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Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by MorolayoVictor(m): 10:41am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Ah! |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Moh247: 10:42am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Sad.... Just take the matter to court to have peace of mind |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by BaddestQueen(f): 10:42am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Moh247:shatap 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by BaddestQueen(f): 10:43am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Moh247:shatap |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by RedpillAnalyst: 10:44am On Nov 17, 2022 |
They call them baby mama terrorists. Our women are now into is into kidnapping. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by DestinyNigga: 10:45am On Nov 17, 2022 |
She's afraid that you may not agree. For me, I will advise you to leave the girl for her. She's her child. She will take good care of her Helpout12345: 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Saintmary(f): 10:47am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: I am not in support of your ex in this case, if she really loves her children, she will take all of them at once. Someone is controlling her decision making. Involve the police immediately, tell them someone kidnapped your child and you suspect your ex, they will find her out, bring all family members to a meeting and tell you people what to do next concerning the children. All the best. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by gulfer: 10:51am On Nov 17, 2022 |
One angle I'm looking at is what if she's got an opportunity to Japa with the girl and already japaed as we speak |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by GloriousGbola: 10:53am On Nov 17, 2022 |
1) get/consult a lawyer 2) you need documentary evidence that your wife/ex wife abandoned the children with you 3) you need documentary evidence that you alone have been taking care of the children all this while. If you can successfully do this, you can demonstrate to a court of law via the lawyer that your ex wife is not a competent parent and will be a danger to the children. You have to move fast though. women in general are very good at poisoning the minds of their young children even more so in our setting. This assumes you have no baggage or story of your own, ( wife beating, you seized the children, etc) Note however that if you are not legally married ie a registry wedding you may not have any legal rights to the children. If you are, I beleive the laws of this country are more in your favor than in the mother's. This is why demonstrating abandonment and delinquency may be your best bet 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Rhozabeth(m): 10:53am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Get her and her brother arrested period!!! The police will tell u guys to go and settle it as it is a family issue but getting her arrested will make her not to try it again especially if you have legal custody by a court! 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Makinaki: 10:54am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Oga, pack well abeg. As far as I'm concerned, na women get pikin since na dem carry pikin for belle for 9 months. You luck sef say she leave the boys for you. 4 Likes |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by VULCAN(m): 10:55am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Under the law, it is possible to kidnap your own child. That you don't know it is possible means little. SILVERLINES: 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Justbehave(m): 10:57am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Makinaki:Says a fool who cannot identify with any gender due to inferiority complex 4 Likes |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Validated: 10:57am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Oga, please, read this SLOWLY, AGAIN & AGAIN No woman carry sugar for her waist. No woman can give your children more love than their mother. Even, your own mother cannot. I am not an advocate for divorce and I believe you can work out your differences, no matter how deeply entrenched they are. Even if it is infidelity. Are you perfect? Bring back your wife JUST BECAUSE OF YOUR CHILDREN. They are a priceless gift from God. A woman that gave you triplet cannot kill you, because she would need both of you to train them. Mind you, your mother could go home to rest with God anytime. Go and reconcile with your wife and see the joy your children will grow up with. JUST FIND A WAY TO BRING HER HOME FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR CHILDREN Do not create a deeper gulf in your family by going to police, lawyer, welfare, etc. Work on your marriage. Thtee wonderful words in every relationship are Sorry, forgive , and love. Can you say, I am SORRY? Can you forgive her? Just tell her! Do you still love her? Just say it Your next action: Stop the fight, Text her and say, "Dear, please, I am sorry, I forgive you because I still love you and the children". Hear what she replies. These words work wonders in marriages. By the way, I read your other topic about you and your wife. It all boil down to your lack of Finance. N55k is too small for your family of 5 plus your mother. Get other source of income sir 5 Likes |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by andy244: 11:00am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Helpout12345: Proper way or not she is with her mother at least. what is kidnap about this? Rest 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by joyandfaith: 11:01am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: She didn't kidnap your daughter. She came for her daughter. She might have seen some signs of maltreatment and took action. She even brought stuffs for them. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Prettychild(f): 11:02am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu:Can you imagine? Are you even supposed to be with any of the kids at such age? Haba! Unless it’s been proven that your wife is wayward, you are not meant to be with the children at such age. They are meant to be with their mother. 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Lexusgs430: 11:03am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: Parenting is the responsibility, of both parents..... You would have to seek legal redress, so a shared custody format, can be worked out ....... What arrangements did you have in place, for their joint custody........... 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by BRATISLAVA: 11:03am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: On what grounds is the girl your daughter and not hers? Why should all her children be in your custody, when it's clear it's your mother who is actually physically caring for them and not you? 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by GVTAsiwaju(m): 11:04am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Why do you people take harsh decisions against someone you once claimed you loved? There are better and peaceful ways to go about things, not necessarily in a war way redseason: 3 Likes |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Lexusgs430: 11:05am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Prettychild: Even if the children's mother is wayward.......... He saw her a wayward and still had children with her .......... 3 Likes |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by BRATISLAVA: 11:06am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Lexusgs430: Seems the arrangement with himself is that he owns all the children. |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by FireUpNow(m): 11:06am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Try to locate her in Lagos. She is the mother of the girl as you are the father. You alone do not have the sole custody of the kids. I believe she has a reason for taking her along. Please be slow to anger |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Mraaz(m): 11:08am On Nov 17, 2022 |
i need to report you
how can a mother kidnap her daughter
you must be high on something |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by BRATISLAVA: 11:08am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Rhozabeth: Arrested for what? 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Prettychild(f): 11:10am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Lexusgs430:Well, I am just telling you how the law will react to this |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by Lexusgs430: 11:10am On Nov 17, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: That's why he put her in corner, hence her ploy to collect only one pickin back........... This is what happens when one person think say hin get sense, pass the other........ |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by NoToPile: 11:11am On Nov 17, 2022 |
So many hilarious responses here. OP and his wife has a long history here jare. But the girl was with her at some point and you were sending 5k for food money which she was complaining of when did she bring her back? If she did bring her back to the village she only came to take her back then. Maybe she's now better financially that's why she took her back. OP's matter is not even as it's being painted the girl was initially with the wife. The only major problem with the OP and his wife following all thir threads is finances, more reason why the mother couldn't stay with all the children. God will provide. Amen. |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by chris51(f): 11:11am On Nov 17, 2022 |
Helpout12345: If she did it proper way they will not allow her. The girl is better with her biological mother |
Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by chris51(f): 11:11am On Nov 17, 2022 |
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