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Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by kk2027: 7:54pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: Loud it bro loud it Deadbeats dad must reap what they sow Same goes for any mom that neglects her kids God cannot be mocked, you sow mango, you reap mango 4 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Nobody: 7:54pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: He came back home when he was diagnosed that he has cancer of the lungs. I just had to forgive him. I know you're hurt. But please forgive him and take care of him, trust if you don't and he dies, you will one day feel bad you didn't. Just look away and forgive him, please. |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 7:56pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
dalass:Stop dragging God into the muck that is humans abeg! ![]() God said to forgive, but He did not say that after you forgive, sit back and allow the hurt to continue. Your future depends on you making wise decisions in your life now and one very wise thing to do is to run away from that which causes you to hurt. Don't sit back and allow it to continue— doing so is what an imbe_cile would do. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by seunmsg(m): 7:59pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: You mean we should blame the parents for the decision of children like these? 1 Like
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Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 8:02pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
seunmsg:How do you go about blaming the children when the parents refuse to put aside enough money for their own retirement and care in old age? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by seunmsg(m): 8:27pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Are we not saying the same thing at the end of the day? My message is clear; parents should make adequate plan for their retirement outside of their children. Parents should stop making their children their retirement plan. Period. 4 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 8:31pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
seunmsg:So, long as you are not suggesting that children today are worse but instead parents are finally reaping the consequence of their foolishness in not planning for their own retirement, sure. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Topshow2010(m): 8:38pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Bethanybethel: My Kobo advice to you is to let God be the one to deal with him (I believed he is reaping it already) and not you paying him back so as not incur curse to ursef and ur lineage. God won't deal with u dt ur dad was wrong but based on ur own course of actions to ur parent. |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by BRATISLAVA: 8:39pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Baddosqqi: I'm not the poster who wants their father to suffer, though I can see reasons why they would want that. Kudos to you for forgiving him. Hopefully you will extend that kindness to as many as require it. It's not easy forgiving a person who doesn't deserve it and will never ask for it. But for your healing, it's a good step. |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 8:40pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Topshow2010:Where did God state this? ![]() Please and please do quote from the Old Law of Moses, the National Constitution of the Nation of the Nation of Israel, which God gave only to Israel in the Land of Canaan - Deuteronomy 30 vs 15 - 20 - ![]() |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by kk2027: 8:45pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Topshow2010: Liar Fear God abeg |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by deavicky(m): 8:55pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Bethanybethel:this is exactly what brings generational curse. You can not take that father hood from him. You also do not know how many options was left for him before he chooses to abandoned ur mother as you claim. Above all try not to pay evil with evil |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:59pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
toxtimmy: forgiveness is not like an ON switch that you can flip to turn, its a process that either one has to go through on their own and shown through therapy or teachings by someone forgiveness process is like falling in love, you fall in love becoz someone has told you to, at process that happens either through your desires or how someone treats you Most people they with have to heal or accept what happened then they forgive |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 9:07pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
deavicky:1.Stop lying ! Being a sperm donor doesn't confer on anyone godhood. ![]() 2. So he may have had a valid reason to abandon his own children, leaving them in the dark, is what you are trying to say here? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by dominique(f): 9:17pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Baddosqqi: WHEN will you people ever take responsibility for your misbehaviour? When?!?!?! Are you people so weak-willed that women control your actions and behaviours? This disgusting mindset that you can behave anyhow because you can conveniently blame women for your bad behaviours has to stop! A REAL man owns up to his fuckups not shift blames 4 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Nobody: 9:18pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Jennyclay: First ever sensible quote from Jennyclay |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by OnweGodspower: 9:20pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Let us be careful in all we do or say, stand aside and check both your parents life. It will help you but standing for one and you did not find out the truth it will still back fire. Am Onwe Godspower |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by NezzyMike: 9:45pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
ChukwukaEze: He will take responsibility for the man's foolishness? I guess you never experienced such sha. Some fathers can be ruthless and WIC.ked and even transfer it to mumcy 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by ukaface(f): 10:23pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Jennyclay:gbam! |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by adedayoa2(f): 10:48pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
seunmsg:even if they do have a retirement plan, I don't see anything wrong in taking care of parents, they took care of the children when they were young, part of their monies went into the needs of the children. |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 10:51pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
adedayoa2:Nothing wrong but don't intend for your life to be a planned Burden on your children just because your birthed them. That is you intentionally shackling them when you can choose not to. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by adedayoa2(f): 11:32pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:it is when you don't have plenty, you see your parent as a burden, may our children not see us as burden. |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 11:36pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
adedayoa2:Look around you in Nigeria. How many people have plenty to handle the medical bills and expenses to caring for an older parent when they don't even know when their next meal is coming from? ![]() Pray that you don't make yourself a burden to your children instead. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by adedayoa2(f): 12:50am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:I have looked around me, and I see people who can take care of themselves and their parents, despite their parents having more than they do. It is just a norm to them, it is not a burden. |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 1:04am On Jan 01, 2023 |
adedayoa2:Really? So stories we hear of poverty is all a myth then? ![]() |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by azizsystem(m): 1:33am On Jan 01, 2023 |
SPAMBOX7:Lol bro. I'm also his follower too and I'm a member of his telegram channel.. that guy is literally worshipped like a god in Kenya. His followers swallow everything he says hook,line and sinker |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by azizsystem(m): 1:42am On Jan 01, 2023 |
GloriousGbola:Lol.that guy Eric is a very popular figure in Kenya. Infact he's the "Rollo tomassi" of Kenya. His followers who are widespread throughout Africa literally worship him on Twitter be and his telegram channel |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 2:16am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Father4all:And that in turn justifies the neglect they suffered? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 2:17am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Sepviour:Please consider getting professional mental health counseling this year so you can wrap up those wounds of your past and get them to heal soon. That way you can move past them to enjoy life too. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 2:20am On Jan 01, 2023 |
ghiloman28:Stop using God's name to lie abeg! ![]() |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 2:23am On Jan 01, 2023 |
mansoor093:When did God state His mercy depends on any of what you claim? This New Year, try to stop using the name of God to trade what are lies born of your personal delusions abeg! ![]() |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 2:27am On Jan 01, 2023 |
hopexter:Technically, couldn't it be said then that the Father is reaping what he sowed? Why do you wish for her to interfere? ![]() 1 Like |
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