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Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Romanoff(f): 11:13am On Nov 03, 2022 |
ugodson: Book reading and listening to counselling coaches isn't only for the women but for everyone. It help you know the kind of people to not marry, what to expect in marriage(harsh realities of marriage). 3 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Basiljoe: 11:14am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Lol. I no get strength today. |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Aguiyimba(m): 11:15am On Nov 03, 2022 |
No marriage can stand without God's foundation. Know this and know peace 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Elvis2kay: 11:16am On Nov 03, 2022 |
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Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Nobody: 11:17am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Romanoff: No amount of counselling, seminar, in fact nothing can prepare one for what lies ahead in marriage, I and hubby didn't do anything like that because we felt it is a waste of time yet we are 5 years strong, so it is not about counselling cos when challenges come it will still be like shock to you, we just have to pray for the patience and ability to absorb and overcome the shock and challenges when it shows its ugly head, that all. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Lama70(m): 11:17am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Some things can't even be explained anymore. No regards for the institution of marriage again. A neighbour just came back from work to discover that the woman that they've been together for nearly four years has run to meet her former lover of almost 13 years ago with their baby. She ran with LAPO money and other contributions she got for her business. Too loud everywhere now.. 2 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Mathain19(m): 11:17am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Is like dangote cement is not solid enough to hold this crashing marriages... This is painful, After taking loan to get lavishing wedding ceremony to impress my village people... ... Who con do us like this? |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Salvation88: 11:19am On Nov 03, 2022 |
It is well |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Trottle: 11:20am On Nov 03, 2022 |
The trend is very worrying to be sincere. However, when we choose to discard the old-age wisdom of doing in-depth background check and ensuring the necessary virtues and qualities are in place, and 'true' love/lost is not the main motivation to marry this is what we'll keep getting. As youths we should also stop marrying to 'pepper' anybody, you'll be doing your mental health a disservice and also putting undue stress in your nascent marriage because you'll keep have to try to keep measuring up and ensure that the false picture you painted is not tainted. Marriage is not a 100x100 metres relay race, you don't have to rush or go into it for flimsy reasons. Returning to the old (gold) standard will reverse this madness. CC: MalignantGuest 4 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Romanoff(f): 11:21am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Jovialjune1: I am not saying all the things I listed makes a happy home but I'm saying it prepares you for some harsh realities you'd meet in marriage. Even the praying for patience and ability to over come challenges, you'd learn from what I listed up there. Some marriage have packed up over the slightest issues and you'd just ask yourself "did they think marriage is sugar, spice and everything nice"? It's best to do all these things I mentioned and not need it than to get into marriage and let the devil spoil your union over a challenge that could have been surmounted. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Womanizer(m): 11:23am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Romanoff: You mean you're married?! ![]() You're on my radar o ![]() |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by BigMamaNaija: 11:23am On Nov 03, 2022 |
guobe: Our forefathers and foremothers hardly dated or did it decently and had lower breakups compared to what we have these days. This new pattern of 'dating' that encourages young people to taste and taste and taste different people and then go into marriage with numerous body counts; how can they stick with one person for the rest of their lives? Na wa oh. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Romanoff(f): 11:23am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Womanizer: Eya. |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by DaveHarry(m): 11:24am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Just like on 22 Oct 22 wen I attended my cousin wedding at jubilee event center; after I enta d hall, just say make i look outside I see bouncers dey tell some people to go back; immediately I just tell my people say I don go house oo.,..Dem dey ask y, I no gree tell Dem until after d occasion. How u go dey pursue people wey com celebrate with u even wen u no invite dem, for wetin u no even sure say e go last a lifetime. 1 Like |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by temitope27(m): 11:25am On Nov 03, 2022 |
jeromestarks:comrade, i dey feel you dey go ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Nobody: 11:25am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Marriage? Women want to escape paying bills and want someone that will take care of their desires. Men want companionship and their very own personalised pussy. That's why they get married these days. Ready bachelors want children but not baby mama's way. Real marriage is for couples that are ready to design generational wealth structure and build legacy for their present and future generations. Such marriages do not fail. 16 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by RepoMan007: 11:26am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Na so. Keeping secret the irreversible past that a partner cannot tolerate is number one. Number two is selfishness. |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Hamachi(f): 11:27am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Nonexisting1:#FACT 2 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Odebayo4010(m): 11:29am On Nov 03, 2022 |
BabaOfLagos: I don't want to hear anything like subscribe oh 2 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Gistlobby: 11:31am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Good woman dey easy to find, na u dey look for Nicki Minaj with a touch of Chioma Jesus.. 5 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Hassanmaye(m): 11:31am On Nov 03, 2022 |
guobe:Like how please? Temptations of sex or what? You must have sex Na if you married what's the temptations |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by chiefolododo(m): 11:32am On Nov 03, 2022 |
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Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Hassanmaye(m): 11:32am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Nonexisting1:Haha |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Odebayo4010(m): 11:32am On Nov 03, 2022 |
DaveHarry: You statement makes me vomit my breakfast,OP you're too wicked 1 Like |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Hassanmaye(m): 11:35am On Nov 03, 2022 |
zed7:Oh my God you are so lucky sir! |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by STEWpid(f): 11:35am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Chai.. Our forefathers and mothers married young and they stick together till death. Now, even 40 year olds cannot hold marriage together. What's the problem? "Fast Declining Societal Values!" The children from such marriages will grow without knowing what it means to be in a peaceful home. We've lost been African and we cannot be referred to as American or European rather. 4 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Nehyooh(m): 11:36am On Nov 03, 2022 |
BigYash:Bro, even with two body counts, only God knows how any times she did it. She may not even know the number of times herself. So, the best is to find a virgin. I can't waste my resources on a left over that now turned saint just to manipulate one simp to wife her after she don shared herself finish. 3 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Nobody: 11:36am On Nov 03, 2022 |
womenareapezz: Your mother must have been a terrible person for you to list all her qualities like this. 4 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:36am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Romanoff: All these doesn't guarantee a good marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by InvertedHammer: 11:37am On Nov 03, 2022 |
/ Majority of them are into runs and hookups. How do you expect her to come from N20k-N50k per night to come and be managing N200k/month salary with a husband? They are committed to the highway. "Runs" is a journey of no return--can't make a LovePeddler a housewife. Don't try to be a hero! These generation of ladies are the daughters of those loose ladies that grew up on Afrojuju by Shina Peters and money gobblers that gyrated to Nnukwu Mmanwu by Oliver de Coque. What kind of moral upbringing do you expect them to bestow on their daughters and sons? Those of us born in the 1930s can only look in awe and disgust. / 5 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Hassanmaye(m): 11:37am On Nov 03, 2022 |
KunGioKehRah:Imagine spending 2million in marriage because of pressure while you don't have investment of 800k? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Biafraaa: 11:39am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Nonexisting1:Bro calm down. Try marry next year. You can't continue to be wasting sperm. 1 Like |
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