided

Amen.
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by blueAgent(m): 6:39pm On Oct 16, 2022
karkinase:

From observation, any unmarried lady above 30 is vile, wicked and pretentious human.

You are foolish for making such stupid assumptions.

I guess you are a kid with keyboard who barely understands how life works.
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by zionzoe(m): 7:36pm On Oct 16, 2022
Monaboo:


I totally disagree. Your spouse are not always amongst your circle of friends.

It is a good way to start...

A stranger must stil enter the friend zone for things to move on.

BEFRIEND the person sha.
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by karkinase(m): 8:14pm On Oct 16, 2022
blueAgent:


You are foolish for making such stupid assumptions.

I guess you are a kid with keyboard who barely understands how life works.
You are stupid because I didn’t mention you.. simp idiot.
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by blueAgent(m): 9:26pm On Oct 16, 2022
karkinase:

You are stupid because I didn’t mention you.. simp idiot.

I Don't know why narialand does not have age verification as part of its registration, to weed out kids like you.

See fool calling me Simp, you cannot lace my shoe when it comes to relationship or in any capacity .
Like i said before you are just a kid punching above your his mental ability.

Go and give that phone back to your Mom.

Idiot.
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Nobody: 9:35pm On Oct 16, 2022
seanwilliam:
just shut up and face the reality!
Stop sounding woke to garner likes !
As if you will advise any of your family member to marry a 40 years old lady . Rubbish ..

Anywhere in the world, at 40 years , a man has higher chances of getting married to his spec than a woman .. infact a rich man at 40 has so many options, Even if he’s poor, he still has higher chances of getting married than a poor 40 years old woman . If worst come shove, the man will go to the north or go the remotest village to pick young innocent gele.

Oga rest .

Thank you for putting that ugly bittered overgrown leftover expired evening newspaper exactly where the she belongs..
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by prettysassygirl(f): 10:16pm On Oct 16, 2022
There is more to life than marriage. The married cry even more than the singles.
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Toks2008(m): 2:43am On Oct 17, 2022
SMH!

Should I tell her?

If only she knows...

Please ladies it's better to remain single forever and be happy o... Hmmmm! I won't say more than this before some people start quoting me out of context.
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Nobody: 6:06am On Oct 17, 2022
Rotentik19:
Guy you do have a point truly...If a person doesn't get married on time...two things are involved; it's either your fault or not your fault...if for instance, a man is delayed in marriage, it is most likely his fault & men are not afraid to own up. However what other guys on this thread are trying to tell u is that more often than not, women are the architect of their own misfortune. We know that there are factors beyond our control as humans, but even @ that, there are certain things we can avoid. I've witnessed ladies on a wheelchair being proposed to(God is my witness) so my conclusion is that; no matter how a lady looks or how bad u think her character is, there will be someone who desires her ! so if a lady of 30 & above is unmarried, she probably had passed opportunities unknowingly. Peace !

1. It is possible for someone to be 30 and not be lucky to meet a man who is fit to be an husband, but not possible for someone 40 & above not to have found such a man. The reason is simple, between 25 - 30 is just 5 years, this period is really short to find someone suitable if you're not pro-actively trying to settle down all the time.

2. Ambition is an enemy of marriage, the more ambitious you are, the less likely you're interested in getting married. The irony of it is that, people often complain that their partners aren't ambitious enough. The real question is, "If you Jam ambitious person, you go fit handle am"?

The overall reality is that time is short for women, full stop.
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Threesha(f): 9:45pm On Oct 17, 2022
cheesy
bukatyne:


Hahahahahaha

This sounds so funny!
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by olamilekan9(m): 3:41am On Oct 19, 2022
Treasure17:
There's more to life than marriage and kids. Why subjecting yourself to unecessary tears, pressure and sorrow cause you ain't married? Common.

Modified. To those quoting me with unecessary takes. Hope you understand now?

The truth is that most humans find their purpose in what other people are pursuing.

You make your assertions there because you've seen other purposes for living. Some people don't have the capacity to do that. So if they don't get married, have kids and money, they'll never feel fulfilled - Nosayer
even if you Can’t get married at least have a child oooooooooooooo
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Dongallant: 5:34am On Oct 19, 2022
Katcall:
my fùckmate is 31. She wishes i marry her one day. I've told her never unless you want us to stop fùcking
You must marry her o! Ask her to see me: I go give her one strong charm she go use to hold you till marriage.
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Dongallant: 6:00am On Oct 19, 2022
BRATISLAVA:


Nice contribution, but on this same thread, we've seen how men break up with these women after years, or refuse to marry them because they are virgins, or because they clocked 30 while waiting for the relationship to progress, or whatever other picky reasons men have instituted for women. If they weren't faithful all those years, the same men would still blame and condemn them as unfaithful. But now that the men didn't marry them after their faithfulness, it is still her fault.

If a lady above 30 is unmarried it isn't because she passed opportunities, rather everybody has their own time for things, and her opportunity is still upcoming. Believe it or not, opportunity is not time. She may simply be a victim of a man who was never serious about her or men who believe in using women for fun. There's no law for marriage under 30 if you're a woman the way unmarried men on this thread are claiming.

Men are afraid to own up, and instead pick on women and come up with the usual excuse of money not being available for marriage, when the fault lies with them. Plus, a lot of old, unmarried men aren't berated as much, though they equally should be looked at with such condemnation if they aren't married at 30.

Why? It is only on Nigeria that men get as old as 30 and aren't married and console themselves that men don't get old. Boys of 18 are getting married and handling family responsibilities worldwide,but Nigerian men will give excuses. If men at 30 years of age aren't married in Nigeria, how can women of 30 be married? And if they aren't married, it is because they passed up opportunities, too.
You're very correct: Whatever is good for the goose is also good for the gander.
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Treasure17(m): 8:47am On Oct 19, 2022
olamilekan9:
even if you Can’t get married at least have a child oooooooooooooo
Of course.
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Nocare77: 10:23am On Oct 28, 2022
OperationalVehi:
can I send a. Pm
No qualms

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