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Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by haslaw(m): 9:15am On Nov 09, 2022 |
Adinije: All these "buy one get one free" people. Triangle marriages 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by fxexperts: 9:49am On Nov 09, 2022 |
FaithBrain1994:Look at this gigolo gold digger. for your mind you are man. sorry to inform you, you are just a little kid, with childish brain. Inferiority complex is your problem. Grow up kidoo.. haslaw:Imagine these childish kids. Kankawormm:This guy is still a baby. Omo so many grow adults with childish thinking. No wonder there are so many divorce cases around these days. Afodot0022:Your case is understood. ZIMDRILL:So you are feeling inferior. she is not the cause of your inferiority. aestake:So you sdnot call your siblings everyday. i guess you that is why you are an emotional wreck, you are most likely from a broken home with no love and no joy. Please dont tie someone daughter to your family curse. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by fxexperts: 9:50am On Nov 09, 2022 |
Kankawormm:The mum is now a threat to you i guess. jokers. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Adinije(f): 11:37am On Nov 09, 2022 |
haslaw:Slave master, ride on |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by haslaw(m): 11:41am On Nov 09, 2022 |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by optionalY09: 12:17pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
SURElee: Nobody is breaking family bond if they want to remain in their family bond they should remain in their house. They can’t eat their cakes and have it. Marriage is the beginning of another family the couple need time to understand each other so that they can form a strong bond. They do not need any excessive interference from any third party. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Danniedpastor(m): 12:30pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
MuslimMuslim:.forget it. They both relate as mother and daughter. Don't be sure you know ,when you don't really know. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Danniedpastor(m): 12:35pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
ZIMDRILL:My wife is not a topic for discussion... I didnt give room for that abinitio.. If your wife talks to her mother everyday... Get into their conversation by connecting with your mother Inlaw. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Kankawormm(f): 2:21pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
fxexperts:you are the joker.. Most of you contributing have never been married before.. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Adinije(f): 2:29pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
haslaw:I will not trade words with a non-entity. You have had enough of my attention. Bye. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by haslaw(m): 3:15pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Adinije: LOL... You can't take a small joke ![]() ![]() Oya sorry... |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by aestake: 3:55pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
fxexperts:How can you call someone every day? Jobless or what? |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Kobojunkie: 4:45pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Kankawormm:What you posited here is why I encourage couples to visit a professional marriage counselor when experiencing problems in marriage. All you noted are not situations that should lead to dissolution of a marriage at all. For one, that same mother, and the edo language, were all in the picture when you were still just dating your wife, was she not? So why make her into a problem after marriage? ![]() My concern now is that you probably didn't learn the core reason why you both ran into problems, and might think next time you should date someone who will abandon mother and friend for you, only for some of the same core problems to rear their heads again in your life. This life is about learning from and taking responsibility for one's mistakes...not pretending it is everyone else's fault but yours. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Kankawormm(f): 5:42pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I can't state all the reason here.. My life is not a thesis.. We have also been to marriage counseling before every one parted.. Na me wia shoe.. Na me know wia e dey pain me... Also note that in marriage, dissolution can also be a way forward.. May be by choosing a wrong partner, spiritual problems and other reasons... E be like say you think say I like say I talk say I Don divorce.. ![]() |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Kankawormm(f): 5:59pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
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Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Kobojunkie: 8:32pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Kankawormm:1. Ofcourse it should be a way forward, but for how many does it turn out to be just that? ![]() 2. LOL...Choosing a wrong partner... isn't that what most claim the problem to be yet we know that even opposites can coexist. ![]() Which kain Spiritual problems abeg... una don carry babalawo lingo enter marriage give am high seat without even clear understanding of what it really implies. ![]() 3. You might as well be since you seem to consider yourself removed/divorced from your other half where it concerns the issues in your relationship. No be wetin divorce be about again? That you are still married on paper doesn't really mean you are not already divorced at heart. ![]() |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by vickydevoka(m): 8:36pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Chuksworld:Try is with your mum or sister and know her reaction |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by vickydevoka(m): 8:38pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Blazadenise:You are right, but it's soo painful when it's too much |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Encyclopedia1: 10:59pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
Ezeego1:Well, the last time I checked when I got to the bathroom, I had a joystick under me so I don’t know where u got ur vision from. I guess green or black bottles are at work garnished with wrapping papers. � |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Kankawormm(f): 3:18am On Nov 10, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Go and rest joor.. It's not your divorce o... No kill yourself for my matter.. Na me divorce, no be you.. And we aren't related.. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Kobojunkie: 3:53am On Nov 10, 2022 |
Kankawormm:Me? Kill myself over another person's hangups? I am not that kind of person. ![]() |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Kankawormm(f): 7:20am On Nov 10, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Better.. Cheers |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Blazadenise(m): 7:36am On Nov 10, 2022 |
vickydevoka: It would fade away with time naturally |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by optionalY09: 12:39pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Danniedpastor: This thing is manipulation technique, women do many things that we men find difficult to comprehend. They start very subtle but if you’re smart you will see the big plan. For this guy the big idea is to make him feel uncomfortable with the distraction and react, so that the mother will complain of disrespect then everyone blame the guy for disrespecting the inlaw then they’ll bring him to his knees to apologize for disrespecting the inlaw — from there the control begins |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Danniedpastor(m): 4:46pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
optionalY09: Bro, you can't conclude because you don't have all the details. What I think the WiFi should do is look for ways to bring her husband closer to her family. The man should also get close to his wife's family. Start calling your mother Inlaw to show Care. Call her before she calls and make sure she talks to her daughter... Del go tire for you. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by optionalY09: 7:36pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Danniedpastor: Control number 1, “make it a priority to call your inlaw to show care” after that what’s next |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Danniedpastor(m): 8:22am On Nov 11, 2022 |
optionalY09:Keep caring... They are family too. |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by hoduntz(m): 8:26am On Dec 22, 2022 |
I am having same issue presently, my mother in law calls like 5 to 6 times a day.. for your married daughter whose marriage is less than 2 years. Her inquisitiveness about the happening in our home is second to known. She literally call the shot in our home... No matter what I tell my wife whatever her mum says will be final. Whatever I tell her as secret, she will tell her mum.. and because I complain now she doesn't talk to me again and still call like before.... Like before we wake up in the morning. Its annoying... I don't even know what to do |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by hoduntz(m): 8:37am On Dec 22, 2022 |
Totilopussylick:I don't understand this kind of checking Up everyday... Like 5 to 6 time a day |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Kobojunkie: 3:35am On Dec 25, 2022 |
hoduntz:You don't understand it because you don't have such a relationship with your own parents, right? Well, some folks out there are that close to their parents. That is not a bad thing that simply means their upbringing is different from yours. If you only want to engage that which agrees with your upbringing alone, then you might as well only engage your own siblings from the same mother and father in a relationship. ![]() |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Kobojunkie: 3:40am On Dec 25, 2022 |
hoduntz:Chances are they both connected regularly while you were dating her so you must have known prior to marrying her that she engaged her mother about that many times each day. Why you didn't discuss it then is beyond me. Why you present it as an issue now... ![]() I would not advise you to demand she disconnect from what may be her support (mother) as that may lead to unpalatable consequences for your marriage. Instead, you could talk to your wife about her presenting her own opinion rather than her mom's when there is a decision to be made in the house. Sadly, if she and her mother share similar opinions on issues there is nothing you can do about it really. ![]() |
Re: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by Kobojunkiee: 3:48am On Dec 25, 2022 |
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