ElijahIme1992:
I am sorry to bring dis here, pls any one dat knows Romanoff should tell him to leave me alone, he should stop insulting me... To the mods, Romanoff is a cyber bully please tell him to get off my back... Thank you


I brought it here because I don't know how to go through the necessary channels to report an abusive person.....

LikeAking:


Nonsense!

Real men no suppose focus on that kind money..

Anything thing gift shud go to my wife n kids.

ElijahIme1992:
so wat of the emotional support nko

frozen70:


Is the father the one who carried the pregnancy

The money given to the mother is to appreciate her efforts and a gift to the baby

Afonjacrusder:


Do you know that Army officer you have been posting everywhere here on Nairaland?

LikeAking:


Nonsense!

Real men no suppose focus on that kind money..

Anything thing gift shud go to my wife n kids.

Romanoff:


Rotfl. You bought market when you mentioned and insulted me.

Next time you see my comment, just look and pass.

TPound:


So I sent my sperm through Xender bah??
I no make effort bah....
The food I eat, the water I drink, the nutrients and vitamins I take to nourish the sperms, no be money I take buy am?
The world never favors men..always the other gender

SultanOfPuna:
He is 1000% correct

Without the Father's sperm
That Egg will flush out as period straight to the toilet.
Because the Egg is useless without sperm
That's why the body flush it out.
So sperm is very very important
The sperm giver is the Father

The Father is the Leader of The Household
All responsibility is on his neck

All monetary gift should be given to the Father.

ElijahIme1992:
so wat of the emotional support nko

t2luv1:


Partner, you can buy sperm at the sperm bank for $50 freaking dollar. Buying an egg is an entirely other matter. So which one again is more important? I know of a black woman here in Miami making over $200k a year that has had two kids each time she bought sperm. The kids are doing fine. Too bad women in Nigeria still think you need to sleep with a man to make a baby. The world is freaking changing. Go to any sperm bank you will see the line of men donating sperm for money. Just wait until science find a way to preserve the sperm then they will be selling it on Amazon.

irunoko:


Ode.you follow am experienced the morning sickness, nausea,back pains,body and hormonal changes,loss in beauty and body scars,loss of blood and sleep that comes with pregnancy, child delivery and nursing and infant or another human being relying on your body for food and sleep, the nipple pain, nipple biting, stretch Marks and tear in the vagina or cs?

Respect yourself o

frozen70:


When you visit a family and you are about going, the gift you drop, do you say to the kids

Take, mummy will use it and buy something for you

Or you say, take children, dady will will use it and buy something

benjackugo:
Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother - Nigerian Man

The parent shouldnt pay attention to that money instead a savings account be opened in the name of the child for gifts and also contribution for fees and expenses in the future.

A Nigerian man, Seye Dele, has said that people visiting couples who welcomed babies should give money to the fathers instead of the mothers, IGBERETV reports.



https://twitter.com/seyedele/status/1615655626994065408?s=19

Oizee:
Kai, u are a woman using a male moniker, see how u described everything perfectly

frozen70:


Is the father the one who carried the pregnancy

The money given to the mother is to appreciate her efforts and a gift to the baby

Honjoshy4u:
May God punish poverty.
Na poverty go make you say I like that small thing when be like cocoyam because e de thirst like yam.

Na the man carry the belle?
If the man should take the envelope, let the man be ready to take the hot water that accompanies omugwo.

Hustle oooooooo .....

benjackugo:
Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother - Nigerian Man

A Nigerian man, Seye Dele, has said that people visiting couples who welcomed babies should give money to the fathers instead of the mothers, IGBERETV reports.



https://twitter.com/seyedele/status/1615655626994065408?s=19

Tycyborg:


Who is spending the hospital bills, clothing's for both mother and child and other monetary stuff? Is it not the father? What effort are you talking about? It's a normal biology... Can you thank me for eating or for walking or for sweating when there is heat? You people are so greedy and think upside down to an extent you females even always want people to give you condolences while on menstruation � imagine?
Instead of money to be given to the father to assit him of his effort to provide it was given to a woman who wasn't paying a dime?
If it were to be baby clothes and so on yeah it should be given to the mother cos it's her role to play but money should be given to the father because it's his role to play. Damn

TPound:


I say.."Take children... Your parents will use it to buy you something nice...
It was a joint effort, don't practice favouritism by favouring a parent than the other...
Except of course he/she amongst them is a deadbeat

Tycyborg:


It's not poverty and infact you are the one that has the poverty mindset...
So are you saying if I have a car it's bad or a taboo for someone to gift me a car just because I own one? Same applies to everything in life... It's called appreciation to the person carrying that burden... Obi cubana is a rich guy but when his mother died he received so many gifts and money... Why didn't they give the wife? They gave it to him because all expense burden will be on him... Not that he can't afford but they use it to appreciate him...
Now who thinks like a proverty trojan?
It's nothin personal just an explanation simple.
Guys like you put unnecessary or supports unnecessary hardship on manhood and yet start complaining to be a man is not easy when you are all making life harder for yourself cos of rubbish ego

benjackugo:
Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother - Nigerian Man

A Nigerian man, Seye Dele, has said that people visiting couples who welcomed babies should give money to the fathers instead of the mothers, IGBERETV reports.



https://twitter.com/seyedele/status/1615655626994065408?s=19

frozen70:


Have you ever seen children giving their monetary gift to Dad

No they don't and even when they do

Dad will tell them to go and give to your mum

The Dad will never ever ask the mum what she does with the money

So you can drag your children own with your wife

Na you go tire

TPound:


You're getting it all wrong...
The bone if contention is that it's not only the mother who single handedly birthed the kids...always remember the father

frozen70:


You need to visit labour room during child birth

So wait till you get married

Honjoshy4u:



So you mean when your wife give birth, you will just seat and collect all the envelope that is normally gifted to wives? Or you didn't read the article? Comparing Cubana's case with this is like comparing apple and orange.
Sorry to say, you lack common sense.

frozen70:


Are you aware that all you mentioned that are provided by father's, are actually done by some mothers in most homes

Wait till you get married and have a baby then stand firm to challenge anyone giving your wife money for the birth of a new born baby instead of you

If you continue with this your mentality

Your will be collecting breakfast steady from your wife

Learn to appreciate a woman who gave birth

Its a journey that women goes through by God's grace

When a mad woman puts to bed under the bridge, go there and challenge the people who are making contributions and donations to her instead of asking for the idiot that pregnanted her

You need to marry and get experience because you don't have any idea of what you are arguing about

Tycyborg:


Read my quotes again I said men are responsible for the spending hence the money should be given to the men because they are the actual one spending and again after all men were the once taking care of the family no matter how much the wife is contributing...
I compared obi cubana when you said it's poverty that makes people think woman shouldn't collect the money... And I added obi cubana for you to understand my point.
You are the one who lack common sense because I have to breakdown my comment to you bits by bits like you are 5 years old because I only do this when I speak to kids...
Let me not use sacarsm on you because you might hurt your brain thinking too much to decipher the message