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This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Chee59(f): 7:20pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
TO THE MEN ESPECIALLY. Please if you can't afford to be physically, emotionally and financially there for your children, you don't need to have children. I'm begging you with so much pain. Child neglect is abuse. And abuse ruins life. Don't bow to pressure to have kids if you know you're not ready. It's better to have a dead parent than a negligent parent. 65 Likes 9 Shares
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Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Jennyclay(f): 7:26pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
If you choose to distance your emotions from your children, good for you. If you choose to be emotionally attached to your children, good for you. What ever you sow is what you reap. 259 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Chee59(f): 7:29pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
It is not masculinity to abandon your offspring. You brought them into this world. Don't think your only duty is to buy food and pay school fees. As much as possible, be present in their daily lives. Don't let toxic masculinity destroy your home. I'm begging you. Please. Those children NEED you. They need your presence. They need your attention. Get involved in their daily lives. Ask them important questions about their lives. Affirm them. Speak positively over their lives. Please never curse them. 235 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Bethanybethel(f): 7:33pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
You are right my dad is paying the price for abandoning us with our sick mother. He have some health issues I have decided not to help him, he will suffer until his last breath on earth.. 85 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Chee59(f): 8:13pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
Jennyclay:Exactly. But they'll say the woman brainwash the kids. 29 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Chee59(f): 8:15pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
Bethanybethel:Please. I'm begging you, even if you don't want to give him the money directly, give to your mom with instructions for him. I can't ask you to forgive him. But please. I know what it is to be neglected. It's something I won't wish on my enemy. But please, reconsider. Just please. 207 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by culf: 10:47pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
being a friend to your children is priceless. May God help us 90 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Davidave(m): 11:02pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
Bethanybethel: If he didn’t take the responsibility he was supposed to, he doesn’t deserved the sympathy he expects from you. 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Treassured: 11:16pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
Okay Noted. 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by ibkayee(f): 11:48pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
When they don’t receive even as much as a bottle of epa on their 50th birthday, but mummy is showered with all sorts of love they will realise you can only reap what you sow into the hearts of your children. They won’t be young kids forever and they don’t forget 72 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Nobody: 1:32am On Dec 21, 2022 |
Chee59: That tweet you posted wasn't referring to finance, it was emotional attachment. A lot of fathers are actually financial there but not emotional & physical. So money was never the issue. Nick cannon will also have that problem because he has so many kids but not enough time to spend with each of them because the mothers are spread across North America. They will end up hating him in few years. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 3:16am On Dec 21, 2022 |
ibkayee:When that happens, it is conveniently interpreted to mean that mummy poisoned the hearts of the kids against their father. The woman is always at fault where the average Nigerian father is concerned. 39 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 3:20am On Dec 21, 2022 |
truthsayer009:That boy was raised by his grandmother and not his father, so what do you expect from him? He thinks having kids everywhere is how he gets to plug up the hole of loneliness inside of his being. 14 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by seanwilliam(m): 7:35am On Dec 21, 2022 |
Bethanybethel:Same fate will befall you in your old age. Some of you spend so much on women/people who have never contributed shishi to your life. So u want to tell me that your father never for once contributed anything to your life? Even when you were young and know nothing ? I can see your mom really poisoned your mind. Good luck . Anyway I buy all gift cards and funds( cashapp, greendot, PayPal,zelle, Moneycard skrill,perfect money , Neteller,money gram , western union etc) And WeChat payment all @ your rate . I sell cheap unit /bulk google voice/ Netflix log, vpn ,rdp. 61 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by ibkayee(f): 9:12am On Dec 21, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:It's happening already, accusations of the mum poisoning the kids against their father to shift blame for the dad's failings If you treat your kids well they will recognise it, eventually they grow up from the impressionable children they were to adults who can observe for themselves. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by nicerod(m): 9:15am On Dec 21, 2022 |
Awon werey motivational speakers Will just wake up one day and be spewing thrash 3 Likes
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Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Ifailed22: 9:45am On Dec 21, 2022 |
Chee59:On point. How i wish can go back and correct the mistake. 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by KanwuliaExtra: 10:10am On Dec 21, 2022 |
You can't give what you never received or don't have. Shikena. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Richy4(m): 10:45am On Dec 21, 2022 |
truthsayer009: I so much hated the fact that he used to have stuffs to do with my dearest Mariah Carey...The fact that she was even included in his statistics is heart breaking.. 7 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Chee59(f): 11:55am On Dec 21, 2022 |
truthsayer009:Financially is part of everything. 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Chee59(f): 11:56am On Dec 21, 2022 |
KanwuliaExtra:You can learn. You have a mind, you can learn. Only if you want to. But no excuses. 5 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by jaszplus12(m): 12:30pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
Bethanybethel:Be at peace sir, forgive him and let him understand that life isn't about how he lived it! His "punishment" will be him receiving what he deliberately refused to give you all... Seeing you giving it to him so effortlessly.... Try it bro... I was a victim... 22 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Farrason: 12:34pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
Bethanybethel: You will regret this the day he breathes his last. Posterity never forgets and two wrongs can never make a right. You will also bear children someday and understand somethings that you were never thought. Don't get me wrong... He might deserve your judgement on him but this leaves you to be judged by your own actions too. Karma is a BITCH!! 36 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Chee59(f): 1:19pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
Farrason:Any good done for a parent who neglected their children is only because of God. That's why you see me pleading with him. Good parents deserved to be cared for in old age. Negligent parents deserve what they've sown. Anything else is a product of mercy. 42 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by 1Sharon(f): 2:55pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
And men wonder why mothers day is more popular than fathers day.. It's because the mothers are always there, they know their kids in and out. 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Nobody: 3:12pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
Richy4: Musicians are not people you should rate or emulate though, majority are very shallow and only few are left out. I don't hold any musician in high regard at all. 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by ChukwukaEze: 5:11pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
Chee59:O.K. I'll do as you said. 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by ChukwukaEze: 5:21pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
Bethanybethel:My guy if anything happens to that man, you will take the responsility you think you are running away from, in his death. You think you can change your paternity. You are indepted to him NOW in the same way you think he was to you. No go help your DADDY. Guy no vex me oo 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 5:35pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
ChukwukaEze:1.Why in the world is he meant to be saddled with the responsibility of taking care of a man who squandered his time on earth without making certain he would be adequately cared for in his old age? 2. Is "paternity" meant as some sort of burden an offspring to bear or what? Indebted to him for squirting you out as sperm from his dick? 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by ChukwukaEze: 5:50pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Because at that point he would call to the mind of the Dad, all his forgone responsibilities. At this point, he would teach him the lesson he has learned from being negleted; never to neglete anyone. Anything more soothing than that? And if he lives . . . you think about that. 2 You would stand see someone you could help expire? C'mon that dude's diction is not friendly. He could even take the Dad's life if he is given the chance. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 6:00pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
ChukwukaEze:1. Why in the world would one waste one's time teaching an adult what he or she ought to have learned in life? Isn't one's time and effort best used in teaching the wisdom gained from one's experience to the next generation? There is a popular saying which goes "as you lay your bed, so you lie in it", so shouldn't the father shouldn't be allowed to lie in the bed that he laid for himself? 2. Someone I could help? There are millions out there I could help. Why does it have to be that one and not the others? What has friendliness to do with this? 22 Likes |
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