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Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by fadilaMaikiriki: 4:57pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Hello all! Please, what does it mean when a man says you should not go and meet another man. That any man that asks you out, you should tell him you're married. Then when you now tell the man that saying you're married when you're not will mean you're lying. So, he then goes further to say you should tell them (any man that asks you out) you're taken. I want to know what that means. What does he mean by that? As a lady here, have you gotten such talk from someone before? Please, how did you handle it? And as a man, what do you mean when you say that to a lady, or what does it mean when a man says it to a lady. Thanks. |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by ifihearam: 5:09pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
If I get you correctly, your man is demanding you tell every other man who asks you out that you are taken yes? It simply means he wants you to scare off every man and wants you to himself...that does not mean he loves you because if he really wants you all by himself then he should do the needful by marrying you. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by fadilaMaikiriki: 5:18pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
ifihearam:Thanks. But, it's not been long we met, though. |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by Berrityga: 7:36pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
What's all this nah?? Why are you disturbing our peace with your poor English?? My eyes dey pain me nah. Your guy is an asshooollee very insecure and childish. Fake ass loyalty. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by faithfull18(f): 8:57pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
You are single as long as you aren't married. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by Richy4(m): 9:08pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Trying to mark his territory... Section 19 subsection 34 of the Bro code Act of 1845 << He is into you.. << You are beautiful..he knows it but he can't face the competition of keeping you due to life challenges that made him not to come out strong.. << He is hopeful that it will be okay and he will over come whatever it was that was holding him back and then show how much he cares.. << Hence his oral statement for you to have it at the back of your mind.. 1 Like |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by onumadu: 9:26pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
He is a very dangerous man. You should run away as soon as you can! Men like that are never good for marriage. He is insecure already even without marrying you. Men like that kill their wives at the slightest suspicion of infidelity. You cannot help his insecurity. So, RUN while you are still free. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by ibkayee(f): 10:28pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
He sounds like a nutcase |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by fadilaMaikiriki: 11:19pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
onumadu:Hmmmm. But, he seems like a nice man and knows how to respect a woman. |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by fadilaMaikiriki: 11:22pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
ibkayee:Really? Why did you say so though? But, he seems like a nice man though. |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by fadilaMaikiriki: 11:23pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Richy4:He's well to do though. |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by fadilaMaikiriki: 11:24pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
faithfull18:Yes, sure. But, I just want to know what he meant by that. |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by Richy4(m): 11:35pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
fadilaMaikiriki:It is not all about money... There's a 'demon' that he's fighting within him that u have not yet figured out... Which is making him to hesitate and come out strong...Try and find it out... I hate to speculate but my guts tells me that he's two timing U...He doesn't wanna let you go because he's into you..But will definitely offend the other if he lets her go and focused solely on U... Usually people that says things like that were sugar daddies... They can't leave their wife and they can't leave you as a mistress as well... Hence wasting the woman's time... Just be vigilant Okay |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by ZIMDRILL(m): 12:14am On Jan 12, 2023 |
fadilaMaikiriki: how old are you? the guy is indirectly saying he is your man he is asking you out indirectly He is telling you to tell any man interested to back off for him hence he telling ( to tell them you are married or taken ) reserving you for himself I think he excpected you ask him (who am i married to or who has taken me ) then he was going to say "himself" that way you have done the job for him " asking you out " 2 Likes |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by fadilaMaikiriki: 12:47am On Jan 12, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL:I didn't say anything again after that. |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by fadilaMaikiriki: 12:51am On Jan 12, 2023 |
Richy4:Thanks for your input. He's single though. But, I'm still confused even. |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by onumadu: 1:51am On Jan 12, 2023 |
fadilaMaikiriki: Wait until you marry him... Una no dey hear until too late. An insecure man is the worst type of a man to marry. QUOTE ME. I am talking from experience of close family members. The one man was just like this your guy until she married him. The result of that mistake was her death after having four children for him. She was my auntie. The other family member married someone exactly like yours . He is RICH and has a house in Lekki. Result is that she is currently going through HELL because of his insecurities. She is my niece. Run before too late. Money means nothing when your life is at stake. 1 Like |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:52am On Jan 12, 2023 |
fadilaMaikiriki: then his plan didnt work |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by Richy4(m): 1:54am On Jan 12, 2023 |
fadilaMaikiriki:If u were still confused, it's about time U ask him what he meant...I believe he won't point a gun at u for doing so . |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by Mindlog: 3:24am On Jan 12, 2023 |
fadilaMaikiriki: Then it is a huge waving red flag because he is very likely obsessive and controlling, saying such so early in a relationship. You should always remind yourself that you are not married neither are you taken. 1 Like |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by fadilaMaikiriki: 7:44am On Jan 12, 2023 |
Mindlog:Yes, true. I just hope this man meant good for me. Thanks for your input. |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by fadilaMaikiriki: 7:45am On Jan 12, 2023 |
Richy4:Yes, I'll try and do so when the avenue presents itself. I just hope he meant well for me. |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by fadilaMaikiriki: 7:48am On Jan 12, 2023 |
onumadu:Hmmmm na wa oo. From now on, I won't put all my mind totally on him. Thanks for your input. Onumadu, the former reply was a mistake. I put I'll instead of I won't. I've corrected it already. I'm calling your attention to it in case you saw the first reply, so you'll know what I really meant. Thank you. |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by fadilaMaikiriki: 8:00am On Jan 12, 2023 |
Thanks to you all for your inputs. Please keep them coming. From now on, I won't put all my mind totally on him. I'm glad I brought this here. I was sceptical about bringing it here because I didn't know how you all were going to react to it. 1 Like |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by 234GT(m): 8:34am On Jan 15, 2023 |
A good man will be wooing you and convincing you to marry him, not asking you to chase other men away. Be careful and open all your senses. 2 Likes |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by onumadu: 3:33pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
234GT: Spot on. Thanks ! He should be busy being SERIOUS with her, rather than chasing men away. Once he demonstrates seriousness, she (I assume she is a good woman ) will reserve herself for him, NATURALLY. Only bad women still philander after a man has shown seriousness. 1 Like |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by Foodqueen(f): 6:57pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Don't mind him. It's one of their tactics to make u think his truly in love with you and wants to marry. |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by Meandmycrew(f): 8:14pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
He is insecure and over possessive, never you date or marry an insecure man. Red flag, this kind of people can go the extra mile to torment your life! 1 Like |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by Stargurl20(f): 10:00am On Jan 16, 2023 |
Don't answer him o.... If you like your self |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by Saintmary(f): 3:00pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by fadilaMaikiriki: 8:34pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Saintmary:I'm in my twenties. But, why did you ask though? |
Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by fadilaMaikiriki: 8:34pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Meandmycrew:Hmmmm. |
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