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Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by sunky2sweet(m): 12:33pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Jashub:you a right, everything will be gossip. My marriage was just 2month when the nonsense started I thought it was normal then one day I left my phone on record and went to hangout with the boys lo and behold it was all gossip about my own family, I asked my wife about certain things I heard and she denied it, I didn’t tell her I have proof. I haven’t talked to her mother till this day and she knws too well not to visit my house I don’t have to spell it out. Her father comes anytime, we drink and gist anytime he’s in town. I know a day will come when questions will be asked, my proof is in the cloud ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Amumaigwe: 12:33pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70: "Her husband no dey with her and not her fault". Whose verdict was that? She failed to pay the price to keep her marriage to enable her escape loneliness at old age. Now she is latching on your wife. What kind of influence do you think she will exert on her daughter? Of course it will come from her resentment she has for her ex husband and much bile will be accumulating in your wife until boom: history is repeated. If she was a mother that succeeded in her own marriage, I would have had no qualms. Please let your wife know that she must start reducing the call frequency and also manage the inflation about your home she passes to her mum 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by haslaw(m): 12:33pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
olasaad: It's not normal and you roll in a bad way. If you love your sister you will not come between your sister and her husband 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by detectivejones: 12:35pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Whats your plan exactly? To isolate her from her family. There is nothing wrong in what the mother is doing, they're a tight famly 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by omonnakoda: 12:35pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Some people believe there is God e,g Patience Jonathan Now this God does not control people So why do people want to control other people First control yourself That is where the problem is 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by RZArecta(m): 12:36pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70:nigga CALM DOWN and allow them do their bonding. It's not every battle that you'll fight and this isn't a battle. When your in-law directly challenges your authority in the house is when you can take action |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by SeriouslySense(m): 12:36pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Such wise comment. Greattha: |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Pjoe238: 12:37pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
How is the calls from your mother in-law to her daughter disturbing you? when you carry your own water, you will understand the value of a drop. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by optionalY09: 12:37pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Terrible behavior of mother influence in their children’s married life. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by SURElee(f): 12:37pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70: Look for a way to stop a mother from calling her child she raised and gave birth to. The fact that you are married to their daughter doesn't give you the right to do such. So you want to break the family bond Abi? I used to think only some ladies go into families to break family love and bond, now you a man is complaining? Oga, rest. The calls are they hindering your sexual conjugal rights? Will your wife also stop you from bonding with your family? Na like this e dey start, you will tell you wife to go off social.media because she is married to you. Na small small you go begin show your true colors, looking up faults where there is none.. Mschewwww! 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by haslaw(m): 12:38pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Adinije: Stop being naïve. Is it possible to be talking everyday and not tell her mother everything that is happening in their house? 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by sunky2sweet(m): 12:39pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
haslaw:I wonder ooo. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by optionalY09: 12:39pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Pjoe238: The intention is not always in the internet of the other party. When t give your child out to marriage theirs nothing wrong being close to their family making yourself accessible and approachable. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by gigabyte13: 12:40pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Why are you feeling insecure.... ![]() How their call take affect you.... ![]() That's what good parents do, they keep checking on their children either male or female, married or not. I dey feel jealousy here... Oga, leave mama and pikin matter alone, there are enough bills hanging around you, enough to worry about. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Successfulben: 12:40pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Op, you must be a mad man for bringing every minor family related issues here. Mide70: |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Crucialgem(m): 12:41pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
My token to this, my girlfriend also has this kind of relationship with her mother, the wrong part of it is that the mum literally knows every thing going on between me and her and if para-venture I don't get to call her for a long time, it her mum call am seeing. And the mum will be like, my daughter said you havent call her for some while. I hate that shit to my bone marrow. Mother or fathers in-laws should understand that they need to give their married sons and daughters space is called respect 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by seunjungle1(m): 12:41pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Dey call ahm back too |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by gigabyte13: 12:42pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
haslaw: If you are doing the right thing, why should you be afraid of what they are discussing..... Except you are afraid of something evil , you are doing to her |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by SeriouslySense(m): 12:43pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Its called respect. But there is no disrespect yet or signs yet. Crucialgem: |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by dultmax(m): 12:43pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Red Flag. She (the Mother inlaw) is the one running your family. That's what she intends to do. Guy.....if you are not spiritually strong enough, it's a War you will loose. You will see Shege. Better run |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by ndego1993: 12:43pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Op you sound very insecure and immature. A woman decides to call and check on her daughter and you feel threatened about that? It simply shows you are from a home where love and show of it is scarce. Those calls may help your marriage more than it will hurt it unless there is something you know about the character of your mother in law that you are not telling us. Just let the mother and daughter be. Focus on being a good husband and a great father to your wife and kids respectively. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by chatinent: 12:44pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
It's her mother, nna. I don't think it means any harm. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Nobody: 12:44pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
One day, a Nairalander will come here to ask if it's Ok for her wife to be cooking food using water. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by lequama10: 12:45pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70:shes her mother for cry out loud, abi which kind insecurity be this.... When you marry a lady you do same with her mother, if you cant you shouldnt wife her then.... |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Chris2863(m): 12:45pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
It’s like you are maltreating her daughter or that you are a bad husband, if not, I see no reason why you should be worried about someone calling her daughter. Forget about the peanut you paid as bride price, she is her fruit 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by koladata(m): 12:45pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
get a good bluetooth speaker , with good 2way in and out . when ever they talk , get involved in the conversation . make it a law, as she's say how you to her daughter , great her too and always make her know that you are involved in the conversation. 1. you won't get bored 2. with time she might stop. Mide70: |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Nobody: 12:45pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Jashub: OP, go with this advice cus the more it's going the more she gets upper hand and when u say no,her mom says yes,there'll be a problem as to whose orders she's going to follow and she go do her mom's o... there's a crack already it's just for you to stand up and be the man.. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by SeriouslySense(m): 12:46pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
People always abuse their positions, be it Husband or mother in-laws. I am curious who will first abuse their position. dultmax: |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by GoooodHardDick: 12:46pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70: You dey ment? Does marriage means you should totally disconnect from people and your loved ones simply because you got married? |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Gboom: 12:47pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70:How long have you been married? Does her call threaten your marriage? Does her call influence your wife negatively? Does your wife ignore you whenever her mother is calling her? |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Meektunz: 12:47pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
In my own case na my wife dey call my mother in-law every single day. So which one is proper? If I talk e go be like say I wicked. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by money121(m): 12:47pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70:My daddy call me everyday |
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