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Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Vintage100(m): 1:19pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Corridon: Two months?? Haaa!! Wahala wa ooo |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Romanoff(f): 1:19pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
BigBashiru: Finance Individual differences (background/ upbringing, social status, personal preferences and ways of doing things) Compromise 1 Like |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by ajalucy16(m): 1:21pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
At least you got one hundred and onety one likes��]A lot of people don't know what marriage is about. Societal pressure force people who know next to nothing about marriage to marry. Some men think it's only to provide, have sex and have a woman to birth and raise kids that marriage is all about. Many women get married just to be Mrs. No preparation for the journey ahead. I remember before I got married, I attended marriage seminar, read books, listened to messages from seasoned counsellors like Bimbo Odukoya, marriage counsellors from my church and pastors whose marriages I admire. These days, how many young people will even read books about marriage and it's preparation or listen to messages or go to seminars for intending couples?[/quote] |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Xsw1: 1:23pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Blame the whorress once the men go broke they these whorres are done they will now tag it abusive relationship or marriage Men better focus more on your finances rather than taking the ladies serious 1 Like |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Pelaiye2703(m): 1:23pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Nonexisting1:Your parents are indeed wise. God bless them for such information. 1 Like |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by jieta: 1:29pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Nonexisting1:Lol, your mum opinion about marriage dey weird. |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by riverbird: 1:30pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Nonexisting1: Do Nigerian women even have anything to offer in a marriage? |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Thebigheart: 1:30pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
The psalmist says in psalm 11:3 If the foundation is destroy what can the righteous so. Many marriages are established on a faulty foundation. Between them, they don't know the difference between want and choice. |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Corridon: 1:31pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
madridguy:The guy is working as a lab attendant in a private hospital in Abuja. It was his parents who are retired local government workers that sponsored the wedding as per their first son. |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by BigBashiru: 1:34pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Romanoff: Finances is simple...let everyone make their own money and use it to take care of themselves.... females shouldn't stress their hisbands financially....as in a woman should be able to make the money she will use to be caring for her self....tho I will feed her (basic food only). 2 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by BiGVEEN58(m): 1:35pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Trottle: I wish this comment was in the first page. |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Romanoff(f): 1:37pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
BigBashiru: Everyone can make their money and economic changes can hit where one or both lose their source of income? Is this a reason for a marriage to pack up? No. |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by BiGVEEN58(m): 1:38pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
AstraDroid:this comment should have been in front page. 1 Like |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Nobody: 1:41pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
truthsayer009: Yes I have met redpillers offline but that's besides the point, are we not online and on this forum right now? I don't even understand the point you are trying to make, am I suppose to complain offline about redpill to people propagating it here with a thread of close to 2000 pages on romance section specially dedicated to complain and cry about women when it is ongoing online? Even on this thread, boys are busy faulting women ONLY as the reason for failed marriages, yet you took it upon yourself to advice and quote who? Me? Are you scared of facing your fellows? Or you have selective gender based blindness when you are itching for who to quote? Your "plenty money, good sex, no infidelity, domestic violence" that you said is needed in Nigerian marriages is what you men constantly destroy even if you have it in abundance, so direct your BS to your fellows if you are not scared of them and fvck off. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by hustla(m): 1:44pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Romanoff: Some other people did this too and still chop breakfast There is no formula to life 4 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by godofuck231: 1:46pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
The man don wake see her real face. Bollo young |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 1:53pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
When you don't get your dating right, compromised your qualities you wanted in a woman for beauty, class, fake love or money, what do you expect. It must surely crash. guobe: |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by GboyegaD(m): 1:53pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
guobe: Just curious, what are these pressures? |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by jeromestarks: 1:54pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
ceeceeuwa:That's where you're wrong. Not all girls fall for guys they're not married to. Only those with whor3ing tendencies do that. |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by jeromestarks: 1:56pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
BigBashiru:Read this: https://www.nairaland.com/7292532/virgin-man-virgin-woman-same |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Romanoff(f): 1:58pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
hustla: No one said there's a formula to life or marriage but it's best to put in some effort and let God handles the rest. |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Nobody: 2:03pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Jovialjune1: You're just displaying anger all over the place with someone not fighting with you. I hope every thing is fine. Cheers. 3 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Nobody: 2:04pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
I would expect my marriage to crash, I expect partner to cheat, I expect divorce, I expect stabbing with knife, poisoning, I expect all this cos I married an unfeeling creature, I would rather die than give my all in my marriage, if the nonsense won crash make e crash, A huge lot of my assets would be hidden, and if she even gets to possess anything all will be liabilities, cars that av not been paid fully, houses on mortgage plans, 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Nobody: 2:08pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Jovialjune1: u knw urslf very well that's y u describe ur self in a essay, u re apt in saying u have selective gender based blindness" nobody can do a better job of telling u who u re other than u yourself 2 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by xynerise: 2:09pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Most marriages crash because of the wrong purposes and high expectations people have before venturing into it. Men who think marrying a very beautiful and curvy slay queen is a step higher than the other men should be ready to dance to the tune when all she has to offer is just the big yansh and fine face. |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Nobody: 2:10pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Raalsalghul: Exactly, so I don't understand all this anger the women are showing on this thread. So far those 3 terms are there, marriage continua. Someone says it is RedPill that causes marriages not to work. I sincerely feel these women don't have a life outside of Nairaland because wetin concern failure of marriage with RedPill. Especially Nigeria where weddings are happening every day. Once you have money in Nigeria, marriage don set be that. Like your marriage did not work, so na RedPill cause am? LMAOOO. 2 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Cutehector(m): 2:10pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
zed7:bros, you are only lucky |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Seunwere: 2:18pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
If u be single dis days especially guys shine ur eye well well den no dey arrest late comers 4 marriage oooo take ur time make one useless witch no force u go where u never ready to go.. 1 Like |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by FireUpNow(m): 2:19pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
This is happening because generation of today upholds sex, money and materialism above marriage sacredness. People don't have patience and everything is all about sex and satisfaction. This is not what it should be |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Selfmotivated: 2:25pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
A direct consequence of incompatibility. 1 Like |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by laborious(m): 2:27pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Anothe game These ladies play is dey form dem fit see future, they get married to men because his future looks bright, meanwhile they wont be contributing shit to make d future bright o, den if something happens along the line, perhaps client no pay again, or business no boom or oga lost his job then wahala go start.. then you will start seeing them for who dey really are.. 1 Like |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by ceeceeuwa: 2:30pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
jeromestarks:How will anyone ever want to marry a virgin when he keeps engaging in sexual relationships. Where will he get the one he will marry. They keep shouting they want virgins. if you ask them if they are ready to remain celibate in a relationship,they will say "how will I buy a good I have not tested?" 4 Likes |
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