siofra:
90% of Nigerian men type like this and I can't stand it.

It's annoying, reading chats like this.

While 97% of Nigerian women reply with "hmm, kk, sowi dear, okay ooo and lolzz". Seems like a match made in heaven to me

Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?

How will you have peace of mind when your wife can neither read nor write? How will she administer drug to your children when you're not around and u will be at peace? You can't communicate through message. Mba!

gypsey:
Your kids can learn in school, your wife is not their teacher if that is what you mean, I have 2 neigbours one is Chinese the other is Indian both cannot speak, English, write or read, their kids from the ages 22 to 25 runs their kebab shop and chinese restuarants.

Even their 6 and 10 years olds translates, reads and write for them on their behalves.


So what is the big deal?

Really?

Yes I can, I will just end up teaching her and enrolling her in private lessons. Illiteracy no be crime.

peacettw:


Really?

Yes! What one needs is a good wife..

Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?

Marriage is mix of ignorance and wisdom. Anything lacking in both will always be a fighting ground. Her ignorance might make her look controllable. But remember marriage is a ground for power supremacy. If the girl act calm and innocent due to her level of education, remember that she won't be upgrading as marriage responsibility comes, what she know now or zeal to learn now will be her benchmark for the future . And also remember, she will still demand same respect and authority as one that is fully educated for the sake she is your wife.
So think future and ask yourself. Which kind of brain and mother do you want for your children Or ask yourself what exactly do I want from her ?

ebenmosi360:
Yes I can, I will just end up teaching her and enrolling her in private lessons. Illiteracy no be crime.

Correct.

anungangampu:

Marriage is mix of ignorance and wisdom. Anything lacking in both will always be a fighting ground. Her ignorance might make her look controllable. But remember marriage is a ground for power supremacy. If the girl act calm and innocent due to her level of education, remember that she won't be upgrading as marriage responsibility comes, what she know now or zeal to learn now will be her benchmark for the future . And also remember, she will still demand same respect and authority as one that is fully educated for the sake she is your wife.
So think future and ask yourself. Which kind of brain and mother do you want for your children Or ask yourself what exactly do I want from her ?

With all these complications and difficulties who da hell needs marriage? dammm! it sounds like heartache.

culf:
Who read or write help, peace of mind is the main thing, later you can enrol her in an adult school, single


Some people that cannot write nor read are more accountable and industrious than others that can.

Are u married

siofra:
90% of Nigerian men type like this and I can't stand it.

It's annoying, reading chats like this.

then ur not ready to be taken. Abi essay u dey marriage to write.??

Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?

peace of mind kee you there

How can you be accountable when you cannot read??
When you cannot read,you cannot understand,so how would you be accountable??


You self reason am..

culf:
Who read or write help, peace of mind is the main thing, later you can enrol her in an adult school, single


Some people that cannot write nor read are more accountable and industrious than others that can.

gypsey:
Yes! What one needs is a good wife..

Ok then. Whatever floats your boat

I can never trade peace of mind for anything not even for ability to write it read.
Yes I can Marry a woman who can't read or write BUT GIVES ME PEACE OF MIND.

Slynation:
Yea, you know you won't blame parents of the 80's and below because schooling opportunities wasn't in vogue by then, I remember my dad saying they used to trek distance from home just to attend classes in the 60's and at the end parents can only managed to sponsor one of there sons in higher institution while the ladies especially stay at home...But the world has evolved and things are no longer like that...

Exactly, so marrying someone that cannot read or write in this century is suicidal. there are still a couple of good educated house wife material women out there, only problem is they might not be good looking but give peace of mind

Investing or not I can't....

Akinsete19:
Yes, I will invest in the person

Peace of mind first then later I can enroll her for lesson to learn how to read and write. Nor be to marry over sabi wife who knows how to read and write and will be ditching out loads of unrest at home. No no no......

I can't marry any woman who doesn't know how to read or write.

BuyDomain:


Not at the moment sir but there are other cars you can go for

ur WhatsApp

i am a fan of intellect. i might be too drained having to lower my IQ in the name of love...!

Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?

The question is 4 married people. 4 me I can marry . As far as I have peace . Thank God 4 Google, I will teach her at home. As far as she is not a va. G I. N

No. Because I'm not a beta male suffering from Savior schema, oneitis or monogamy-as-a-Goal mindset, even if she is the daughter of King Charles of England, I won't "think" of marrying her except she passes certain criteria, i mean extraordinary impossible criterias.

Marriage is one of the single worst decisions a modern man can make, talkless of settling and committing (for a lifetime) to less.

All this talk of peace of mind is founded by betas with weak frame who struggle for negotiated intimacy with women.

Genuine desire cannot be negotiated. Once there's Genuine desire, peace of mind and other advantages follow automatically, it doesn't matter if she's an illiterate, stripper or a medical doctor.

Overtly communicating a desire for reciprocal desire creates obligation, and sometimes even ultimatums. Genuine desire is something a person must come to – or be led to – of their own volition.
You can force a woman by threat to comply with behaving in a desired manner, but you cannot make her want to behave that way. A prostitute will Bleep you for an exchange, it doesn’t mean she wants to.
Whether in a monogamous marriage, LTR or a one night stand (ONS), strive for genuine desire in your relationships.
Half of the battle is knowing you want to be with a woman who wants to please you, not one who feels obligated to. – THE RATIONAL MALE

How can i have peace of mind knowin she can't write peace of mind

ThePublicEnemy:
Go for peace of mind

Yeah, I can't trade that for anything bro.

That is one factor that is currently placing her above other ladies in the race to be my life partner.
I call it a race because I have few good females around me, that I need to apply extra wisdom when it comes to choosing one out of them and discarding others.

StarGra:
How can you be accountable when you cannot read??
When you cannot read,you cannot understand,so how would you be accountable??


You self reason am..

accountability its not by writing, you can always get someone to write for you. Some big Igbo guys can not read nor write, their Secretary does that but Oga have shops not just one, doing incredibly well.
Some of them, their brain no be hear ooo

thuxzwda1:


Are u married

Does it matter?

Habeyy:
Sense will not kill you bro

Thank you my brother!

OrdinaryNigeria:


Thank you jare.

you're welcome

there are of women , who cant read or write gives peace, why do you need uneducated people marriage last longer , reading and writing has nothing to do with peace of mind

VictorUSA:
How can someone who cannot read and write give you peace of mind in this 21st century?

why before the British came , why did the uneducated people not poison our forefather

Desusi:
The evil of illiteracy is horrific. To start with, illiterate could be very stupid, could poison you innocently, could disgrace you unknowingly moreover, she can lead to your death. Don't try it.

Mine can't read nor write and doesn't give me rest of mind, right now he has even sent me packing am in my mum's place with five kids.
I regret ever knowing him cos while I was pregnant with my twins he made me to resign from my work promising me he is going to open a shop for me. Now he has sent me packing with no hope just because he want to marry another wife. I will never trust anybody in this life again

Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?

Sure, nobody learnt how to read and write from the womb. If you love her, you can enroll her