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A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by guobe: 7:36pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
A trend is now occurring in our society with most marriages crashing within 2 to 3 months of getting married. All what most young couples care about is getting married but not staying married. They go about sharing asoebis and spending millions of naira to get married but will quickly run away from the marriage within a twinkle of an eye. Most of the girls still have someone that they love more but choose to marry the guy that is ready to get married immediately. Most guys get their fingers burnt out of desperation to just get married without properly dating. I know a recent case study now as the new wife just left him as he complained to me that the wife was picking the calls of her ex boyfriend in their matrimonial home. He said she even goes to visit her ex when he is at work. It is such a shame what marriage is turning to nowadays. 210 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Nonexisting1: 7:41pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
Why wouldn't marriages crash when women go into them for what they can get and not what they will give. You can't withdraw money from back if you don't first make a deposit. 281 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by NotBeenPaid: 7:45pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
Lust and peer pressure. Marriage is for matured minds. 182 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by guobe: 7:45pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
Nonexisting1:If they had dated properly I think that won't have arose as they already know themselves properly. 29 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Romanoff(f): 7:58pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
A lot of people don't know what marriage is about. Societal pressure force people who know next to nothing about marriage to marry. Some men think it's only to provide, have sex and have a woman to birth and raise kids that marriage is all about. Many women get married just to be Mrs. No preparation for the journey ahead. I remember before I got married, I attended marriage seminar, read books, listened to messages from seasoned counsellors like Bimbo Odukoya, marriage counsellors from my church and pastors whose marriages I admire. These days, how many young people will even read books about marriage and it's preparation or listen to messages or go to seminars for intending couples? 234 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by guobe: 7:59pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
NotBeenPaid:They all want to get married as their friends are getting married.They don't even care if the guy they are getting married to is a ritualistic as long as he can fund the marriage occasion they are ready. 80 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by guobe: 8:00pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
Romanoff:absolutely spot on .you are right. 44 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Nonexisting1: 8:05pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
guobe:It's not about dating. I have seen people that dated 5yrs and their marriage still crashed. Men today marry for nyash and breast and women marry for comfort and to form for their friends with few marrying to escape their family's pressure and problems. I have said it, I can not marry in this world, maybe in the next. I have met so many women and I am yet to see one that knows the true meaning of marriage. Even me, I'm not ready for the bullshit. My father will always say that if a man is not ready to raise an infant ekuke dog, he should never talk about marriage and my mother will add that if a woman is not ready to be a mother to a grown idiot, she should never think of marriage. 225 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by marlow1962(m): 8:08pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
Many things 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by browndre: 8:12pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
You marry slay queen your marriage lasted for 3 months and you say your marriage no long. Tell me, how many years you want a slay queen to spend with you in your marriage? 135 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by guobe: 8:23pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
Nonexisting1:lol that is serious o 15 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by guobe: 8:24pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
browndre:slay Queens everywhere and marrying beauty who turns the marriage to ugly. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Sammy07: 8:28pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
Romanoff: Epeleeee, me to go listen to Don Moen, Micheal smith before I get married ![]() 10 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by guobe: 8:31pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
Sammy07:it helps alot in marriages.very essential.No one is all knowing and experience is certainly the best teacher. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Sammy07: 8:36pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
guobe: Noted sir ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Tallesty1(m): 8:38pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
Kids are marrying kids and giving birth to kids, it will only get worse. 83 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by guobe: 8:40pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
Tallesty1:you gerrit.real kids 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by guobe: 8:42pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
If you have ever gotten married you will know that the first few months of the marriage is full of temptations.Your ability to withstand the pressure of the first few months makes you a man. 68 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by guobe: 9:14pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
JustStupidity:ah for real.Not all women 2 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Nonexisting1: 9:51pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
browndre:Funny thing is that experienced oloshos and retired slay queens will give you more peace in marriage now than all these small girls that scream men are scum in the comfort of their university hostels. They have seen it all, done it all and there's nothing to prove again. But make sure they are actually retired and tired because some of them retire because of something. If they retire because breast done fall and they marry rich man who give them money for breast upliftment surgery, the olosho in them will be back. 96 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by jeromestarks: 10:53pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
Why won't it crash when you be seeing red flags waving at you like Russian banner but you will still marry her. Find a virgin and see how your marriage will last longer than a millennia. 45 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by techWriter1: 11:13pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
longing and peer stress |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by femo86(m): 12:50am On Nov 03, 2022 |
jeromestarks: ![]() ![]() Let me know If you don see one abeg 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by ednut1(m): 1:16am On Nov 03, 2022 |
End times |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by BigYash: 3:11am On Nov 03, 2022 |
browndre:You marry a hookup bitch,and the marriage last 2weeks,he still dey complain say e no last.. ![]() 24 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by BigYash: 3:14am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Nonexisting1:They are all the same.. If she is not virgin or her body count pass 2.. Just know that you are investing in what is not sure.. BigRisk 18 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Corridon: 4:43am On Nov 03, 2022 |
One of my guys recently separated from his wife of two months after spending millions during wedding. 55 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Fiscus105(m): 4:47am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Number one problem is that, people want to marry and still want to enjoy the *luxury" freedom of single. (Some guys married,yet still want to be sleeping with different girls like single, meanwhile, no room available in his house to carry them to sex again and to get hotel, it will take additional spending, before you know it will turn it to fight, and for girls, they married yet still want attention/chatting with exes and other guys, they still dressing like harlot which can make them fall for another guys). Number two problem is finances, marriage comes with whole lot of responsibilities. (Money you spend during single, will now multiple and to carry on, it's big problem) 73 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by guobe: 5:03am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Fiscus105: |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by guobe: 5:03am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Corridon:alot of marriages are scattering early 6 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by doctore212(m): 6:18am On Nov 03, 2022 |
For me na olosho wey dey my street me I dey reason to marry. Atleast she dey give me free nacks when I no get money 6 Likes 1 Share |
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