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Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by zudozz: 7:13pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
YES. There is nothing wrong with it. Don't be stewpeed! |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by placeofallure(f): 7:18pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70: It depends on many things; what do they discuss? What kind of woman is your MIL? Manipulative? What about your wife? Is she gullible? And then you, can you take charge of your home? If she's not manipulative and your wife ain't gullible, her incessant calls should pose no threat. Even if your MIL is troublesome, if you can handle your home well, I still see no wahala. My dad calls me every other day and very early in the morning too or late in the evening. He said that's when network is at its clearest. There are no emergencies, he just wants to talk. Our parents are kinda, especially as they're getting older. A lot of tolerance is needed. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by zudozz: 7:21pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
YES. There is nothing wrong with it. Don't be stewpeed! |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:25pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70: you can deal with her indirectly, through you wife, you have to teach your wife, how to deal with her eg when when she fines phone she needs to cut the conversation short, cut if by eg "mum i will get back to you i need to attend to my husband" Eventually it will sink in to her that,her daughter give more attention to her home than her phoning every morning as if she is sick People gotten that, you great time to be missed than to be constantly in touch for no good reason |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by flyingdutchman(m): 7:25pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
You are insecure. My wife has a close relationship with her sister and mom. I only complain when she is distracted from a task at the time. She has found time to adjust now, and i have embraced her mom as my closest ally at home. She is a cool lady. I am not afraid that they will overrun my home. I have ENOUGH QUALITY TO MAKE ME valued at home. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:33pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
flyingdutchman: remember there are mothers who influence daughters or sons to run thier marriages the way the MiL run her own marriage which cause fights with their respective partners 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Harmony22: 7:44pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
[op I can understand your feelings and majority of the comments here are just trying to make you feel like your concern is not justifiable probably because you don't come from a loving and close family calling you and checking on you all the time, I have been in your shoes and I know your feelings my mom wife's used to be like that too calling every morning afternoon and night.infact if anything happens within her environment the next thing is for her to call my wife and gossip about it. I felt concern as you are now and I thought of complaining to her as regard to that but I realized just as many people are talking here that it might feel because I don't have my family calling me the same way so I drew a plan I told my mom to be calling me everyday too morning afternoon and night even what she want to say is irrelevant she should call and we would talk at length on any topic that arise so when my wife start noticing this she first started calling me mummy boy I don't even do as if I heard her I make sure my mum keeps calling and there was a day it got into her that she had to tell me that would I just bring my mom to start living with us and I ask her why she feel threatens but she couldn't reply so you see when the table turns around the women will not tolerate it for long but here you are people making you feel maybe you have less love from your own parent. I rest my case and the ball is in your court op 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Afodot0022(m): 7:52pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Well it depends on reason why she is calling her and the kind of person her mom really is. If her mom has a good personality then is no reason to be worried. My own mother inlaw influenced my wife negatively to the level that any issues that i have with my wife, she would relate all to her mom. Even when my wife was cheating on me, her mom was aware and also accepting stuff from the man she was cheating on me with. Incase i had been proactive,i would have dealt with it from the beginning before it got worst. A responsible mother should know that when her daughter marries, there should be little interference but not all mothers know this and wheather you like it or not, mother inlaws have influence in your marriage either positively or negatively 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by lekanation(m): 7:58pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70:the meaning of marriage is that she sold her daughter to you? |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Jashub: 8:18pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
aestake:I can see you're a weak male who doesn't know the meaning of authority 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Jashub: 8:20pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
dotun4luv:You're a simp. No wonder you look like trash 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Chizzychinny: 8:42pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Personally, I see nothing wrong with it unless they are other things you're not saying. My mum can't stay a day without hearing from her children. Her call is just harmless or you can playfully ask your wife why her mum calls always. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by FaithBrain1994(m): 8:47pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
OP your nyash dey outside o. Quit the sh!T. She is now your wife and must do your biddings. Who knows how many times dem done discuss the size of your gbola. Gosh, where is the masculinity in men? Open your eyes mahn! Like i said earlier, i will never marry a broke woman, never! 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by fadal(m): 9:04pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
HE DO THAT AGAIN U PUNCH HIM ON THE LIPZ ![]() |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Satazaa: 9:22pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Afodot0022:except the cheating part, I have exactly the same experiences, hard luck bro ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by MuslimMuslim: 9:34pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Danniedpastor:You think those daily calls can continue without these things you listed creeping in? What would they be discussing DAILY? 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by ZIMDRILL(m): 9:34pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Chizzychinny: dont you think you see nothing wrong becoz you are used to your mum's calling ? Sometimes being in contact everyday doesnt make you grow to be your own person 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Chizzychinny: 9:59pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
ZIMDRILL:I get your point. Well, It's individual differences, I hope that someday my husband won't have issues with it too. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by aestake: 10:56pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Jashub:Nipping something in the bud means stopping something that is just starting. Which kind of people are these? Dead folks? |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by laluski(m): 11:00pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mide70: You better nip that stupid thought in the bud..what's wrong with her calling her daughter everyday..e dey scatter your marriage ni...she no come stay your house, she's just calling..what's wrong with that. My first child is a girl and she's in the university, I love my mother like crazy.... Same thing with my brother ex's mum..that woman will still silently pained till date that I and her hee daughter didn't end up and as husband and wife... These are good women...so if they're calling their daughters everyday why should I intervene and say No. When your marriage is having serious problems who u go run to first..oh I see your own mum abi? Kwantinu |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Danniedpastor(m): 11:25pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
MuslimMuslim:My mother calls me everyday. Should my wife be bothered? |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by ZIMDRILL(m): 11:39pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Danniedpastor: usually when you are part of it you dont see nothing wrong with it so what do you talk about everyday with your mum ? Most people dont feel comfortable becoz one might end up discus his:her partner. or being told how to run your marriage |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by vickydevoka(m): 11:50pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Ezeego1:Most things a man can endure a woman can’t at all |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by mechanics(m): 12:07am On Nov 09, 2022 |
Just discuss with your wife on the need for there mum to reduce the call rate, that's how some mother's are. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by vickydevoka(m): 12:20am On Nov 09, 2022 |
Adinije:Most not all. There is always an exception |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Kobojunkie: 12:38am On Nov 09, 2022 |
Kankawormm:when you call your own mother don't you also divulge some "private" matter to her as well? ![]() Imagine the misery, because she married, she is no longer to have an intimate conversation with her own mother? Even a psychiatrist, gets that privilege, na mother no go come get am again?; ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Adinije(f): 2:23am On Nov 09, 2022 |
haslaw:Ndi brideprice. Lol He didn't want daughter and mother? Did he tell you that the mother was calling him. Abeg!! Omo see reasoning. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by vickydevoka(m): 4:20am On Nov 09, 2022 |
aestake:Mothers do. But it doesn’t make sense at all. But it’s loneliness |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Kdon2: 5:12am On Nov 09, 2022 |
IamMobisola: But she would be complaining and that's alright? |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Kankawormm(f): 5:44am On Nov 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Na me wear shoe.. Na me no where e d day pain me.. She goes to her mums place 3 times a week, calls her every morning speaking one edo language wey I no dey hear inside my matrimonial home, I just opened a chemical shop for her.. Anytime I come there to check up on her, her mum is always there.. So you see 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by MuslimMuslim: 7:10am On Nov 09, 2022 |
Danniedpastor:Yes, very well. I am sure she is already, if what you said is true |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by HaneefahRN(f): 7:27am On Nov 09, 2022 |
My mum calls me everyday or almost everyday. She has done this long before I married. She just liked to check up on all her children especially when they are not near. Does not mean anything . She is her mum being your wife does not erase that. |
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