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Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by millionboi(m): 2:48pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70:you are very wrong, allow them to enjoy their family ties 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by ttoyetade: 2:57pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Adinije: Of course they will be discussing everything that goes on in the house, small or big thing. The best thing is to stop it now before it is too late. The wife will not be able to make her own judgement and decision and will always do what the mum tells her. I am a victim of that and will not advise anyone to allow it. The wife will trust her mum more than the husband 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by einsteine(m): 2:57pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
chii8: How did you calculate the 89%? |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by MrDoGood(m): 3:03pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70: I can understand. You don't have a good relationship with your mother-in-law. Just warn your wife not to discuss the affairs of your home with her mother. Let them do their talking, but whenever she tries to ask how the house is running, she should cut it out and let her mother know it's personal 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by MrDoGood(m): 3:05pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Totilopussylick: She wan marry her give another man? That's how they destroy their daughter's home. 6 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Ezeego1(m): 3:06pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
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Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by aestake: 3:07pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
mariahAngel:They're afraid of not talking with her. No choice! |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by GardenGreen: 3:08pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
nasonaso: Thank you. You'll know them. Products of dysfuntional families |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by aestake: 3:08pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
MrDoGood:No sane person calls someone every day. 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by GardenGreen: 3:09pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
nasonaso: You've said it all. God bless you ! |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by fxexperts: 3:12pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
chii8:na wa oo.. too many kids on nairaland getting married. no wonder there is a high rate of divorce, husband killing wives and wives killing husband. Mide70:Op tou are still very much a kid, who shouldn't have gotten married at this time. it is a pity you are married and still having such a child behavior, i know for sure your wife is going to suffer a great deal in this marriage, i only pity her. Your jealousy and childishness will be a great undoing to her. i truly pity her. Someone who gave birth to your wife, nurtured her to be that virtuous women you get married to. is now automatically evil and no longer relevant in her life. you are just a big joker. Someone you should take like your own mother. i pity you. this is just the beginning and the end of that your marriage. The only time you can ever try to limit their communication is only when your mother in-law is feeding her daughter bad ideas to ruin your marriage. I am married and my mother-in-law communicates with my wife every day and she give her good advice, which i am very proud of. There was even one time i was at home and my wife wanted to go stay in her mum's place because she needed to fix something even after she has taken permission from me, she called her mum to inform her she is coming over to stay, my mother-in-law has to come me to know if I approve of it and I told her yes. If your mum in-law is a good woman, don't ever try to stop your wife from communicating with her. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Ezeego1(m): 3:12pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Dirkcoyt: OP, This is the best advise for you. Don't mind all those nairalanders forming they come from good homes. Why would two adults be talking every morning and night without digressing from their discussion. You all know it's not possible yet you all are forming good homes. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Countersam(m): 3:14pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70:If it were your mother doing the calling I am sure you won't complain. Broaden your heart bro. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Encyclopedia1: 3:14pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Ezeego1:Oya come and beat me. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by vickydevoka(m): 3:14pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Adinije:If the man does same thing believe me , the wife will create threads for it all over the places 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by RapportNaija(m): 3:15pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
What kind of man are you? Did her family sell your wife to you? Are you now her slave master? Should you not be even worried if your MIL doesn't call your wife to keep her in check? Except you have evidence that they're plotting against you, there's no big deal! Or maybe you hate your MIL? Because on these calls, even you should say "let me greet your mom too"! Be happy and enjoy marriage. You cant live life alone after marriage -- you'll forever need the support of your in-laws, so never attempt to destroy that bridge. Good luck! 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by fxexperts: 3:16pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
ttoyetade:That is if you are married to a foolish woman. and your motherinlaw and evil selfish woman like Patience Ozokwo.. in the movies. Mide70:Kiddo you are the one who doesn't know the meaning of marriage.. Maybe you are mistaking marriage for some kind of self imposed prison. Mind you your son inlaw and daughter inlaws will do same to you. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by integrity16(m): 3:20pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Hahaha, she cannot call her daughter again? |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Chuksworld(m): 3:21pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
My wife calls her mum every day too. That's how it has been since over 5 years. Nothing to worry about. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by NurseJP(m): 3:26pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
You should not loose sleep over this, unless you have your reservations that you don’t want to share. People should maintain close bonding with their family,most especially their parents! |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Graciafun(m): 3:27pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
It's okay as long as your wife has not put up a strange behaviour. It's really not easy for all the mother-in-laws |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Adinije(f): 3:28pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
vickydevoka:My husband speaks with his parents all the time and I don't have a problem with that. I speak with mine too and he too don't care. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by olureignforever: 3:28pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70: So because she's married to you, she shouldn't talk to her mother again? Did you buy her credit? Some men Sha. If I be your wife, you go complain tire. I call my mum everyday and if I didn't call she'll call me. Is the calling eating your food , withdrawing your money from the bank. It's not even that she comes to stay in your house for a long time. Haba. K**ll her now so she won't have access to her daughter because she's married you. N*onsense |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Adinije(f): 3:29pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
ttoyetade:U need to earn her trust, that all. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Dennisana(m): 3:30pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Exactly my thoughts Adinije: |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by IbnIbrahim: 3:31pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
aestake:I want to believe a teenager is typing this ![]() |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Ezeego1(m): 3:32pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Encyclopedia1: I don't beat women anyway, If you're a man you for collect wotowoto |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Ezeego1(m): 3:36pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
vickydevoka: The man will be labelled mummy's boy and the wife will start acting somehow. Now the table has changed and nobody is seeing the call as invasion of privacy again. Hypocrites!!! 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Dennisana(m): 3:36pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
My wife mom calls her daily and i like that she does. She nurtures and set her brain to reset mode whenever she wants to claim "woke" or be disrespectful to me. I would say its all depend on who the mother-in-law is and the kind of principles she's trying to impact (instill) on the daughter/wife. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Dennisana(m): 3:40pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Na really uncle mind your lane. Her calling isn't affecting the relationship with his wife then why stop it? duduade: |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by itznormiz: 3:41pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Bros, don't start what you can't handle! Honestly, I don't think you need to open this Pandora Box. Just bone the issue of calls between them provided it doesn't affect you. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Erums(m): 3:46pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
this thing is actually a deal breaker and can send ones emotions cold ...Also duirng this discussions, the wife tells the mum everything going on in the home to as afar as recording them to feedback her mum...its really a marriage killer. couples need space and privacy 2 Likes |
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