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Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by rickleye: 12:17pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70: Unless your wife ( her daughter ) is complaining what is the issue .? She could be checking in on their well-being She could be checking in on the kids She could be checking in on your well being. I think the bigger issue is that you two don’t get along. Her calls can’t be more than 5-10mins daily. So what happens if the calls become chats - will that disturb you as well ? Bro I don’t see this as an issue. Pls don’t make it one. 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Etosha: 12:17pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70: What manner of man are you? 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by harizonal123(m): 12:17pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Lol ! op you never see any thing you r complaining. Learn to live with that as I'm typing this my wife and her mum are gisting and they do that three times every blessed day. If that's what give them joy no wahala. The part that annoys me most is the late night and early morning calls. I have a learn to accept the things I cannot change 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Streetmovement(m): 12:18pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Wotoporiously ![]() Op, I don't see anything wrong here, my momma calls me everyday and I know if I eventually get married someday she's still gonna call me everyday..as long she ain't in y'all personal space or calling her daughter to check you( discussing about you to her daughter while keeping it a secret) then shit ain't wrong here. 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Nobody: 12:18pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by MuslimMuslim: 12:18pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
A big recipe for disaster. Talking from experience 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by jaxxy(m): 12:19pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70: only if the calls are negative to ur wife or ur home. If they are not or just normal calls pls let things be as normal. ur wife is also an individual and an adult with who should know the boundaries of a relationship. Dint ruffle feathers or the peace amongst unless it's absolutely necessary. is ur wife complaining about the calls? in any overly negative way? |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by adekanmbi1986(m): 12:19pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
etrange: You are on point 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by TenQ: 12:19pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70:Until you accept that your mother-in-law is also your mother your problem will know no end. If your mum choses to call you daily, would you scold her? Fear not as long as you wife is keeping family secrets and plans private Shalom 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by ema2020: 12:19pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70:allow us to hear word all this married people Una wahala no dey limited ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by xamodans: 12:21pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
All depends on the firmness of your wife. This is what I mean: My mother in-law does the same to the 3 married women every day, including my wife, but my wife never for once discuss our affairs with her mum, despite their closeness. She needs to balance up both so one will not affect the other negatively.. But if you know your wife doesn't have that capacity, then you can call her attention to it, there is no harm in talking. Take care bro 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by hotseat: 12:21pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Op, you have nothing to worry about! Let sleeping dogs lie. You may be embarking on a journey that would surely create bad blood in your home. Your wife remains your mother in-law's daughter. Fear not! 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by entrep88: 12:22pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70:Normal women gossip na, haba. you are just jealous because men hardly get people to give us that attention. Relax |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by belatoxx: 12:22pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Bro make sure you stop that..... That is how my own started am still regretting not stopping the closeness till now..... Her mother will rule your house and ruin your relationship... My kobo 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by polite2(m): 12:23pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70:Do dey gossip about you ![]() Mins does it alot |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Greattha: 12:23pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
OP. Nothing to fear if you're gucci. Like you said, it'd been happening before you married your wife and you knew about it. Did you ever raise it as a concern to her then? Is your mother in-law not a good enough role model? There's probably a reason you're concerned. If she's a good enough person, know that marriage requires experienced advice from our reliable elderly ones. Way I see it, if you're doing your best as a "good" husband, there won't be any fallout on you or your home. It depends on your wife and the level of understanding between both of you. Plus, hope you know the calls/convos can still happen without you ever knowing? Be happy you're not in the dark. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by zionzoe(m): 12:23pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Oizee:Women defending women as always. Too much everything is Bad. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by ChampionTvEnt(m): 12:24pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Let them have their calls continuosly while it lasts as you observe with cautions not threatening. Some mother's loves their children at every seconds without attempts to disorganize them at all. Just be only observant. They might only be gisting for daily happiness infos. Your 50/50 observations results will give plain results without stress don't force it and don't give it a name yourself, let the people paint it. My thoughts though |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by jeff1607(m): 12:24pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Totilopussylick: Mother in law shouldn’t have accepted the bride price if she wasn’t sure of her daughter’s husband capability of taking care of her before hand. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by akmath: 12:24pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Wetin with evil cousins today na. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by MECIBOQUE1(f): 12:25pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
What do they always talk about ![]() Though before I got married I discovered my mother inlaw calls all her daughters both married and unmarried everyday (only 3 ladies no boys) and they fear her to the bone. At times every morning and night just to talk to them but I believe when they get married they need privacy and respect but this is not the case for my mother-in-law and I detest such act. Mind you I'm not against call or trying to break the bond but I believe this is marriage. I'm looking for a way to stop all that I'm I wrong or right to take that step ?[/quote] |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by MuslimMuslim: 12:25pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
postmann:Exactly the point many of the other commenters don't understand. The mother will want to know every single thing happening in their household 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by dinkyicon: 12:25pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Jashub:tf is he worried about, its nothing , he gats to abosolutly worry about nothing |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by asanausana91: 12:26pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
duduade:mind which business? His wife is his business. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by polite2(m): 12:27pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
TenQ:Abi 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by dotun4luv(m): 12:28pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Jashub: This dude will mislead this OP. See, my father calls me every morning before and after i got married. Your fear is useless and unnecessary. Focus on what is important. She's just your wife and not your daughter. Her mother still have dominion over her. Because you her husband doesn't automatically make her and her parents enemy. Just be good. Provide for your family. Do the need to her siblings. Cos she s her daily should be your joy. When your daughter is married you will know how much you want to make her happy the more. DJ cuppy still hang around her father... 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by zoedew: 12:28pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Do you have a problem with that? Just live your life! Be a real man. Real men have no time for pettiness. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Satazaa: 12:30pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
It's not proper at all, I am a victim of this and trust me it never ends well, in the first instance what exactly are they talking about that cannot be said twice or maximum thrice a week, such mother inlaw are usually controlling and manipulative and in my own case she will claim she is doing it out of affection, it's all a ruse to dominate her daughter thinking and actions, trust me on this if they speak everyday then any major decisions and plans in your home will be known to her and she will be pulling toxic strings behind you that you may not know about, as the saying goes, if you buy a goat and pays the owner should release it with it's rope, if not, it's still hers ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Ephemmm: 12:31pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70: What is the meaning of marriage please? How is the calls impacting your marriage negatively as it seems that you are just creating issue out of no issue. Unlike before, My Dad call me almost everyday nowadays despite being a man. As you are growing older, you will soon realize that what matters most is not only money but effective communication with your children. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by davodyguy: 12:31pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
even kids in boarding school, we are not allowed to call them daily, talkless of a married adult, Put a stop to the frequency. You and your wife are not single entity, all others comes second 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Greattha: 12:31pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
For real? So who's to blame for those broken marriages or those that ended up in physical/emotional deaths or injuries from spousal abuse? Are parentsnow supposed to be Psychic? jeff1607: |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Michelle55: 12:33pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
This wan dey find trouble wey trouble no dey, no worry you go soon see the kasala wey you dey find. Continue looking! 1 Like |
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