Blessedmercy8:
Why you no want

Southboy:
Because her getting pregnant was a mistake, I'm not even sure I'm responsible but that's a story for another day.

Also I have some1 I want to marry that is currently stayhying with me.

Blessedmercy8:



Why you no want her to stay? That time when the thing dey sweet, you want her to stay till day break, you didn't know what you were creating down for yourself? Now you don't want? Hahaha.. you lie!

I don't know whether they no longer teach people that sex can cause pregnancy because the way most people come here sounding as if they didn't know it will result to pregnancy and try to shy away from it like it's someone else's fault is what I don't get.

Once you start being sexually active, just get ready to father a child at any time with whoever you're doing it with ( side or main chicken) cos e no dey give warning before it enters. You have to guard against something if you're not ready for it. Not after exposing yourself to what will bring problems,. You now start running away from the problems. Face it squarely, shey na man you be? Abi na only on top bed?
Man up and take up you responsibility, Biko.

You still have mouth to be mentioning the other girl. So it's now you remember you have someone you want to marry?

This is one thing that has made me lose respect for men. No single respect for relationship again. You knew very well you were going to settle down soon, whyyyyyy... Why did you keep sleeping raw with another girl? See how you men just expose someone to disease and you want to tell the girl so she can do what? Give you a pat on the back or help you fight the other girl and chase her away? You dey reason at all...

Abeg I'm out!

Southboy:
Thank you. I guess u didn't comprehend my post before typing.
I never said I'm not going to take responsibility.
What I need answer to is if the law says she must stay with me during this pregnancy phase.

Blessedmercy8:


I understood your post to the letter and I saw clearly you accepted the pregnancy but not in totality because you're kicking against her moving in with you. She should move in with you because you're responsible for the pregnancy therefore are going to be responsible for her and everything she's going to need throughout the period of the pregnancy.

She needs your support both physically and emotionally through this journey, which can only be possible in your house. Or do you want to put the burden on her parents who are clearly not ready for such? Na Dem give her belle?

By right, you take full responsibility of the girl and her pregnancy and NO! The law is not against such. If you take the matter to court, the parents will win.

Congratulations.
Safe delivery o.

Southboy:
Thank you once again. I appreciate ur reaponse

izzou:
In 2013, you were a lady having menstrual issues

In 2022, you are a guy having sex, becoming a father and getting married to another lady

Your confusion lies with you not even knowing your gender

Blessedmercy8:


You are welcome baba ibeji.

Wait,.. abeg, let me ask you. do you love her? Like... does pass for someone you can marry? Is she up to "standard"? ( E no matter)

RZArecta:
They can't bamboozle you. Agree on a set amount you'll be sending for her upkeep and make sure you stick to it. Your problem is with madam staying in your house, she might call off the wedding which she has every right to. Next time, use a damn rubber when knacking all these careless instead of causing trauma for yourself

Southboy:
This is not my account

Southboy:
No I don't, I can't even marry the persoupn that's the issue

Blessedmercy8:
Why you no want her to stay? That time when the thing dey sweet, you want her to stay till day break, you didn't know what you were creating down for yourself? Now you don't want? Hahaha.. you lie!

I don't know whether they no longer teach people that sex can cause pregnancy because the way most people come here sounding as if they didn't know it will result to pregnancy and try to shy away from it like it's someone else's fault is what I don't get.

Once you start being sexually active, just get ready to father a child at any time with whoever you're doing it with ( side or main chicken) cos e no dey give warning before it enters. You have to guard against something if you're not ready for it. Not after exposing yourself to what will bring problems,. You now start running away from the problems. Face it squarely, shey na man you be? Abi na only on top bed?
Man up and take up you responsibility, Biko.

You still have mouth to be mentioning the other girl. So it's now you remember you have someone you want to marry?

This is one thing that has made me lose respect for men. No single respect for relationship again. You knew very well you were going to settle down soon, whyyyyyy... Why did you keep sleeping raw with another girl? See how you men just expose someone to disease and you want to tell the girl so she can do what? Give you a pat on the back or help you fight the other girl and chase her away? You dey reason at all...

Abeg I'm out!

Ishilove:

When chop and clean mouth goes wrong

Blessedmercy8:


But you can sleep with her? SMH..

That's the price you pay for trying to play smart. You can't have your cake and eat it.
You have no choice but to marry her.

Southboy:
No choice u say?

Annad1:
Hello Nairalanders,


What does the law say about this?

Southboy:
Because her getting pregnant was a mistake, I'm not even sure I'm responsible but that's a story for another day.

Also I have some1 I want to marry that is currently stayhying with me.

kkins25:
come na annad1 open thread, but na south something they reply.. what's going on here?

Blessedmercy8:
Why do you not want her to stay? That time when the thing dey sweet, you want her to stay till day break, you didn't know what you were creating down for yourself? Now you don't want? Hahaha.. you lie!

I don't know whether they no longer teach people that sex can cause pregnancy because the way most people come here sounding as if they didn't know it will result to pregnancy and try to shy away from it like it's someone else's fault is what I don't get.

Once you start being sexually active, just get ready to father a child at any time with whoever you're doing it with ( side or main chicken) cos e no dey give warning before it enters. You have to guard against something if you're not ready for it. Not after exposing yourself to what will bring problems,. You now start running away from the problems. Face it squarely, shey na man you be? Abi na only on top bed?
Man up and take up you responsibility, Biko.

You still have mouth to be mentioning the other girl. So it's now you remember you have someone you want to marry?

This is one thing that has made me lose respect for men. No single respect for relationship again. You knew very well you were going to settle down soon, whyyyyyy... Why did you keep sleeping raw with another girl? See how you men just expose someone to disease and you want to tell the girl so she can do what? Give you a pat on the back or help you fight the other girl and chase her away? You dey reason at all...

Abeg I'm out!