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Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by tete7000(m): 2:41pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Bethanybethel: He is your father and if its within your capability to help, you owe that as an obligation,if you don't, it will be counted against you just as you are counting his against him. An eye for an eye, they say leave everyone blind. Leave God to judge. |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by phemmyfour: 2:43pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Jennyclay:So how do we get a balance |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by phemmyfour: 2:46pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Bethanybethel:The joke is on you. It will be on record that you shy away from your responsibility. Whatever you do or don't do at/for his burial is insignificant. |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by goshen26: 2:53pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Bethanybethel: Wow!!! Please, for God sake, if God has blessed you please support him. Forget whatever he has done in the past Please, please, I beg you in the name of God. Whatever you give him God will replenish you 10 times. My dad also neglected us for another woman, and the woman left him to marry former husband. My dad came back home but died not long after. He did not eat from our fruits now So if God has blessed you, please help him. |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Jennyclay(f): 2:56pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
phemmyfour:I've already balanced it by saying "what ever you sow is what you reap" If you're NOT emotionally attached to your children, then don't expect your children to be emotionally attached to you when you are old because that's what you sow. I mean, I why would you have a child and not be emotionally attached to him/her? . Is that not foolishness? 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 3:14pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
ubimagos:It ain't natural at all. 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by jaxxy(m): 3:15pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Jennyclay: is that a threat?? Lol |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by DarkJeddi(m): 3:19pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
1Sharon:Why won't Mother's Day be more popular? You celebrate 10 mother's Day in a year.. And yet your type would still rain on the parade of Father's Day,with for the deserving fathers out there.. As if all Mothers are deserving.. |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by DarkJeddi(m): 3:20pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Jennyclay:Why the bleating up and down? You have already made it clear severally,that men are scum.. Why are you ventilating up and down on the same scum? |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by shortgun(m): 3:34pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Bethanybethel: I am laughing at your stupidity I swear. Give me the old man's contact let me assist him. I used to think that the old people I see suffering never had kids, I didn't know they gave birth to people like you. 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Afodot0022(m): 3:36pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Even though i will say the poster has some point, in other way, its complex, like for me , when i was younger i wasnt that close to my dad, he was this kinda dad that when you hear his car horn, everyone will scatter cos he was though and very discipline, at then i thought he was wicked but when i grew up and became a man and also start having my kids, i start having understanding and even yern to get close to my dad now and also be there to take care of him but unfortunately he died many years ago. Despite being strict and discipline, i still wish he was alive and even love him unto death more than my mum that is still alive now. So this things varies . To some of you that are neglecting your parents now because they were not there for u or otherwise,i pray you have wisdom and do you own bit as child to your parents irrespective of what u went through. That is the command of God, honor your father and your mother so that your days will be long. He didnt said until they take care of you or were they for you, its an automatic command irrespective of any condition 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Nobody: 3:38pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Bethanybethel: Nobody should be allowed to eat their cake and have it. 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by shortgun(m): 3:38pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
seanwilliam:Don't mind the emotionally immature man, these are the kind of "men" we have these days. They are the reason marriages and the family life is falling apart. 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by phemmyfour: 4:08pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Jennyclay:Exactly, it's something that comes naturally |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by etrange: 4:14pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Toxic masculinity is a very big issue in the black community. 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by kk2027: 4:17pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
tete7000: Whatever a man soweth he reapeth, the bible is clear Enough of the emotional Blackmail Let those his father helped, help him. You dont speak orange and reap mango 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by blazepascal(m): 4:17pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Jennyclay:seconded |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by blazepascal(m): 4:18pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Bethanybethel:pls reconsider |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by kk2027: 4:19pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
shortgun: The child suffered emotional negligence from his father. Infact there are kids you'd think they never had a father I never knew they had fathers like the poster's father 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Juleeee: 4:20pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Bethanybethel: If you can help please do, mine might even be worst then yours self, But when he need financial help I did the best I could for him. |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Mcslize: 4:22pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Na wa o. This Eric don dey teach rubbish. |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by kk2027: 4:22pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
phemmyfour:Lol hope you preached this to his father when he left his kids out in the cold with their sick mother. What if they died during that time? He reaps what he sowed, it's up to his wife and kids to forgive Blackmail has no place here 5 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by od501: 4:30pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
seanwilliam: Good reply. I felt really sorry for the guy. Typical product of a single mother. 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by kk2027: 4:32pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
od501: Only God knows what that single mother went through to raise those kids. Let the father that neglected his own innocent childrdn go and reap where he sowed. The bold is the more reason the man deserves no sympathy 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by kk2027: 4:35pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Juleeee: Thats the problem If every deadbeat man should begin to reap what they sowed, we wont have them again in the society. No reason in this world justifies a man abandoning kids he donated sperm to make 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by ceragon123: 4:50pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
I get you very very well. Let's not open up here. If I tell him a real live story he will shiver. Truth is, karma is sure. When your children are watching as you are dealing with your father because of his failures, they will set up your own punishment in other places that you have disappointed them. We must never forget that we are not perfect and the aim should always be a chance for a new beginning of goodness that will bind the family with love. Our actions are being copied in a very special way by close family and friends and only God knows what the people we are teaching with our actions will reproduce. dalass: |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Nobody: 4:54pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Thats true o epecialy from mother who would the boys over girls |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Nobody: 4:54pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
kk2027: Okay agreed you're provoked. Women can actually make you misbehave. Whatever the case may be, I plead on his behalf. Don't let him die helplessly. Forgive him. |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by zoedew: 4:58pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Chee59:Parents who abandon their children will have for their reward residency in the old people’s home all expenses paid! |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by OfficialP: 5:17pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
seanwilliam: Thats the problem, most mothers do this, turning the hearts of their children against their dad. No matter what, it's wrong. As a child when you grow up, you should know better at least |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Backpedal: 5:44pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Farrason:Nothing go do am |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Backpedal: 5:46pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
OfficialP:That's on the one hand On the other hand many dad's in Nigeria are deadbeat Let's not pretend about it A child (especially male) never forgives a dad who emotionally and physically abused the mom; and then left her for another woman (not saying that happened to the guy you quoted; I'm just saying ) When we live our lives today as men We should also remember that there is tomorrow 1 Like |
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