Adun27:


We were not married when she cheated

How can you marry a woman that cheated on you while you both dating ?? Gooosssshhhh

PlayMaker14:
And you still went ahead to Wife her?


Damn....


E better make person born thief than to born MUMU.

I have so much disgust for the dude.. Such a big simp!!

PlayMaker14:
You're mistaking me for your Dad kid.


Good morning.

You need help boy

A butterfly trying to call himself a bird.

OP, your problem can't be solved, because you failed to do the needful,you don't monitor you Wife well,by supporting you Financially make you loose your sense,you allowed you lady keeps a male bestie that he's calling her asking about her welfare, don't you know it as gone to another things

jeff1607:


You need help boy

A butterfly trying to call himself a bird.

You need glasses to see where I advice him.... But since you were too quick to mistaking me for your Dad, you failed to see it.

unclejb2:
you need to go and make money.... Probably you married a hoe

She used her money to finance the marriage I guess.. she's a whorre anyway.

diogo23:

She is cheating on him, a woman can't deny her husband sex for complete three months without a reason. Somebody somewhere is doing it

Exactly.

That's it.
Like my neighbour is doing , and she gives me the gist cos we are close.
Baba no know why him wifey never gree wan fk am now for over 4months

emee701:
You should have seperated from her when she cheated. A cheating woman never stop cheating. Remember okafor's law

Please can you enlightened me about Okafor Law?

Divorce her and move on. Trust is a strong word for me and anyone who I cant trust, then no need to be there. Think twice mate

Moniya4Real:
I feel for you bro. Exactly what I experienced before she told me bluntly she was no longer interested in the marriage that I would meet someone else. A wife of over 12 hers with 2 boys aged 12 and 8 respectively/ No sooner had she left than her cheating escapades started flooding in. Thank God say I didn’t find out on time or else….. would have killed her. And interestingly, I never cheated on her-which she knew and attestatedto

How do married men living with cheating wife know he is the biological father of their kids ??
What if those kids are a product of one of her sexual escapades ??
Reason why DNA tests is very vital!

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

Do u mean she cheated before while married or while dating?

Dont let anyone make u conclude the is cheating even though it seems so.One thing is certain...shr doesn't respect u,thats why dhe still calls d boy even after ur quarrely advice is u lay low n say nothing.Set trap n catch her red handed.

Godmother:
The worst thing you can do is bring your marriage issue onto nairaland. By the time these small, small, unmarried folks with very little marriage experience finish with it, you'll be divorced, bitter, and full of regrets.

Why won't he be bitter and full of regrets when he obviously married a slut!

You didn't even address the issue or I forgot you are a female lol

If she really loves you, she won't do what will make you get angry, a reasonable and matured woman would have taken correction and stop all forms of communication with any one that will want to stand as an hindrance in a relationship.

PlayMaker14:
And you still went ahead to Wife her?


Damn....


E better make person born thief than to born MUMU.

This your comment off me oh,you don't even pity the OP, don't you know is under pressure already and you still add another one

Odebayo4010:


Please can you enlightened me about Okafor Law?

states that a pussy that has been bleeped can be bleeped again and again provided the fucker is available and constant

PlayMaker14:
I hereby ordain you as a FULL GROWN SIMP.


Damn, you're a complete weakling.

Lol. I remember that deliervance skit. Deliverance Celestyle

I dunno why a lot of women in their matrimonial homes are becoming too stupid these days all in the name of modernisation! This is something she would never have tried on you when you guys were dating!

Do they know that there is a phrase called emotional cheating? The moment your spouse feels threatened by any relationship of yours outside your matrimonial home; whether real or fake, you're expected to cut it off!!!

A wife is expected to be her husband's first child and the same goes for her husband!

Just as any responsible parent would terminate any relationship he or she considers harmful to her child in the long run, so should spouses behave!


The next thing she would say her husband is immature and insecure; their usual defensive language!!!!


Please if you are not ready for marriage, do not venture into it!!!!!!

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

you don't have a wife, you are just decieving yourself.
3 months without sex shows that you guys are not married.

nenyewrites:


Someone will see your advice now and think it's a normal person typing it, they won't know you were begging another nairalander to link you up with sugar mommies. Stupid advice by the way.

author=nenyewrites

ObedOkoro:
Lolzzzzzzzz..... Youre wicked

Life is not hard.. Just that hard women needs soft men to change while soft women need hard men to change.

Kobicove:
A wife that can connive with outsiders to steal from her husband is worse than a viper

Na death will reset the OP brain, he's more than fool

Adun27:


The reason I'm still doubting if she is cheating or not is because she is still breastfeeding my baby (11months old)

Do DNA first. No reason say d pikin resemble you. Ryan Giggs been dey kpansh Im brother wife for 10 years. Do DNA and confirm the child is yours.

emee701:
states that a pussy that has been bleeped can be bleeped again and again provided the fucker is available and constant

Please how can I read more about the law

olasaad:


This is too much do you want to kill somebody here.

You don't need to be selfish with what you Know you loose nothing giving it. It is more wickedness to deny a man sex for that long. Sex for men cures depression for men but if he doesn't provide. He may deserve the denial but not for that long, he should rather make room while in her for deeper discussions. Men make promises during sex and tend to keep it, if it's their wife providing the sweet sex.

Germi9:
Hack her WhatsApp with a spy app and monitor her chats but we. You do that please never talk about the issue again act like you have forgotten the whole matter

Please can you teach me about Spy App?

Odebayo4010:


Please can you teach me about Spy App?

Dm me in my bio

Germi9:

Dm me in my bio

I don't know how to send direct message on this Nairaland

zexy2030:
If ur wife denies u sex because she is breast feeding.. Sit her down and ask her questions she will tell you and if she insist, call one of her relations that is closer to her, report it. If it doesn't change, send her out or stay away outside ur home for a week. No call, no message, just act caring in the morning then lodge outside with either phones off or don't pick her calls. Then after 7days return home. If she asks you where u went don't reply her. Stop eating her food. Buy food and bring home. If she ask you why, tell her u r on a specific fast. If she ask u for money, promise u will give her and pretend u forgot. Watch her do and tell us what she will do next.

you earn my respect

zexy2030:

You don't need to be selfish with what you Know you loose nothing giving it. It is more wickedness to deny a man sex for that long. Sex for men cures depression for men but if he doesn't provide. He may deserve the denial but not for that long, he should rather make room while in her for deeper discussions. Men make promises during sex and tend to keep it, if it's their wife providing the sweet sex.

Many guys don't know we house wife too went through a lot of emotional depression. Most time we cried alone in our room before going out though I don't know what really causes it maybe we are just tired of the marital environment and how many men noticed this change in their wife very view that is why an outsider guys came in most of the time to talk this out with the depressed house wife and immediately our men see this they term it as cheating most time if this matter is not handled well, it will lead to divorce.

Me I always advocate that the house wife should be having a break by going back to our parents house to spend sometime there. At least when she comes back her mode will change positively. Whether you like it or not our husband house is tiring sometime most especially at the early stage of marriage.

Sex I don't deny my husband but I just do it for him sake because I don't want to deny him of his right.

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

...she has done the previous two and you went ahead to marry her!

You are a strong man oga!

Adun27:


The reason I'm still doubting if she is cheating or not is because she is still breastfeeding my baby (11months old)

Who told you a woman breastfeeding cannot cheat, I have seen pregnant women cheating countless time. That is even if you you are the true father of that child.