Adinije:
Ndi brideprice. Lol

He didn't want daughter and mother? Did he tell you that the mother was calling him. Abeg!!

Omo see reasoning.

FaithBrain1994:
OP your nyash dey outside o. Quit the sh!T. She is now your wife and must do your biddings. Who knows how many times dem done discuss the size of your gbola. Gosh, where is the masculinity in men? Open your eyes mahn! Like i said earlier, i will never marry a broke woman, never!

haslaw:



The husband paid one bride price not two.

Did the husband tell you that he was marrying the daughter and the mother?

The mother should go and look for her own husband and leave her daughter's marriage alone

Kankawormm:
I just got divorced some days back.. And this was one of the reasons.. There's nothing wrong in a mother calling her daughter.. But when it gets too much.. Some private matters would certainly be leaked as a result it too much talk or cos there's nothing more to say..

Afodot0022:
Well it depends on reason why she is calling her and the kind of person her mom really is. If her mom has a good personality then is no reason to be worried. My own mother inlaw influenced my wife negatively to the level that any issues that i have with my wife, she would relate all to her mom. Even when my wife was cheating on me, her mom was aware and also accepting stuff from the man she was cheating on me with. Incase i had been proactive,i would have dealt with it from the beginning before it got worst. A responsible mother should know that when her daughter marries, there should be little interference but not all mothers know this and wheather you like it or not, mother inlaws have influence in your marriage either positively or negatively

ZIMDRILL:


usually when you are part of it you dont see nothing wrong with it

so what do you talk about everyday with your mum ?

Most people dont feel comfortable becoz one might end up discus his:her partner. or being told how to run your marriage

aestake:

No sane person calls someone every day.

Kankawormm:


Na me wear shoe.. Na me no where e d day pain me.. She goes to her mums place 3 times a week, calls her every morning speaking one edo language wey I no dey hear inside my matrimonial home, I just opened a chemical shop for her.. Anytime I come there to check up on her, her mum is always there.. So you see

haslaw:



All these "buy one get one free" people.

Triangle marriages

Adinije:
Slave master, ride on

SURElee:




Look for a way to stop a mother from calling her child she raised and gave birth to. The fact that you are married to their daughter doesn't give you the right to do such.

So you want to break the family bond Abi?

I just to think only some ladies go into families to break family love and bond, now you a man is complaining?

Oga, rest. The calls are they hindering your sexual conjugal rights?

Will your wife also stop you from bonding with your family?

Na like this e dey start, you will tell you wife to go off social.media because she is married to you.

Na small small you go begin show your true colors, looking up faults where there is none..

Mschewwww!

MuslimMuslim:

Yes, very well.
I am sure she is already, if what you said is true

ZIMDRILL:


usually when you are part of it you dont see nothing wrong with it

so what do you talk about everyday with your mum ?

Most people dont feel comfortable becoz one might end up discus his:her partner. or being told how to run your marriage

fxexperts:
The mum is now a threat to you i guess. jokers.

haslaw:


My SLAVE, oya prostrate and kiss my feet

Adinije:
I will not trade words with a non-entity. You have had enough of my attention. Bye.

fxexperts:
Look at this gigolo gold digger. for your mind you are man. sorry to inform you, you are just a little kid, with childish brain. Inferiority complex is your problem. Grow up kidoo..


Imagine these childish kids.

This guy is still a baby. Omo so many grow adults with childish thinking. No wonder there are so many divorce cases around these days.


Your case is understood.

So you are feeling inferior. she is not the cause of your inferiority.

So you sdnot call your siblings everyday. i guess you that is why you are an emotional wreck, you are most likely from a broken home with no love and no joy. Please dont tie someone daughter to your family curse.

Kankawormm:
Na me wear shoe.. Na me no where e d day pain me.. She goes to her mums place 3 times a week, calls her every morning speaking one edo language wey I no dey hear inside my matrimonial home, I just opened a chemical shop for her.. Anytime I come there to check up on her, her mum is always there.. So you see

Kobojunkie:
What you posited here is why I encourage couples to visit a professional marriage counselor when experiencing problems in marriage. All you noted are not situations that should lead to dissolution of a marriage at all. For one, that same mother, and the edo language, were all in the picture when you were still just dating your wife, was she not? So why make her into a problem after marriage?

My concern now is that you probably didn't learn the core reason why you both ran into problems, and might think next time you should date someone who will abandon mother and friend for you, only for some of the same core problems to rear their heads again in your life. This life is about learning from and taking responsibility for one's mistakes...not pretending it is everyone else's fault but yours.

fxexperts:
Look at this gigolo gold digger. for your mind you are man. sorry to inform you, you are just a little kid, with childish brain. Inferiority complex is your problem. Grow up kidoo..


Imagine these childish kids.

This guy is still a baby. Omo so many grow adults with childish thinking. No wonder there are so many divorce cases around these days.

You can imagine such a Statement from an adult with adult thinking.. Did you help pay for the bride price or is it your divorce.. You talk like a teenager!


Your case is understood.

So you are feeling inferior. she is not the cause of your inferiority.

So you sdnot call your siblings everyday. i guess you that is why you are an emotional wreck, you are most likely from a broken home with no love and no joy. Please dont tie someone daughter to your family curse.

Kankawormm:
1. Also note that in marriage, dissolution can also be a way forward.. May be by choosing a wrong partner, spiritual problems and other reasons...

3. E be like say you think say I like say I talk say I Don divorce..

Chuksworld:
My wife calls her mum every day too. That's how it has been since over 5 years. Nothing to worry about.

Blazadenise:
Most of you men just go into marriage without having marital knowledge, imagine question way this one they ask, beta calm down before Bp go kill you,think 40years into the future bros, imagine all you have spent on the kids they now got married your wife start calling her children to checkup on them.. A man somewhere is now trying to cut your daughter off her mother via there communication they been bonding with for years before u even came into the picture, Una no they even get small sense at all.naa pple like you they buy customize car for wife while your mum still jump from bike to bike up and down. Im very sure you Genz

Ezeego1:


I don't beat women anyway,

If you're a man you for collect wotowoto

Kobojunkie:
1. Ofcourse it should be a way forward, but for how many does it turn out to be just that?

2. LOL...Choosing a wrong partner... isn't that what most claim the problem to be yet we know that even opposites can coexist.

Which kain Spiritual problems abeg... una don carry babalawo lingo enter marriage give am high seat without even clear understanding of what it really implies.

3. You might as well be since you seem to consider yourself removed/divorced from your other half where it concerns the issues in your relationship. No be wetin divorce be about again? That you are still married on paper doesn't really mean you are not already divorced at heart.

Kankawormm:
Go and rest joor..
It's not your divorce o...
No kill yourself for my matter.. Na me divorce, no be you.. And we aren't related..

Kobojunkie:
Me? Kill myself over another person's hangups? I am not that kind of person.

vickydevoka:

You are right, but it's soo painful when it's too much

Danniedpastor:

My wife is not a topic for discussion... I didnt give room for that abinitio..
If your wife talks to her mother everyday... Get into their conversation by connecting with your mother Inlaw.

optionalY09:


This thing is manipulation technique, women do many things that we men find difficult to comprehend. They start very subtle but if you’re smart you will see the big plan.

For this guy the big idea is to make him feel uncomfortable with the distraction and react, so that the mother will

.complain of disrespect then everyone blame the guy for disrespecting the inlaw then they’ll bring him to his knees to apologize for disrespecting the inlaw — from there the control begins

Danniedpastor:


Bro, you can't conclude because you don't have all the details.
What I think the WiFi should do is look for ways to bring her husband closer to her family. The man should also get close to his wife's family.
Start calling your mother Inlaw to show Care. Call her before she calls and make sure she talks to her daughter... Del go tire for you.

optionalY09:


Control number 1,
“make it a priority to call your inlaw to show care” after that what’s next

Totilopussylick:
She is simply checking up on her daughter to know if your a responsible man enough for her .

hoduntz:
I don't understand this kind of checking Up everyday... Like 5 to 6 time a day

hoduntz:
I am having same issue presently, my mother in law calls like 5 to 6 times a day.. for your married daughter whose marriage is less than 2 years. Her inquisitiveness about the happening in our home is second to known. She literally call the shot in our home... No matter what I tell my wife whatever her mum says will be final. Whatever I tell her as secret, she will tell her mum.. and because I complain now she doesn't talk to me again and still call like before.... Like before we wake up in the morning. Its annoying... I don't even know what to do